can't stand this kind of hobbyist...
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Well I certainly didn't expect a little venting to draw so much attention. I guess that is how the board works. I do appreciate all the people that understand that this is not something that can be taken lightly. The fact that there is potential threats that I cannot predict or attempt to account for means to me ithat I don't want to take that risk. It is so hypocritical to say that it is not a big deal. Just a simple few words on a board about a certain provider would stop you from seeing them, yet I say it is no big deal, just a bad session, happens all the time, shouldn't bad mouth escorts, they are not all bad. Puh-lease...the very reason why this board is here is to protect against potential bad providers. You don't see us ladies having a forum to discuss and gossip about bad clients nevermind good clients. Let us at least not just label this as just another guy trying to approach a girl. Precaution should always be taken and if not then fantasy has already taken over.
As for me setting myself up for this. well i will accept that statement only if you can admit that you guys set yourself up for getting ripped off, falling in love for imaginary reasons, and most obviously undertand that their will be lables put on you true or not. Like the whole older guy with young girl in public. Sure it could be your employee, your babysitter, your wife, your daughter, but the truth is she is not. Remember that a huge factor in making those kind of things look regular in public heavily depends on the girl. And trust me, I was not exactly friendly with the guy i mentioned. You can lie to yourself, resent yourself, and hope people see it your way with no suspicion. whatever makes you sleep at night. when i say i can spot it a mile away, I really can tell when a girl might be an escort. I know because when I worked, I had good people that would tell me, warn me, educate me on the dead giveaway signs just like the neon 'prostitute' sign I don't have on my head anymore.
I didn't compliment much when I worked. I never led anyone on and always made it clear that it was fantasy. And if it was a comfortable client escort relationship that I truly enjoyed and started to see them as a friend, I would stop seeing them as a client and only as a friend, meaning I wouldn't want money. This expectation would be removed just like the expectation of sex. One major lession I learned was clients are clients and friends are friends. Can't be both. Face it. Plus the best guys are the ones that didn't need to continue to rely on money as a client to try and get into my pants.
My best friend, the former client, told me something so valuable. It is unhealthy to live two seperate lives. That is not reality. The two worlds will always meet. Before I started I would never even think of doing half the stuff I did when having sex. I also was never cautious of personal info, who I would talk to or most scary but true is even who I slept with just say it was clubbing hookup kind of thing. But now, no number listed, be aware of who is around me and for sure the potential of std's in non-work situation compared to work situations. It is the combination of both worlds that people should live in, because that is real and that is you. Fucking men for money is not something you can just forget and I mean hating it nd missing it. It was an adventure every night. So anyways I am ranting like this FF you guys claim I sound like.
But please as the mature gentleman you guys are plu the majority voice on this board, try not to dilute the influence of the hobby on ALL OF OUR LIVES. Pussy mixed with money is a powerful thing, agree?
-J xoxo
Sorry one more thing to add, if TERB is the all mighty force in the indutry doesn't it mean that when girls, working or retired, want to vent about the industry for couping reasons, should be permitted, encouraged, respected? Respect doesn't only end when the booking is over....unforunately the gfe does though hehehehehe
As for me setting myself up for this. well i will accept that statement only if you can admit that you guys set yourself up for getting ripped off, falling in love for imaginary reasons, and most obviously undertand that their will be lables put on you true or not. Like the whole older guy with young girl in public. Sure it could be your employee, your babysitter, your wife, your daughter, but the truth is she is not. Remember that a huge factor in making those kind of things look regular in public heavily depends on the girl. And trust me, I was not exactly friendly with the guy i mentioned. You can lie to yourself, resent yourself, and hope people see it your way with no suspicion. whatever makes you sleep at night. when i say i can spot it a mile away, I really can tell when a girl might be an escort. I know because when I worked, I had good people that would tell me, warn me, educate me on the dead giveaway signs just like the neon 'prostitute' sign I don't have on my head anymore.
I didn't compliment much when I worked. I never led anyone on and always made it clear that it was fantasy. And if it was a comfortable client escort relationship that I truly enjoyed and started to see them as a friend, I would stop seeing them as a client and only as a friend, meaning I wouldn't want money. This expectation would be removed just like the expectation of sex. One major lession I learned was clients are clients and friends are friends. Can't be both. Face it. Plus the best guys are the ones that didn't need to continue to rely on money as a client to try and get into my pants.
My best friend, the former client, told me something so valuable. It is unhealthy to live two seperate lives. That is not reality. The two worlds will always meet. Before I started I would never even think of doing half the stuff I did when having sex. I also was never cautious of personal info, who I would talk to or most scary but true is even who I slept with just say it was clubbing hookup kind of thing. But now, no number listed, be aware of who is around me and for sure the potential of std's in non-work situation compared to work situations. It is the combination of both worlds that people should live in, because that is real and that is you. Fucking men for money is not something you can just forget and I mean hating it nd missing it. It was an adventure every night. So anyways I am ranting like this FF you guys claim I sound like.
But please as the mature gentleman you guys are plu the majority voice on this board, try not to dilute the influence of the hobby on ALL OF OUR LIVES. Pussy mixed with money is a powerful thing, agree?-J xoxo
Sorry one more thing to add, if TERB is the all mighty force in the indutry doesn't it mean that when girls, working or retired, want to vent about the industry for couping reasons, should be permitted, encouraged, respected? Respect doesn't only end when the booking is over....unforunately the gfe does though hehehehehe
110 posts so far and I haven't said a word. Is it time to gracefully close this thread? God bless you all. Amen.
LOL why? so you can start another thread about how to back up data? lolRockslinger said:
It's been about a week, isn't it time you did?
