Boring dinner dates
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oil&gas and kherg007 make very valid points.
What's the point in having money if you don't use it to grease the wheels to personal happiness. On the other end I got some brutal put downs from women who were not exactly high on the comely scale. Attractive women have already figured out how to deal with someone they're not into gently. I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, my dealings with women on a personal level have been difficult - but not impossible.
As for greasing the wheels, I don't mind paying for dinner and I do my best to keep it casual. Born with two left feet and Asperger's, if I do it any other way it can get embarrassing. Since I've been building my financial basilica, I don't get brutal put downs anymore.
As for what music was playing when I got freakishly lucky. Ahhhh Mozart.
What's the point in having money if you don't use it to grease the wheels to personal happiness. On the other end I got some brutal put downs from women who were not exactly high on the comely scale. Attractive women have already figured out how to deal with someone they're not into gently. I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, my dealings with women on a personal level have been difficult - but not impossible.
As for greasing the wheels, I don't mind paying for dinner and I do my best to keep it casual. Born with two left feet and Asperger's, if I do it any other way it can get embarrassing. Since I've been building my financial basilica, I don't get brutal put downs anymore.
As for what music was playing when I got freakishly lucky. Ahhhh Mozart.
TERB pretty much mirror's dating/dinner scene
3 C's_____
CHARM
COCK
CASH
Some guys rely Waaaaaaaaay too much on dropping $$$, others don't . . . . .
3 C's_____
CHARM
COCK
CASH
Some guys rely Waaaaaaaaay too much on dropping $$$, others don't . . . . .
You do know that there are women out there who date just for the free meal don't you? Some will also order more for take home.
I have sympathy for such women. I would take
her to a supermarket after the dinner for her to load
up a whole week's supply of groceries. I would gladly
cover the expenses for the dinner and groceries
so long as it wasn't a boring date.
her to a supermarket after the dinner for her to load
up a whole week's supply of groceries. I would gladly
cover the expenses for the dinner and groceries
so long as it wasn't a boring date.
I am an average conversationalist at best but I have learned a few important things when having a dinner date. Some are quite obvious but one of the most important, IMHO, is to maintain eye contact and don't look elsewhere often. There was one time when I was on a date at a very nice restaurant. We were maintaining a good conversation and I made sure my attention was 100% on her. After we finished dinner the female server stopped to talk with us and she said she just had to mention something to the both of us. She went on to say how she noticed throughout the night how the both of us maintained eye contact with each other constantly and It was obvious to her just how much we were into each other. Maybe she wanted a generous tip, who knows, but all I know is that my companion was completely impressed that someone would actually notice and say something like that.
That's just common sense. Imagine if your date was looking around checking out everything else but you.
Fellas, you can't take the money with you when you die. I say, spend it on women. It will increase your odds of a connection or sex, and that's really all that life is about. If she dates just for free dinners, you're helping to feed someone in need. Look at it as a donation to world hunger.
I love dinner dates and have no problem paying for dinner, I would not want a woman to pay for it or even just for herself.
It really doesn’t matter where she wants to go to dinner or the cost. It is not about money.
What I won’t do however is pay for her time to have dinner with me, sorry if a woman is going to sit across the dinner table from me it is going to be because she enjoys my company and wants to be there.
I may pay for sex, but I will not pay to buy a friend to have dinner with.
It really doesn’t matter where she wants to go to dinner or the cost. It is not about money.
What I won’t do however is pay for her time to have dinner with me, sorry if a woman is going to sit across the dinner table from me it is going to be because she enjoys my company and wants to be there.
I may pay for sex, but I will not pay to buy a friend to have dinner with.
It is not weird.
Actually it is fabulous to be sitting next to the most gorgeous girl in the place, and some are so interesting and amazing company, but that doesn’t mean that I would ever pay for their time, dinner by all means wherever they would like to eat.
Some of them are absolutely fascinating women and a pleasure to have dinner with.
This guy describes very well why the dating game has changed and the women that want you to wine and dine them just say next.
https://youtu.be/xrj7THoneq4
https://youtu.be/xrj7THoneq4
If things are going badly you can always excuse yourself,saying you are going to the washroom. Instead just head to the counter .Point to her table and tell the cashier/maitre de '"she's paying" and leave.
