Asian Man on the Totem Pole

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One gorgeous goldigging caucasian female told me that in general physically, black can satisfy her, but not economically and socially, whereas economically, asian men can satisfy her but not physically and socially, and only the white man can do both. She has a black umemployed lover, and a Hong Kong sugar daddy, but a white guy is seen with her in public. She is supported well all around, but racist in her views.
 

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lomotil said:
One gorgeous goldigging caucasian female told me that in general physically, black can satisfy her, but not economically and socially, whereas economically, asian men can satisfy her but not physically and socially, and only the white man can do both. She has a black umemployed lover, and a Hong Kong sugar daddy, but a white guy is seen with her in public. She is supported well all around, but racist in her views.
What agency does she work for?
 

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lomotil said:
One gorgeous goldigging caucasian female told that asian men can satisfy her but not physically and socially
It sucks to be a girl with a small tight social circle and a big loose pussy. Poor thing. :eek:
 

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Do the Asian brothers out there get the sense we are at the bottom of the totem pole?

I get the sense that some Asian girls would rather go out with an overweight, balding white guy than with one of us. Many white girls seem to prefer a black guy with dead-end job than one of us even if we are well kept with good jobs.

Just a thought/observation ...
Don't worry man; it's just for the great sex; especially with those fat, bald, hairy, sweaty, but incredibly well hung white dudes.

On the other hand I understand that sea-cows really have a thing for scrawny, hairless and tiny-weenied asian guys (not tat there are many of those)
 

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The Real Totem Pole:

Terbites
Brad Pitts
Chuck Norris
Chip and Dale dancers
Rocco
Bill Gate
Asian guys who aren't terbites
 

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why do we assume lota things? cause usually the stereotypes apply to majority, are true.
I've never known a stereotype of black people to be in "dead end" jobs.... Hes just making conclusions to make himself feel better which is pretty low and may explain why hes not getting any girls. I wouldnt be surprised if he didnt even know any black people (ok...maybe one :rolleyes: ) ...those are usually the ones who like to pull shit out of their ass.
 

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Ok, here is my take. Keep in mind my background is asian, and yes I have dated many white & black girls in the past.

First, I think asians are the most racist bunch on the planet. Gwai low this gwai low that. Come on. I remember my mom freaking when I brought home my first white gf. She also told me never, ever date/marry a black girl. I, for one, happen to like black girls. Indian girls ROCK (Am I the only Chinese guy to drool over Indian girls?). Anyway, this is not unique to my family, I've hear comments like philipino or lighter all the time. I understand that everyone wants to preserve their cultures, but you are in North America and cultures WILL mix. Drop the racist bs and show some respect.

Good jobs do not equal girls. Asians, in general are very money focused. There is so much to life than money. Yes, it does make life a little easier, but it is not the end all. Stop being so materialistic! Studies show that the BMW does not get the girl. You may think that the BMW make you look cool, but at the end of the day, you are still that same dull guy with a nicer car. I've never driven anything more than a Civic. I like to spend my money elsewhere, like self improvement. You will be surprised at how a few classes will make you more interesting. I've taken everything, from dance to cooking. You can also learn a new language...big coolness points there. I spent an entire year in Nice, France to learn French and it was money well spent. In fact, last year, a couple of girls from France was asking me for directions in very broken English. Imagine their surprise when this Chinese guy replys in French. Huge points. The goal is to become multidimentional.

There is a big difference between Canadian born and FOBs. I think Canaidian born has a much higher success rate of hooking up with white. I find FOB asians, in general, quite boring. This includes girls as well. The asian accent may be a problem as well as it totally lacks charm. I have to say, even though I am asian, I have very few asian friends.

The posts above about asians lacking confidence. For the most part, totally true. I think it has to do with upbringing. Asian parents in general put a lot of pressure on kids to excel in school at a very early age. Even when they do well, it is never good enough. How can you have confidence when you are brought up that way? I fortunately did not have that problem as was always the class clown and coasted by with a solid D average.