Yes, this is how the board works: you say something and of the 24 thousand members, some come and post. Sometimes supporting what you say, sometimes against what you say, and sometimes right down the middle.ExGFE said:Well I certainly didn't expect a little venting to draw so much attention. I guess that is how the board works. I do appreciate all the people that understand that this is not something that can be taken lightly. The fact that there is potential threats that I cannot predict or attempt to account for means to me ithat I don't want to take that risk. It is so hypocritical to say that it is not a big deal. Just a simple few words on a board about a certain provider would stop you from seeing them, yet I say it is no big deal, just a bad session, happens all the time, shouldn't bad mouth escorts, they are not all bad. Puh-lease...the very reason why this board is here is to protect against potential bad providers. You don't see us ladies having a forum to discuss and gossip about bad clients nevermind good clients. Let us at least not just label this as just another guy trying to approach a girl. Precaution should always be taken and if not then fantasy has already taken over.
As for me setting myself up for this. well i will accept that statement only if you can admit that you guys set yourself up for getting ripped off, falling in love for imaginary reasons, and most obviously undertand that their will be lables put on you true or not. Like the whole older guy with young girl in public. Sure it could be your employee, your babysitter, your wife, your daughter, but the truth is she is not. Remember that a huge factor in making those kind of things look regular in public heavily depends on the girl. And trust me, I was not exactly friendly with the guy i mentioned. You can lie to yourself, resent yourself, and hope people see it your way with no suspicion. whatever makes you sleep at night. when i say i can spot it a mile away, I really can tell when a girl might be an escort. I know because when I worked, I had good people that would tell me, warn me, educate me on the dead giveaway signs just like the neon 'prostitute' sign I don't have on my head anymore.
I didn't compliment much when I worked. I never led anyone on and always made it clear that it was fantasy. And if it was a comfortable client escort relationship that I truly enjoyed and started to see them as a friend, I would stop seeing them as a client and only as a friend, meaning I wouldn't want money. This expectation would be removed just like the expectation of sex. One major lession I learned was clients are clients and friends are friends. Can't be both. Face it. Plus the best guys are the ones that didn't need to continue to rely on money as a client to try and get into my pants.
My best friend, the former client, told me something so valuable. It is unhealthy to live two seperate lives. That is not reality. The two worlds will always meet. Before I started I would never even think of doing half the stuff I did when having sex. I also was never cautious of personal info, who I would talk to or most scary but true is even who I slept with just say it was clubbing hookup kind of thing. But now, no number listed, be aware of who is around me and for sure the potential of std's in non-work situation compared to work situations. It is the combination of both worlds that people should live in, because that is real and that is you. Fucking men for money is not something you can just forget and I mean hating it nd missing it. It was an adventure every night. So anyways I am ranting like this FF you guys claim I sound like.
-J xoxo
Sorry one more thing to add, if TERB is the all mighty force in the indutry doesn't it mean that when girls, working or retired, want to vent about the industry for couping reasons, should be permitted, encouraged, respected? Respect doesn't only end when the booking is over....unforunately the gfe does though hehehehehe
Potential threats? By whom? Your ex clients? that's no different than the potentional threats us clients have when we invite a total stranger into our homes (and we have to provide all kinds of personal information: real name, real address, real telephone number, etc).
Older guy/younger lady: how do you know? You have NO way of knowing. I've taken my 21 yr old niece shopping and one summer I dated a woman 18 yrs my junior. The whole point is: you have no way of knowing unless there are distinct PDA's (public displays of affection) then who cares? Be happy that two people are happy together.
Setting ourselves up to get ripped off: No, we run the risk of getting ripped off, that's a big difference. What this board does is provide information to prevent that from happening. But I will admit that there are those that come here, read the review that the SP is a total ripoff, then go and see her anyways coming back to complain that he got ripped off.
As for being able to come here and vent, sure you can. I don't believe anyone here has been disrespectful. They may not agree with what you've said, but no one here has disrespected you (as much as you disrespect yourself by calling yourself a hooch).
Finally: yes, there IS a place for sp's to go and vent about clients. I guess you didn't get the memo?
For the record tboy, goldie335 called her a "Bitter ex-ho" in post #38 ...tboy said:
unfortunately, there's one in every crowd I guess
My apologies Rock for reviving this thread
Sorry SL, ExGFE used the term to describe herself and her friends in posts #4 and #16.......snowleopard said:For the record tboy, goldie335 called her a "Bitter ex-ho" in post #38 ...
unfortunately, there's one in every crowd I guess
My apologies Rock for reviving this thread
Apparently struck two cords with this guy ... sometimes you guys are too woodenAardvark154 said:
tboy is quite possibley hard of hearing or has gone blind or can't read brail either because he posts as if he never reads other peoples messages at all, just completely ignores their very existence. Sometimes he just comes in and starts saying things that don't make sense, for all I know tboy could be the very same guy for all I know. I mean most likely not, but I wouldn't be shocked at the extent of some of the real freaky guy's attempts and imagination.slowandeasy said:
at least I can spell....hooch.....lol....ExGFE said:tboy is quite possibley hard of hearing or has gone blind or can't read brail either because he posts as if he never reads other peoples messages at all, just completely ignores their very existence. Sometimes he just comes in and starts saying things that don't make sense, for all I know tboy could be the very same guy for all I know. I mean most likely not, but I wouldn't be shocked at the extent of some of the real freaky guy's attempts and imagination.
Don't let these guys get to ya! Just worry about the misonyists. Everyone else is quite cool!ExGFE said:tboy is quite possibley hard of hearing or has gone blind or can't read brail either because he posts as if he never reads other peoples messages at all, just completely ignores their very existence. Sometimes he just comes in and starts saying things that don't make sense, for all I know tboy could be the very same guy for all I know. I mean most likely not, but I wouldn't be shocked at the extent of some of the real freaky guy's attempts and imagination.
