Asian Man on the Totem Pole

[Berlin]

First, I think asians are the most racist bunch on the planet. Gwai low this gwai low that. Come on. I remember my mom freaking when I brought home my first white gf. She also told me never, ever date/marry a black girl.

So your mom dosen't like gwai mui eh

... ah well.


Anyway, from experience I don't think orientals/asians are the most racist bunch. But we do have a few racist fucks here though aamof.

 

[ig-88]

Remember the TV show Average Joe? IIRC, here's how it went:

A smoking hot white chick was told she'd be on a reality dating show. She thinks she's going to meet a bunch of hot (i.e. white) guys.

Instead, the gag is that she gets introduced to a bunch of losers - fat, balding, geeky, and in some cases Asian or Indian guys.

Who did she choose? That's right. The least repulsive of the bunch: a white guy who was just slightly geeky.

If you remember the show, did you think any of the non-white guys had a chance? So even if you're a geeky white guy, you at least have a chance. If you're not white, then it's simply unthinkable for the chick to pick you.

I seem to remember the media making fun of the Indian guy's attempt to hit on her. Not only that, but I remember seeing another side-show involving the Indian guy in stereotypical Indian garb in a room made out like the Taj Mahal, dancing with an Indian chick.

Message from the white establishment: You strayed, you failed (but could never have succeeded), and you can't say we're racist because we gave you a shot. Now stick with your own kind.

 

[james t kirk]

Well, one other thing to remember is that the races tend to stick together for the most part. Sure not always, but by and large.

For example, I'm white. I tend to prefer white women. In fact, pretty much exclusively. It's simply about being honest about whom I find attractive. Sure, there are lots of good looking black women, lots of good looking Asian women, but I don't really feel that drawn to them. (Though some Indian women.....)

Anyway, it is what is.

Being male, life is full of rejection by females. You get used to it, but it still bothers you one some level.

There are 1.3 billion Chinese people in China, so obviously Asian women don't have a problem hooking up with Asian men. To the Chinese guys on here who moan and groan about Asian women in Canada looking to find white guys, well, be glad you're not in China where that whole one child thing has led to 30 single guys for every woman out there. Now those are shitty odds.

 

[abstinent]

Remember the TV show Average Joe? IIRC, here's how it went:

A smoking hot white chick was told she'd be on a reality dating show. She thinks she's going to meet a bunch of hot (i.e. white) guys.

Instead, the gag is that she gets introduced to a bunch of losers - fat, balding, geeky, and in some cases Asian or Indian guys.

Who did she choose? That's right. The least repulsive of the bunch: a white guy who was just slightly geeky.

If you remember the show, did you think any of the non-white guys had a chance? So even if you're a geeky white guy, you at least have a chance. If you're not white, then it's simply unthinkable for the chick to pick you.

I seem to remember the media making fun of the Indian guy's attempt to hit on her. Not only that, but I remember seeing another side-show involving the Indian guy in stereotypical Indian garb in a room made out like the Taj Mahal, dancing with an Indian chick.

Message from the white establishment: You strayed, you failed (but could never have succeeded), and you can't say we're racist because we gave you a shot. Now stick with your own kind.

i remember

funny thing is, there was another white guy there that might have been slightly more geeky, but a very established stock broker in the 7figures, and lost to the male waiter. lol. i guess money doesnt always talk?

 

[abstinent]

Well, one other thing to remember is that the races tend to stick together for the most part. Sure not always, but by and large.

For example, I'm white. I tend to prefer white women. In fact, pretty much exclusively. It's simply about being honest about whom I find attractive. Sure, there are lots of good looking black women, lots of good looking Asian women, but I don't really feel that drawn to them. (Though some Indian women.....)

Anyway, it is what is.

Being male, life is full of rejection by females. You get used to it, but it still bothers you one some level.

There are 1.3 billion Chinese people in China, so obviously Asian women don't have a problem hooking up with Asian men. To the Chinese guys on here who moan and groan about Asian women in Canada looking to find white guys, well, be glad you're not in China where that whole one child thing has led to 30 single guys for every woman out there. Now those are shitty odds.

if guys were less horny/desperate, women wouldnt have the power of the pussy. movie: 40 days 40 nights anyone?