Also, this is hard for me to say, but some asians have a personal hygiene problem. I know you all know what I mean. It's this medicinal BO smell, kinda like moth balls, but different. Also, for some reason, many asians like to shower at night, so they sweat in their sleep and then BO creeps in my 10am. That my friends is a turn off.

Finally, some asians, especially non-Canadian born, are very closed minded and like to hang out with their own kind. Even when it comes to food, they go for Chinese/Sushi or nothing. How many times have you seen a chinese couple or family go out for something like Roti. Almost never. And if you do see an asian in a place like Real Jerk, it's probably me. If you don't venture out, how do you expect to meet girls of other backgrounds?
 
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danjay said:
Do the Asian brothers out there get the sense we are at the bottom of the totem pole?

I get the sense that some Asian girls would rather go out with an overweight, balding white guy than with one of us. Many white girls seem to prefer a black guy with dead-end job than one of us even if we are well kept with good jobs.

Just a thought/observation ...
I agree with that observation but it only extends to the borders of North America.

In other countries, a guy who's honest, hardworking and loyal is much more valued than some wannabe sweet talkin' playa with a flashy cellphone, and...and...hmmm...not much else.

As for those white girls who like them, all the power to them. They're only exercising their freedom of choice. You can exercise your own freedom by travelling.

Do you really need their approval? Why?
 

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wetnose said:
I agree with that observation but it only extends to the borders of North America.

In other countries, a guy who's honest, hardworking and loyal is much more valued than some wannabe sweet talkin' playa with a flashy cellphone, and...and...hmmm...not much else.
I believe at the most basic level, girls are the same everywhere. Yes, they do look to the guy to provide some security, it is more than that. Everyone has the desire to have a good time and enjoy life. Everyone wants excitement. Everyone likes to laugh. Make a girl laugh and the rest is easy. That is universal no matter where you go. Also, beyond the NA boarders, you can also subsitute the playa with the macho crotch grabbers...same deal.
 

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There was a segment on 20/20 some time ago about a book by 2 well known economists called Freakonomics. The segment talked about how much more non whites had to make in order to date white women.

Basically if you were:
Hispanic : you need to make 77K more than the average white guy makes
Black: you need to make 154,000 more
Asian: you need to make 247K more.



Something else from the book:

"White men did also tend to be at a disadvantage for dating minority women. A white man needed to make $220,000 more per year to be on a par with black men in dating black women, and $59,000 more per year to be on a par with hispanic men in dating hispanic women. When it came to asian women though, they needed $-24,000 to be on a par with asian men."
 

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Does the same scenario play out in regards to gay asian guys?
 

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Mongrel4u said:
Let me give you a little lesson on girls...They are attracted to confidence. Let me say that again..CONFIDENCE; its about as big with them as a girls tits and face are to guys...put it that way. So if you are going to mope and complain that you are on the "bottom of the totem pole" you will reap exactly what you sow.Get off your ass and get over it and I guarantee you things will change.
I agree with this wholeheartedly. I've dated a couple of 'Asian' (Chinese) men (though one was born and raised in England). Both were very self-confident and outgoing and were therefore appealing to me. I've also known Asian men who were shy, lacked confidence and seemed desperate to have a girlfriend and this is always a turn-off to me regardless of your race.

Btw, as an aside, I believe that in native culture, the low man on the totem pole is actually the most important man in the tribe. (sorry off topic a bit, lol).
 

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j_anderson said:
There was a segment on 20/20 some time ago about a book by 2 well known economists called Freakonomics. The segment talked about how much more non whites had to make in order to date white women.

Basically if you were:
Hispanic : you need to make 77K more than the average white guy makes
Black: you need to make 154,000 more
Asian: you need to make 247K more.

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Holy smackers. Asian guys need that much more to compete...which raises the question... should they even bother throwing their hat in the ring???

My realization is when I met these 2 GQ like guys while travelling and all they were bitching about was white women. If these 2 guys had problems, then what chance do I have?

Geez, I'm glad I'm not missing anything.
 
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