Civie or Pro?
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I've had some outstanding experiences in both categories, and a tons of starfish along the way. It's all about connecting with the right person.
Personally I have a slight preference for civies because they do it because they like/love you. I find pros do it because it is almost always because it's their job.
On the other hand, civies usually expect some degree of emotional and longer term commitments. Whereas you pay the fare for a pro and can just walk away.
Juice Newton - Angel Of The Morning (Official Music Video) - YouTube
On the other hand, civies usually expect some degree of emotional and longer term commitments. Whereas you pay the fare for a pro and can just walk away.
Juice Newton - Angel Of The Morning (Official Music Video) - YouTube
Pretty much sums it up.
Pro for when I want to do no emotional labor and if I am looking for a specific look or fantasy.
Civvie for the stronger emotional connection and more likely to do more esoteric kinks and play.
I've had the pleasure of having great sex with both. Hope to continue having some great sex for a few years..... I've learnt from both.
No surprise that "Both" is leading by a wide margin. However, the votes for civie and pro is interesting.
I don't vote in my own poll but I prefer civie considering all factors. Simply stated, civies do it because they like you, pros do it because it's their job. Pros, obviously, have more experience and are probably more skillful.
I don't vote in my own poll but I prefer civie considering all factors. Simply stated, civies do it because they like you, pros do it because it's their job. Pros, obviously, have more experience and are probably more skillful.
My best experiences have been with civilians. The pursuit, banter, desire is real and really addictive. Now married, it is dangerous but my dick gets hard on another level. I haven’t been able to match that high yet with a SP.
I look back sometimes and I'm sure I passed up on some opportunities. All the right signals were there but it just didn't "feel right". One was the daughter of a friend. She did everything short of assaulting me, but it didn't feel right. I have no regrets.
That's not entirely true yes its a job however some of us are single and don't want relationships and we crave sex just as much as the guy does coming to see us. Ladies that just do it as a job and don't like sex don't last in this business because they get labeled as being mechanical and not interested which shuns guys away to not get repeats. Most escorts I know are excellent in sex and we want to share our talents with men for mutual pleasure. I love sex but I don't love having a husband or boyfriend so this job lets me feel independent and still sexual. Cause one night stands with civil men end up a huge headache just like civi woman can tend to cling on fast invade your space blow up your phone want a relationship or suck your dick and stop once she gets married lol
I hear ya…. In my younger years I was a “white knight” black and white type of guy. I wish I was all sorts of grey back then like I am now…
I still would not fuck my BF’s big-titted sister now though. I have boundaries! (Fuck she was hot. She made sure to rub them on me passing by or sliding her ass by my junk while scootching by…)
Ya…. What’s up with that move? My gleaming clean, well-formed dick is what SPs compliment me on. Wife seems to want no part of it now….
Civilian as things are much more spontaneous and adventurous. Whenever the mood has come up for either of us, didn’t matter where we were. Find somewhere a little more private and tons of fun.
Although my preference would be a civie, in this day and age, hooking up with a civie is more time consuming and expensive than it used to be compared to seeing a reputable pro.
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Yes, it does take more work, investment, etc.
She might also have emotional baggage, kids, etc.
It's just not right because she is your friend's daughter.