 

[CheapIncallExpert]

i never saw this whole argument of asian
guys being the "undesirable" pick of the
litter as a valid comment. for the most part
dating preferences are far more liberal now
a days then they were before. all ethnicities
are fair game now, with the occasional
stereotype here and there.

in high school i never had any problems
with interracial relationships, other then the
asian girls hating me for dating white girls.
granted there were more asian girls with
white guys then white girls with asian guys,
but the reason for that is because most
asian guys put white girls on pedastool.
most asian guys bend over backwards for
their white counterparts. they shower them with
gifts, sacrifice almost anything just to please
these white girls. Therefore looking weak,
and submissive, and we all know the ladies
like a guy with a spine.

it boils down to being an alpha-male, some
one that knows who they are, confident with
what they have, strives for what they want,
and of course can handle any spot on the
totem pole.

i don't know, i am about to get married to an
asian girl, and now i am doubting myself because
I don't feel alive. i feel like i am conforming. is it
that bad i like fucking white pussy? excuse my...

 

[hinz]

i remember

funny thing is, there was another white guy there that might have been slightly more geeky, but a very established stock broker in the 7figures, and lost to the male waiter. lol. i guess money doesnt always talk?

That "7 figures" stock broker is Jewish. The white "hottie/trophy type/beauty queen" who chose the male waiter/model/actor/homebuilder whatever is a Virgo, born in late August and her name is Larissa

BTW, she used to be one of the Fabio Lazoni's ex, the same chessy Fabio who post on Harlequins Romance novels and notoriously known as dumping his ex like dirts.

 

[lurkerjoe]

Ok, here is my take. Keep in mind my background is asian, and yes I have dated many white & black girls in the past.

First, I think asians are the most racist bunch on the planet. Gwai low this gwai low that. Come on. I remember my mom freaking when I brought home my first white gf. She also told me never, ever date/marry a black girl. I, for one, happen to like black girls. Indian girls ROCK (Am I the only Chinese guy to drool over Indian girls?). Anyway, this is not unique to my family, I've hear comments like philipino or lighter all the time. I understand that everyone wants to preserve their cultures, but you are in North America and cultures WILL mix. Drop the racist bs and show some respect.

Good jobs do not equal girls. Asians, in general are very money focused. There is so much to life than money. Yes, it does make life a little easier, but it is not the end all. Stop being so materialistic! Studies show that the BMW does not get the girl. You may think that the BMW make you look cool, but at the end of the day, you are still that same dull guy with a nicer car. I've never driven anything more than a Civic. I like to spend my money elsewhere, like self improvement. You will be surprised at how a few classes will make you more interesting. I've taken everything, from dance to cooking. You can also learn a new language...big coolness points there. I spent an entire year in Nice, France to learn French and it was money well spent. In fact, last year, a couple of girls from France was asking me for directions in very broken English. Imagine their surprise when this Chinese guy replys in French. Huge points. The goal is to become multidimentional.

There is a big difference between Canadian born and FOBs. I think Canaidian born has a much higher success rate of hooking up with white. I find FOB asians, in general, quite boring. This includes girls as well. The asian accent may be a problem as well as it totally lacks charm. I have to say, even though I am asian, I have very few asian friends.

The posts above about asians lacking confidence. For the most part, totally true. I think it has to do with upbringing. Asian parents in general put a lot of pressure on kids to excel in school at a very early age. Even when they do well, it is never good enough. How can you have confidence when you are brought up that way? I fortunately did not have that problem as was always the class clown and coasted by with a solid D average.

Also, this is hard for me to say, but some asians have a personal hygiene problem. I know you all know what I mean. It's this medicinal BO smell, kinda like moth balls, but different. Also, for some reason, many asians like to shower at night, so they sweat in their sleep and then BO creeps in my 10am. That my friends is a turn off.

Finally, some asians, especially non-Canadian born, are very closed minded and like to hang out with their own kind. Even when it comes to food, they go for Chinese/Sushi or nothing. How many times have you seen a chinese couple or family go out for something like Roti. Almost never. And if you do see an asian in a place like Real Jerk, it's probably me. If you don't venture out, how do you expect to meet girls of other backgrounds?

Holy shit, man! If you had said you've never dated an Asian chick, I'd have to come on over and make sure you're not me.