Anal advice

[Kracker]

Ok I never thought it would come to this.

Hadn’t had anal before doing this and then quickly realized I’m not the right size for most anal encounters. So haven’t pressed for that.

But recently had a very clear repeated invitation. And would like to comply.

Need advice - assuming desire and consent.

Finger or two in first? Should I make sure she’s cum beforehand to loosen things up?

That wriggling ass will haunt me in my dreams.

Lots of lube, just couldn’t crack open the door.

Other than becoming 20yo again, any practical advice?

Should mention the girl is young but legal and hasn’t had much experience with anything yet -looking to take my lead. If I could only muster one!

 

[massman]

Ok I never thought it would come to this.

Hadn’t had anal before doing this and then quickly realized I’m not the right size for most anal encounters. So haven’t pressed for that.

But recently had a very clear repeated invitation. And would like to comply.

Need advice - assuming desire and consent.

Finger or two in first? Should I make sure she’s cum beforehand to loosen things up?

That wriggling ass will haunt me in my dreams.

Lots of lube, just couldn’t crack open the door.

Other than becoming 20yo again, any practical advice?

Should mention the girl is young but legal and hasn’t had much experience with anything yet -looking to take my lead. If I could only muster one!

Lots of foreplay, not a bad idea to give her an O or two.
Lots of lube. Too much is almost enough.
Silicone based lube is best, doesn’t dry out like ky-like lubes.
Dato, fingering (with lube) to warm things up.
Start in spoon position. Not as vulnerable as other positions
Gentle pressure to start to enter.
Once the tip is barely in, very short strokes to work in in further. If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things.
When the tip “pops” in, stop. Wait allow both of you to enjoy the sensation and for her to get used to it and relax.
If she’s good, slow pumping to get in deeper, then it’s gotta be slow and gentle, unless she asks for it harder. Let her be the guide.

If she can cum from anal, get ready for the most intense orgasm you have ever seen.

 

[massman]

Lots of foreplay, not a bad idea to give her an O or two.
Lots of lube. Too much is almost enough.
Silicone based lube is best, doesn’t dry out like ky-like lubes.
Dato, fingering (with lube) to warm things up.
Start in spoon position. Not as vulnerable as other positions
Gentle pressure to start to enter.
Once the tip is barely in, very short strokes to work in in further. If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things.
When the tip “pops” in, stop. Wait allow both of you to enjoy the sensation and for her to get used to it and relax.
If she’s good, slow pumping to get in deeper, then it’s gotta be slow and gentle, unless she asks for it harder. Let her be the guide.

If she can cum from anal, get ready for the most intense orgasm you have ever seen.

I’ll add that, in case it isn’t obvious, a very hard dick is your friend in this. If you are of an age where you don’t get as rock hard as you used to, ED meds may help too.

 

[newguy20]

Lots of foreplay, not a bad idea to give her an O or two.
Lots of lube. Too much is almost enough.
Silicone based lube is best, doesn’t dry out like ky-like lubes.
Dato, fingering (with lube) to warm things up.
Start in spoon position. Not as vulnerable as other positions
Gentle pressure to start to enter.
Once the tip is barely in, very short strokes to work in in further. If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things.
When the tip “pops” in, stop. Wait allow both of you to enjoy the sensation and for her to get used to it and relax.
If she’s good, slow pumping to get in deeper, then it’s gotta be slow and gentle, unless she asks for it harder. Let her be the guide.

If she can cum from anal, get ready for the most intense orgasm you have ever seen.

Agree with most of this.
"not a bad idea to give her an O or two." - usually true, but all women are different and I've had a couple that can't take anal after an intense orgasm
"If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things." - not sure what you mean by "bears down". I do know that it helps for her to push out at first, as you're pushing in. It's a little counter intuitive but I've been told it really works.

 

[massman]

Agree with most of this.
"not a bad idea to give her an O or two." - usually true, but all women are different and I've had a couple that can't take anal after an intense orgasm
"If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things." - not sure what you mean by "bears down". I do know that it helps for her to push out at first, as you're pushing in. It's a little counter intuitive but I've been told it really works.

Agree 100%. You need to know your partner, some girls are wrecked after an orgasm and can’t handle too much more stimulation.

And yes, by bear down, I meant to “push out” as you are pushing in.

 

[Tiger]

I’ll add that, in case it isn’t obvious, a very hard dick is your friend in this. If you are of an age where you don’t get as rock hard as you used to, ED meds may help too.

Very true
Don't try anal as an afterthought after your first shot, it will be frustrating and difficult if you're not hard

 

[kherg007]

Agree with most of this.
"not a bad idea to give her an O or two." - usually true, but all women are different and I've had a couple that can't take anal after an intense orgasm
"If she bears down a bit it can help to relax things." - not sure what you mean by "bears down". I do know that it helps for her to push out at first, as you're pushing in. It's a little counter intuitive but I've been told it really works.

