I diagree. I can usually sniff out a made-up story. To me, there are just too many tells that lead me conclude this is 100% real. However, I do still think that on some level he does have feelings for her, although he denies it. I could be wrong on that, though.
Bad date experiences
- Thread starter SlickRickBBD
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Doesn't seem like he has emotional feelings. He generally only brought her 2 gifts which were small and the 3rd was due to being her bday. Either way it's annoying af and a huge mood kill what she did. And at $600/90mins it's good he got a full refund. Some people are that oblivious in this world, but he finally told her what the issues were when he was trying to even sway the convo and she wasn't getting it. Some people are built like that.
She never learned from this lesson. And she never will. 95 % of the people never learn from anything.
Not good to give a second chance RFM.
You have to stand up for the paid service or this would not be respect to the client.
I have to agree, one of those AI or the loco poster lurking / trolling here.
Also to @SlickRickBBD to me this sounds like someone mentioned / posted, she was getting ready to dump you because she moved up to the big leagues or was bored with you, seen this type of behavior with regular people.
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I agree with the above user. If she did this on purpose instead of being ditsy there was probably 2 reasons:
1. Like already stated above to dump you and move on. Her having a 5 hour longer date and putting the dress out there could have been a lie, but it doesn't really matter if it was the truth or not.
2. Because she reached back out to you and apologized she probably still wants you as a client but perhaps her motive was to make you jealous or something so that you yourself would spend more on her next time than 90 mins or you get jealous and want to match or out due the guy who's coming for 5 hours.
Could be a business tactic a SP uses to lure clients into spending more. In this "game", "session", "play", etc. whatever you wanna call it it's about at times knowing how to sell so the consumer spends more. Some of these SPs who can get miserable due to their wants will also at times perhaps use emotion to get someone to help them out without putting in the work like some trade worker renovating her place at very little or free of charge basically with maybe some action here or there. It's generally the nice guys who fall for it or think in the back of their mind she'll actually fall for him or want them.
I personally won't date anyone anymore who's wanting, wanting and wanting and will cry wolf because I didn't give into another request. I have dated the few like this in my 20's and it's super annoying. The guy seeing her for 5 hours might only see her a few times then move on to another lady. Then she'll be miserable because she's lost that revenue coming in. Some of these ladies have some "Cinderalla" mindset where some wealthy guy will end up with them and shower them. It's also annoying if you start gifting people bigger items like a luxury bag because then they expect gifts in that price range or higher and it gets annoying. It becomes a game of "OMG my client/bf got me an authentic LV bag, but after that he keeps getting me items worth less". In their minds they think that you think they are worth less and get upset and move on to the next guy with funds. A lot of rich people and celebs typically deal with this too if they date those kinds of woman and men tend to lash out once the money is draining or they get tired of spending on things to constantly please someone that's highly materialistic and most people (men or women) that are materialistic in a sense live sad lives. The idea you need to walk out of your place rocking a brand that shouts "I'm wearing a badge that cost $400" usually leads to a sad life where people like that struggle with happiness.
You got time to think about the entire thing in your head and if you and her still wanna see each other because the sex was fire then continue otherwise there's nothing wrong with moving on because there's tons of options out there for her and yourself. Shrug it off and carry on. And generally when a SP finds a suitable partner/bf she tends to retire from this line of business and most times there's no need for her to tell any client (including who was her first) that she's done with the business.
1. Like already stated above to dump you and move on. Her having a 5 hour longer date and putting the dress out there could have been a lie, but it doesn't really matter if it was the truth or not.
2. Because she reached back out to you and apologized she probably still wants you as a client but perhaps her motive was to make you jealous or something so that you yourself would spend more on her next time than 90 mins or you get jealous and want to match or out due the guy who's coming for 5 hours.
Could be a business tactic a SP uses to lure clients into spending more. In this "game", "session", "play", etc. whatever you wanna call it it's about at times knowing how to sell so the consumer spends more. Some of these SPs who can get miserable due to their wants will also at times perhaps use emotion to get someone to help them out without putting in the work like some trade worker renovating her place at very little or free of charge basically with maybe some action here or there. It's generally the nice guys who fall for it or think in the back of their mind she'll actually fall for him or want them.
