Being sneaky

[rajbabba]

For most of us, we have being sneaky down to a fine art form. Hobbying when you have a significant other means sneaky becomes your middle name.

But do you find you are sneaky in other things you do?

Related to hobbying but I siphon off $200 every pay period (twice a month) into a separate account with the bigger remainder going into our joint account. My wife knows what I earn but has no idea what that means after taxes, pension contribution etc.

I know, very sneaky, but hey it goes to a good cause...my hobby!

So, apart from this hobby,in what other ways are you sneaky?

 

[asuran]

I suck at being sneaky.
But no SO, so I'm good.

 

[chongqing]

Why do you call this a hobby? A hobby is model aircraft. This is fucking around.

 

[chongqing]

Or stamp collecting

 

[chongqing]

Or restoring antique cars.

You get the idea....

 

[peter4025]

I collect memories so I can call this a hobby

 

[geeky]

"Hi, this is someone's wife. Please tell me all of the things i should check up on my husband" lol

 

[highpark]

When I was younger I couldn't tell a lie or exaggerate to save my life. And my wife was sharp as a tack.
Now I'm older , been knocked around a bit in life but I'm very experienced and I never get flustered. I never break a sweat no matter how tough the situation. I've been yelled at at work. Had people with medical emergencies count on me to save them. Had my kids in intensive care. Looked after my parents and siblings in life and death situations , held peoples hands while they die. Was in a bank during a robbery. Drove upon a gun fight and had to retell to police. Gave my wife a catheter while the nurse held the bag and the flashlight and took her vital signs. NOTHING , NOTHING, flusters me or knocks me off my game. I could lie down the barrel of a gun to my wife or whomever I need to for whatever reason I feel is justified or worthwhile.
My wife on the other hand is withering as she ages. Every time the kids get sick she gets more emotional. As each of our parents die she becomes more supersticous and flustered about her own health. If the roof leaks or there's s minor fender bender she freaks out. Her face turns red when the slightest event is a surprise or when she's put on the spot. She gets tired all the time hates exercise and loves sweets she seems to have much less self awareness energy than when she was young. It's easy to sneak around when I want. She has know idea what me or the kids r doing when we're not in her sight line. Kind of sad to see a person fade out as they age. I take good care of her even when she berates me and breaks my balls but I also need to looknout for myself and the kids.

 

[Titalian]

Why do you call this a hobby? A hobby is model aircraft. This is fucking around.

It sounds more civil, don't you think ?

 

[MelanieJolliet]

When I was younger I couldn't tell a lie or exaggerate to save my life. And my wife was sharp as a tack.
Now I'm older , been knocked around a bit in life but I'm very experienced and I never get flustered. I never break a sweat no matter how tough the situation. I've been yelled at at work. Had people with medical emergencies count on me to save them. Had my kids in intensive care. Looked after my parents and siblings in life and death situations , held peoples hands while they die. Was in a bank during a robbery. Drove upon a gun fight and had to retell to police. Gave my wife a catheter while the nurse held the bag and the flashlight and took her vital signs. NOTHING , NOTHING, flusters me or knocks me off my game. I could lie down the barrel of a gun to my wife or whomever I need to for whatever reason I feel is justified or worthwhile.
My wife on the other hand is withering as she ages. Every time the kids get sick she gets more emotional. As each of our parents die she becomes more supersticous and flustered about her own health. If the roof leaks or there's s minor fender bender she freaks out. Her face turns red when the slightest event is a surprise or when she's put on the spot. She gets tired all the time hates exercise and loves sweets she seems to have much less self awareness energy than when she was young. It's easy to sneak around when I want. She has know idea what me or the kids r doing when we're not in her sight line. Kind of sad to see a person fade out as they age. I take good care of her even when she berates me and breaks my balls but I also need to looknout for myself and the kids.

Awww...what a sweetie (can I say that safely and without taking away your 'man card'?)

 

[Butler1000]

It's all about taking care of your shit at home. And not suddenly changing your habits.

I do most of the cooking, my share of the housework, above my share of the yardwork. She has other things she does. Equal partnership.

So when I go out with friends I have the benefit of the doubt. And good friends who will back me up.

It's the guys in bad relationships who hobby who get caught. The ones who take care of their relationship FIRST get to play easy.

 

[MissCroft]

I suck at being sneaky.
But no SO, so I'm good.

Same here. I always get caught when I try to be sneaky but no SO so I don't have to worry. lol

 

[Mable]

I have gotten around this by having given my s.o. full disclosure when I decided to start this hobby. I insisted to myself that I would not be a "lying cheating bastard" and a "typical man" and give her, or any woman for that matter, fodder for my character assassination (or for men in general). So, with eyes wide open and knowing why, she had, and has, the choice to walk. And, oh yes, I conduct my other business in the same way. Nothing is worth self immolation.

 

[SkyRider]

NOTHING , NOTHING, flusters me or knocks me off my game.

You and I share a similar basic philosophy. Life is short. Don't sweat the small stuff or even some of the bigger ones.

 

[highpark]

Hi skyrider ... I so agree I'm over 50. Seen so much shit. Even if I wanted to get flustered itd be hard to do. And at my age I figure every good day is a party. A hundred years ago people our age would be dead. So we're on borrowed time. Let's make the most of it.

 

[Marla]

My relationship just ended because of what i do even though I met him as a client; he couldn't abide by it and got down right nasty about it including calling me derogatory names. I have vowed next time there is no way I will ever divulge to a partner what i do or did EVER.

 

[MissCroft]

My relationship just ended because of what i do even though I met him as a client; he couldn't abide by it and got down right nasty about it including calling me derogatory names. I have vowed next time there is no way I will ever divulge to a partner what i do or did EVER.

Sorry to hear that Marla. I've also lost out on a relationship or two because of what I do. The fact that you met him as a client makes him a hypocrite for sure but I'm not sure it's a good idea to keep it a secret. I have vowed that I will always tell any man I meet about that part of my life. It is his choice if he is willing to accept it or not.


I made the mistake of trying to hide it from a man who I really liked and it blew up in my face. I still regret it.

 

[steve_FPO]

Well said

Listen,

Cover your tracks guys.
I've had calls from private number's asking who I was from female callers.

So I have had to turn it around on them and say who is this? You don't call from a private number asking details about the person you are calling, hellooo? Lol

You gotta delete your contacts texts and anything else that will leave a trail. Dont share phone accounts she can see who u r calling and txting. And if she's really smart some companies have the text messages u can view on the pc.

This is a hobby. Not fucking around.. someone said that above. If u enjoy getting your girly parts sucked off or your body massaged head to toe then it's a hobby.
When I go for massage or to get nails done that is a hobby of sorts. Not everyone collects stamps or makes model airplanes, some enjoy getting their model airplane waxed and shined. Why not? We are all animals and here to enjoy. God made us as sexual creatures so enjoy.

Just CYA for those who signed a legal and binding contract to be monogamous.