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Can cops arrest you if you reply to fake backpage ad?

Nazia Noor

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As per title, might of answered a fake ad i think.
If they put a fake profile up and they made it clear that they were minor and you continued to engage in conversation of a sexual nature, with the intention to meet - well you will probably have issues.

If they didn't do any of that, then you haven't done anything that is illegal, and can stop worrying
 

trillgod

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she posted she was 19...but i asked her for rates and services..she posted her rates ..asked her incall and she went silent
 

Nazia Noor

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she posted she was 19...but i asked her for rates and services..she posted her rates ..asked her incall and she went silent
It is unlikely that it is a trap. She might be busy

(and unless you book, most providers will only provide the general vicinity of their location. Not their address)
 

trillgod

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ah okay...at what point does it become illegal? she posted price and services such as 120 BBJ FS
 

kstanb

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Like the recent under-age case, the LE will normally try to make you show up to the "incall", which is strategically located close to a school or religious institution, then they have you, the emails and the "envelope".
It is easier for getting arrested and convicted, otherwise your lawyer can play all sorts of games, like saying for example that you are just a prankster and you didn't have any intention of actually meeting, etc. Plus, it is also great material for newspapers/ TV daily news
 

kstanb

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If you read the article:

"Between 80- to 90-per cent of those we had conversation with, once they learned they were speaking with an alleged 16-year-old, didn’t follow through any further,” Casey said. “The 10-plus per cent that did follow through with the transaction and showed up knew exactly what they were doing.”

technically they could had charge the 80-90% Johns for "normal" prostitution... they just didn't. Their focus was on the much more serious offense of under age sex offense.
 

Just looking

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ah okay...at what point does it become illegal? she posted price and services such as 120 BBJ FS
I always say call the girls or ladies, They take text, but most want you to call them in the end anyway, so why not call from the start. Then nothing is on your phone. And I don't believe for a minute that cops are going to go to the trouble of tapping everyone's calls. They need a court order to listen. But if for some reason you go and it is a trap, Then you have it all on your phone, prices, asking BBBJ etc etc. That is intent to buy sex.

Call and do it the old way. I only text ladies I know such and Sweet Jamie or whoever.
 

Bostonmass

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When I text a SP, I only introduce myself and inquire about a time.
Very rarely do I ask about price, but I never ask about specific services.

Due to the very YMMV nature of this business, I've found asking about services is a waste of time. Do your research, use common sense, be a gentleman, and most times it works out fine.

That way , anyone viewing the text thread could never assume any sexual services were discussed.

In fact, I go out twice a week with different ladies for guitar lessons, that's all Judge Judy.
 

spraggamuffin

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Her hands were probably full.

Plus many women probably reply while they're with a client or responding to many clients.

I put all my questions in one text so she answers everything in one response.

Even if she leaves anything out, I know she may be busy, she already answered most of what I asked and so my second text is only a thank you and that's it.

Some guys overdo it by playing 20 questions asking one questions at a time waiting for a response to one question before asking another.

Which is why women have to cut them off or state text only or limited text etc.
 

oldjones

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See above.
From a practical point of view, for the police to come after you, they not only need clear evidence that you were offering money (the consideration) and that it was for a sexual service, but they also need to hunt you down and establish no one else could have been using that phone to send that message.

Given the paperwork involved and the tactical need to send two cops and a car to get you, that seems way more expensive than us taxpayers would be willing to pay just to stop a telephone pooner making an incall appointment.

But if they'd already busted that incall because the neighbours repeatedly complained about rowdy customers ….
 

SexB

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Don't use backpage !!

Especially after C 36 .

Stick to reputable agencies and well reviewed independent women.
I was about to post about sticking to reputable indies and agencies but GhostlyRebel beat me to it.

I know that BP is a popular destination for members of the "poverty club" but my opinion is that even if it means your don't hobby as often, save your money and pay a bit more for a reputable agency girl or indy.
 

GPIDEAL

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ah okay...at what point does it become illegal? she posted price and services such as 120 BBJ FS
By communicating for the purpose of obtaining for consideration her sexual services (she doesn't have to be under 18), you would be committing an indictable offence. You don't have to meet and or exchange money.

However, it's a question of fact if your communication was for the purpose of buying sex. You could've just been curious and asking how much, which would seem not to cross the point of no return.
 

GPIDEAL

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See above.
I'm not sure if asking how much a BJ costs would be enough because you could be kicking tires. The statute requires 'purpose' which to mean means actual or real intent to buy sex.

I also echo oldjones excellent point about practicality with regards to actual law enforcement on this type of situation.
 

GPIDEAL

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When I text a SP, I only introduce myself and inquire about a time.
Very rarely do I ask about price, but I never ask about specific services.

Due to the very YMMV nature of this business, I've found asking about services is a waste of time. Do your research, use common sense, be a gentleman, and most times it works out fine.

That way , anyone viewing the text thread could never assume any sexual services were discussed.

In fact, I go out twice a week with different ladies for guitar lessons, that's all Judge Judy.
GoWest in another handle made a valid point that you may be getting GFE when you want PSE, or GFE but no LFK or DFK, which could mean you might get less than what you're expecting if you don't communicate about specifics.

Best thing is to approach ladies with a reputable history. Better yet if they have a website with some mention of services. You don't have to discuss same and avoid the issue of communicating for the purpose of buying sex.
 

Luton

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it used to be. Harper and conservative party made Canada more American. He replaced old canadian British style laws with American laws
Sorry, it never has been in Ontario for a long time. You need the provincial government to enforce it and that was always missing in Ontario. I find it very tiresome your fearmongering.
 
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