Again, you guys proved my point. The media caused the controversy after the event.
btw, my alternate scenarios fit your 2 points as well. Why is the white house an exemption?
Again, had this been a charity golf tournament, this would not have been an issue. This also would have been a team function. You said it yourself shack, the white house is "a meaningless ritual nowadays". Why is it ok not to attend a charity golf tournament and not ok to not go to the white house? If a person is against abortion, most people would not blame that person for not participating in a pro abortion charity event with his team yet the white house is different!?!?
You asked me if there were any hypocrisy in not going to the white and I still believe that going to the white house would be hypocrisy and not the other way around.
I think you're missing the point completely
It's not the fact that he did not go to the White House that is such a big deal, it's the way that he expressed his reasons behind it. He very publicly broadcasted his opinions against the current government. For that reason, your charity golf tournament example is completely irrelevant. Plus an entire nhl hockey team would never be invited to a pro-abortion golf tournament. A more accurate equivalent would be if the Bruins were invited to a charity golf tournament raising funds for sick kids, and Thomas very publicly broadcasted that he strongly opposes helping those who are sick, especially children.
But I'll level with you for the sake of argument. If there was a charity golf tournament for pro-abortion, and every Bruin player except Thomas went to this tournament, AND Thomas publicly broadcasted why he is against abortion, then the exact same situation would have occurred. People would have criticized him for not shutting his fat mouth and just attending the meaningless ritual (a TEAM function). Instead, he decides to make a huge scene and make a way bigger deal out of it than it should be. He put unmeasurable stress on his teammates, and he refused to offer any remedy to the situation by refusing to talk to the media about it in the aftermath.
And the reality is, this wasn't a pointless charity golf event, this was an opportunity to meet the President of the United States, the leader of the free world, and go inside the White House, an opportunity that most people will never have in their lifetime. In simple terms, its a big deal. Why would try to create controversy?