Civie or Pro?

Do you prefer sex with a civie or a pro?

  • 1) Civie

    Votes: 22 26.8%
  • 2) Pro

    Votes: 16 19.5%
  • 3) Both

    Votes: 44 53.7%
  • 4) Neither

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    82
  • Poll closed .

poker

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Thanks for the answer.
I would expect more SPs to be able to play submissive since guys like to think they want to be dominant, but in terms of actual tendencies I would be surprised if there is a huge difference.

(And I fully support going for androgynous females on the civvie side, they tend to be awesome.)
Oh ffs! Now I have to look up what “androgynous” means. Thank you… wasn’t busy over here or anything!

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Well no shit eh. Learn something new everyday.
 
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Josephine Grey

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Both.

Civy because feelings makes everything exponential. It's different and special. I don't have a job to do. I do it because I want to. BUT I have a tendency to feel trapped.

Pro: Sometimes magic happens and when the magic is over you both leave with a smile...until next time.
 
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Darts

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Both.

Civy because feelings makes everything exponential. It's different and special. I don't have a job to do. I do it because I want to. BUT I have a tendency to feel trapped.

Pro: Sometimes magic happens and when the magic is over you both leave with a smile...until next time.
Do you swing both ways as well (i.e. bi-sexual)? You don't have to answer.
 
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Josephine Grey

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Do you swing both ways as well (i.e. bi-sexual)? You don't have to answer.
Just men (so far) when it comes to relationship. Sex with women is awesome tho. Maybe I am slightly intimidated to explore in that direction.

However, when I find a woman attractive they are more on the androgenous/masculine side. It's more about the attitude. ☺ (blushing now)
 

Tashki

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I am surpised how Civie is winning over Pro by a landslide. I only had sex with one Civie in my life but I always considered most of my sessions with Pro’s absolutely amazing. Alot of orgasms , sexy lingerie , feeling and sucking big breast implanted pornstar sized tits , intense french kissing, had some sessions where I came twice, had one session where I came thrice

So you guys are telling me that having sex with Civies is better than a Pro including the experiences that I just described? Am I really missing out on not having enough sex with Civies due to the lack of genuine romance in my life?
 

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I am surpised how Civie is winning over Pro by a landslide. I only had sex with one Civie in my life but I always considered most of my sessions with Pro’s absolutely amazing. Alot of orgasms , sexy lingerie , feeling and sucking big breast implanted pornstar sized tits , intense french kissing, had some sessions where I came twice, had one session where I came thrice

So you guys are telling me that having sex with Civies is better than a Pro including the experiences that I just described? Am I really missing out on not having enough sex with Civies due to the lack of genuine romance in my life?
Ya, man. Sex with a Civilian is better. No question. A gold digger, sugar baby, etc. is not a Civilian.
 
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The hooking up with a civie is great because you both are allowed to have that awkward fumbling and slowly allow yourself to get into the moment ^-^


Sides I can't really say if pro is better because most of my experiences are threesomes which generally don't get super crazy
 

Darts

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Great voter turnout (70). Even better is all the posts so far are intelligent, rational and civil which is not always the case with TERB.
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The hooking up with a civie is great because you both are allowed to have that awkward fumbling and slowly allow yourself to get into the moment ^-^


Sides I can't really say if pro is better because most of my experiences are threesomes which generally don't get super crazy
“Awkward fumbling”. Love it. Perfect description, the fumbling leads to a great buildup till you finally get into your groove.
 
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RichardG2020

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Hmmmm…

I definitely enjoy both.

However, some of the hottest sex I’ve had is when I repeat with an SP that I have good chemistry with, and the subsequent encounters feel like we’re more like intimate lovers rather than SP and client.

It’s like a fusion of Civvie and Pro experiences.
 

Darts

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Poll is now closed. Pretty good voter turnout (82). Thanks to all the posters for making this an intelligent, rational and civil poll/thread.

I leave you with a video of our NYE party. Thank goodness you can't see my face in the vid. It was a terrible job but somebody had to entertain the ladies. Just kidding!
 

Darts

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One last thing. We are out of whipped cream. So if anybody has some, please call 555-321-0007.

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GameBoy27

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I don't see SPs, but I enjoy the odd massage with an happy ending. Primary focus there is on a good massage. The HJ is just a bonus. On a couple rare occasions I ended up having sex with the MPA but it was totally unexpected, which is what made it really good. So I voted sex with civies. The thought of planning to go out and pay someone to fuck me, somehow doesn't have same appeal as having sex with a civie. Something about the thrill of the chase and the randomness of the one night stand that makes it so great.

Damn, missed the deadline to vote.
 
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