I personally won't date anyone anymore who's wanting, wanting and wanting and will cry wolf because I didn't give into another request. I have dated the few like this in my 20's and it's super annoying. The guy seeing her for 5 hours might only see her a few times then move on to another lady. Then she'll be miserable because she's lost that revenue coming in. Some of these ladies have some "Cinderalla" mindset where some wealthy guy will end up with them and shower them. It's also annoying if you start gifting people bigger items like a luxury bag because then they expect gifts in that price range or higher and it gets annoying. It becomes a game of "OMG my client/bf got me an authentic LV bag, but after that he keeps getting me items worth less". In their minds they think that you think they are worth less and get upset and move on to the next guy with funds. A lot of rich people and celebs typically deal with this too if they date those kinds of woman and men tend to lash out once the money is draining or they get tired of spending on things to constantly please someone that's highly materialistic and most people (men or women) that are materialistic in a sense live sad lives. The idea you need to walk out of your place rocking a brand that shouts "I'm wearing a badge that cost $400" usually leads to a sad life where people like that struggle with happiness.
You got time to think about the entire thing in your head and if you and her still wanna see each other because the sex was fire then continue otherwise there's nothing wrong with moving on because there's tons of options out there for her and yourself. Shrug it off and carry on. And generally when a SP finds a suitable partner/bf she tends to retire from this line of business and most times there's no need for her to tell any client (including who was her first) that she's done with the business.
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I find escorts with regular jobs and lives have a better understanding of the real world. They understand taxes, job hours and your funds are
not endless.
not endless.
I had a 1 hour meeting, services were fulfilled, she got up to freshen up a little after which I expected her to return to bed but instead she said she had to take care of something and got dressed. I didn't object since I figured we would carry on when she returned but then her words made it obvious that once she came back she expected me to leave. It was only when she had left that I realized I had been there for only +/- 35 minutes! Remember we're supposedly paying for companionship ( this wasn't a low cost or leolist sp ) and I had seen her before.
I didn't complain when she returned but followed her cues and left. Now by this point I had been there for almost an hour but she hadn't been!
Should I go see her ever again?
I didn't complain when she returned but followed her cues and left. Now by this point I had been there for almost an hour but she hadn't been!
Should I go see her ever again?
Absolutely notI had a 1 hour meeting, services were fulfilled, she got up to freshen up a little after which I expected her to return to bed but instead she said she had to take care of something and got dressed. I didn't object since I figured we would carry on when she returned but then her words made it obvious that once she came back she expected me to leave. It was only when she had left that I realized I had been there for only +/- 35 minutes! Remember we're supposedly paying for companionship ( this wasn't a low cost or leolist sp ) and I had seen her before.
I didn't complain when she returned but followed her cues and left. Now by this point I had been there for almost an hour but she hadn't been!
Should I go see her ever again?
You could inform her over text nicely about the situation and decide if you want to see her one more time or not. Some clients will speak up about it during a 1 hour session if the lady ends things early like after the first shot too. She could have spent time with you cuddling and making light convo or offering a massage, but most aren't RMTs and I find their massage to be just okay from the few who did give me one lol. For a hour session you should be getting close to the entire time you booked with her. Some ladies to pull things on clients like saying they have a headache as in hinting they don't want you to go round 2 either and just leave. Not worth repeating I'd say typically and they probably wonder why they can't get repeats at times.
The provider forgets the money will not be endless. Their income is impacted by the economy like everyone else. When a recession hits the client, they have less money for this hobby. The 5 hour date may get reduced 1 or 2 hours.
Looks fad. If they want to survive in the industry, service needs to be the priority.
Looks fad. If they want to survive in the industry, service needs to be the priority.
No and on 2 months time if not sooner with the way the economy is going she will regret not having as you as a reg.I had a 1 hour meeting, services were fulfilled, she got up to freshen up a little after which I expected her to return to bed but instead she said she had to take care of something and got dressed. I didn't object since I figured we would carry on when she returned but then her words made it obvious that once she came back she expected me to leave. It was only when she had left that I realized I had been there for only +/- 35 minutes! Remember we're supposedly paying for companionship ( this wasn't a low cost or leolist sp ) and I had seen her before.
I didn't complain when she returned but followed her cues and left. Now by this point I had been there for almost an hour but she hadn't been!
Should I go see her ever again?
It sounds like she was taking a good client for granted, got called out on it (good on you OP) and eventually saw the error of her ways. She apologised and returned the fee (good on her)
It’s pretty hard for most of us to admit we’ve made a mistake, and TBH she seems more mature than I’d initially thought.
I find it very distasteful when SP’s talk about other clients though, both good and bad. Any other professional should never do this and if an SP wants to be treated like one she shouldn’t either. If my lawyer started telling me about her other clients she’d be done as my counsel in a heartbeat. For a lawyer it’s simply unethical. But the best SP’s are fantastic creating an illusion of companionship and connection for her clients. The guy she’s with should be the focus of her attention for every minute of the date, and when an SP achieves this she’s at the top tier of her profession, no matter what her rates are.
It’s also similar to SP’s posting pictures of expensive gifts and trips on their social media. I don't like it, and it turns me off of wanting to see her.
It’s pretty hard for most of us to admit we’ve made a mistake, and TBH she seems more mature than I’d initially thought.
I find it very distasteful when SP’s talk about other clients though, both good and bad. Any other professional should never do this and if an SP wants to be treated like one she shouldn’t either. If my lawyer started telling me about her other clients she’d be done as my counsel in a heartbeat. For a lawyer it’s simply unethical. But the best SP’s are fantastic creating an illusion of companionship and connection for her clients. The guy she’s with should be the focus of her attention for every minute of the date, and when an SP achieves this she’s at the top tier of her profession, no matter what her rates are.
It’s also similar to SP’s posting pictures of expensive gifts and trips on their social media. I don't like it, and it turns me off of wanting to see her.
When she talks about other clients, she probably talks about you as well.
>> It seems that you had some feelings/connection with her. Hence the repeats and gifts, something that one normally wouldn't do unless they really cared about the person. Also, I can sense the hurt (understandbly) that wouldn't exist if you had no feelings for her. <<<
This shouldn't be an assumption or a blanket statement, IMO. I have seen a handful of SPs for multi hour dates, multiple times (repeats) and I typically have some type of gift(s) for them. Just because I have done what you described, doesn't mean I have feelings for them. I value the time I spend with them, and I appreciate the friendliness the SPs have shown me, but that doesn't mean I've fallen for them. I KNOW this is a business. I KNOW this is a transaction. But, some SPs can turn that transaction into companionship. That's what I look forward. The way I look at it... I repeat with SPs that I am comfortable with. I look at it like I just made another friend...but not a GF. That's why it's called the girlfriend EXPERIENCE. I enjoy giving them a gift because I like being nice to people that are nice to me. If I met a stranger at the bar and we're having a great time yakking it up, there's a good chance I'll buy them a beer. It doesn't mean I want to marry them or become BFF with them!
Going back to the OP post... I couldn't imagine going thru that. I'm just thinking of the SPs I have repeated with... and I can't even fathom them doing such a thing. I am glad you spoke up (professionally and politely) and I am torn on what you should do based on her reaction. I will give her credit for sending back the money and profusely apologizing. Who knows... maybe she was just having a bad day or just wasn't on her game that particular moment. We are all humans. We all make mistakes. She tried to make it right (after the fact) but I can understand why you wouldn't want to go back. This is a sales job. You are only as good as your last sale.
I would take her up on that. That's a lovely gesture. Together with the refund, it sound like she wants to make ammends.
Listen, especially if she is young, she was probably excited about her upcoming 5 hr date and because she is comfortable with you, she wanted to share. It's good that you corrected her but there's no point to have sour grapes about. Forgive her and go enjoy that free session.
If not, let me have it.
100%I would take her up on that. That's a lovely gesture. Together with the refund, it sound like she wants to make ammends.
Listen, especially if she is young, she was probably excited about her upcoming 5 hr date and because she is comfortable with you, she wanted to share. It's good that you corrected her but there's no point to have sour grapes about. Forgive her and go enjoy that free session.
If not, let me have it.
If anything, I think future sessions will be even better. We all make mistakes, it takes a big man to forgive and forget.
In her defense, men kind of normalize talking about their sex partners and being open and honest is what makes a good provider.
You might be jealous she sees other people but that is the reality of the situation. She hasnt done anytbing wrong except forget some men want to live in the security ofbthe delusion that theyre the only ONE.
the true reality is that we hear about people cheating on their wifes and girlfriends. Especially if theyre sick, pregnant, loyal for decades. They get repayed by their husband paying prostitutes for swx and exposing them to diseases and other sexual escapade putting them at risk.
Its hard to draw the line on what's ok and what's not when you hear disgusting, traumatizing stuff all day and you just have to act like everything is normal.
Shes not happy about that date later. He's probably weird and boring. The truth is everyone is weird and boring. If they weren't weird, boring and bad at sex and if we loved having sex with weird men that were bad at sex it wouldn't cost $600 to be in the same room with her. She's not your girlfriend. She doesn't owe you loyalty the same way you don't owe her anything.
Things got weird and its probably best if you stop seeing her if you feel like you have to censor her and control her words to save your feelings. A woman shouldn't have to walk on eggshells to save you from your own feelings about a situation. That's not her job.
We often have to hear about serial cheating, high risk std seeking behavior, homosexual behavior, unprotected sex with multiple people and sex with every other provider in the area like it's just a normal conversation. I hear stuff that makes me want to put on a hazmat suit, but instead we smile and nod and thank God these people are someone else's problem.
Not everyone has the same hang ups you do. MOST people tell their prostitute everything like they're a therapist. Even therapists get therapy ro decompress from the BS they have to hear. For some reason hookers have to hear everything and never get to talk about how fucked up it is.
She's seeing another higher paying customer but the truth is, you all suck. She'd rather be doing anything else. She doesn't know what she did but she's learning she has to treat grown men like babies and hold their hands. One day she'll find a real man and worship bother ground he walks on because he's nothing like the johns she had to put up with.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and make an educated guess that your married. You show up with a wedding ring on and talk about your wife and how much you "love her" and you expect your prostitute to care about your marital problems and hear about how often you cheat on your wife with multiple women with family funds... and then only see you... when you cant even see one woman. Why the hell should she hide that she's a prostitute from you? She sees multiple men before and after you. If you have an issue with that... that's on you. You see a prostitute for a few hours at a time and expect her to only have eyes for you as a client but she doesn't exist to you unless you want sex and to cheat on a loyal partner... you think paying her for an hour or two means she has to modify her entire personality to cater to you...
Get a sex doll, they have the personality you're looking for.
Ridiculous double standard.
You might be jealous she sees other people but that is the reality of the situation. She hasnt done anytbing wrong except forget some men want to live in the security ofbthe delusion that theyre the only ONE.
the true reality is that we hear about people cheating on their wifes and girlfriends. Especially if theyre sick, pregnant, loyal for decades. They get repayed by their husband paying prostitutes for swx and exposing them to diseases and other sexual escapade putting them at risk.
Its hard to draw the line on what's ok and what's not when you hear disgusting, traumatizing stuff all day and you just have to act like everything is normal.
Shes not happy about that date later. He's probably weird and boring. The truth is everyone is weird and boring. If they weren't weird, boring and bad at sex and if we loved having sex with weird men that were bad at sex it wouldn't cost $600 to be in the same room with her. She's not your girlfriend. She doesn't owe you loyalty the same way you don't owe her anything.
Things got weird and its probably best if you stop seeing her if you feel like you have to censor her and control her words to save your feelings. A woman shouldn't have to walk on eggshells to save you from your own feelings about a situation. That's not her job.
We often have to hear about serial cheating, high risk std seeking behavior, homosexual behavior, unprotected sex with multiple people and sex with every other provider in the area like it's just a normal conversation. I hear stuff that makes me want to put on a hazmat suit, but instead we smile and nod and thank God these people are someone else's problem.
Not everyone has the same hang ups you do. MOST people tell their prostitute everything like they're a therapist. Even therapists get therapy ro decompress from the BS they have to hear. For some reason hookers have to hear everything and never get to talk about how fucked up it is.
She's seeing another higher paying customer but the truth is, you all suck. She'd rather be doing anything else. She doesn't know what she did but she's learning she has to treat grown men like babies and hold their hands. One day she'll find a real man and worship bother ground he walks on because he's nothing like the johns she had to put up with.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and make an educated guess that your married. You show up with a wedding ring on and talk about your wife and how much you "love her" and you expect your prostitute to care about your marital problems and hear about how often you cheat on your wife with multiple women with family funds... and then only see you... when you cant even see one woman. Why the hell should she hide that she's a prostitute from you? She sees multiple men before and after you. If you have an issue with that... that's on you. You see a prostitute for a few hours at a time and expect her to only have eyes for you as a client but she doesn't exist to you unless you want sex and to cheat on a loyal partner... you think paying her for an hour or two means she has to modify her entire personality to cater to you...
Get a sex doll, they have the personality you're looking for.
Ridiculous double standard.
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He never mentioned if he's married or has a partner. If he does and spoke about it with a SP then sure it's double standard if he was bragging about her or past partners. I personally wouldn't be bringing that stuff up with a SP if I was in that situation but I suppose some clients want to vent to another lady about their partner's sex drive decreasing and such. If that's the case sure double standard in regards to venting not bragging. I've never spoken to a SP about any past relationships or much about my previous marriage and if she's talking to me about a guy she is seeing and venting about him while making small talk within a longer session I got no issue with giving her advice. But if it's a H session or less then less talk and get on with the show. We are paying you for a "show/service". I've read reviews on here about some SPs being overly chatty in short sessions and guys just have to cut her short and physical slowly redirect her for action which does work otherwise you wasted money to talk a lot. Not all clients I'd say show up to a SP and brag about a future date they have coming up. If they are that should be like some unwritten rule you don't do. And if people are talking about taking their wife/partner to some place for vacation or whatever they shouldn't.