Yes I knew a provider like that.
I knew a lady who used a vibrator on her clit, then whilst that happening enter her slowly in Mish.
Another needed a lubed finger in there for a few mins, then a second for a few.
Some ladies put in one of those butt plugs for a while to loosen things up.
One lady start in doggy, another w her lying on stomach, one even in cg, as she said SHE could control angle and depth and speed that way.

Perfect line @massman : "too much [lube] almost enough"

Remember it's not like porn, gotta start slow and listen very carefully to her and do as she says.
Ass-k for advice and she shall receive. Butt don't over anal-yze it. Lol

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

Pick a girl who's done Greek before and even better, one who enjoy it and most of your questions become obsolete.

On a side note, be a gentleman and listen to your vis-a-vis, don't push your agenda. If you don't, you're guaranteed to have a shitty experience.

 

[steelcitysid]

If you don't, you're guaranteed to have a shitty experience.

Literally and figuratively

 

[The Oracle]

Literally and figuratively

Enema for her beforehand otherwise.......

 

[Kracker]

Pick a girl who's done Greek before and even better, one who enjoy it and most of your questions become obsolete.

It’s not the act, it’s the girl. If I just wanted to have anal again, I’d pick a big girl who was known for that.

There’ve been a few - this one right now - where there’s been mutual interest but an inability to get it in.

The others who were adept were easier but really in retrospect not that hot - I’ve evolved a lot in my taste.

Just didn‘t realize how difficult it was when a girl hadn’t done that much or at all before.

 

[HotDogger]

Is there a thread of the agency SP's that enjoy anal?

 

[Sonic Temple]

Great advice as this is a bucket list for me as well. .

Is there a thread of the agency SP's that enjoy anal?

Its a bit old - but get you going.

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/my-greek-experiences-over-the-last-month.751020/

 

[Tiger]

It’s not the act, it’s the girl. If I just wanted to have anal again, I’d pick a big girl who was known for that.

Is there a thread of the agency SP's that enjoy anal?

Anal is not one of my favourites, but I will oblige when the girl asks me for it

And my best experience? Not an agency but at the MP, the most unassuming innocent littlest Asian girl wanted it in her ass... she preferred it instead of her pussy!
No lube or anything, just alot of spit - maybe she prepped herself before coming in the room, but that was always quite amazing
And she never asks for tip or upcharge!

 

[THECaddy]

Start with a small butt plug and work up from there.

 

[newguy20]

Is there a thread of the agency SP's that enjoy anal?

Great advice as this is a bucket list for me as well. .
Its a bit old - but get you going.

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/my-greek-experiences-over-the-last-month.751020/

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/greek-provider-list.778331/

 

[johnd5050]

Anal is not one of my favourites, but I will oblige when the girl asks me for it

And my best experience? Not an agency but at the MP, the most unassuming innocent littlest Asian girl wanted it in her ass... she preferred it instead of her pussy!
No lube or anything, just alot of spit - maybe she prepped herself before coming in the room, but that was always quite amazing
And she never asks for tip or upcharge!

She gave up her ass and saved her virgin pussy for her future husband.
Asian husband's want a virgin wife. Not one that has been pounded a million times.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Anal is not one of my favourites, but I will oblige when the girl asks me for it

And my best experience? Not an agency but at the MP, the most unassuming innocent littlest Asian girl wanted it in her ass... she preferred it instead of her pussy!
No lube or anything, just alot of spit - maybe she prepped herself before coming in the room, but that was always quite amazing
And she never asks for tip or upcharge!

Damn - I wouldn't know what to do if a girl ever asked for it - never had that ever happened to me - will practice that scenario in front of the mirror if I ever get that lucky. I just want to be asked .

 

[IM469]

Damn - I wouldn't know what to do if a girl ever asked for it - never had that ever happened to me - will practice that scenario in front of the mirror if I ever get that lucky. I just want to be asked .

It is a a gateway for shit and I prefer not opening the door to see what is behind it.

I remember a dancer taking me to her room and without a warning shoving a couple fingers up my ass as we made out. Talk about a buzz kill. I got her to wash her hands before picking up where she left off. She explained her boyfriend occasionally shoved his dick up her ass so she thought guys like it. I told her that I love a beautiful ass but I don't go probing for shit in places that can't be cleaned.

My preference but I have this revulsion over tasting or smelling shit so I'm not going to look for it, particularly during sex.

 

[johnd5050]

Damn - I wouldn't know what to do if a girl ever asked for it - never had that ever happened to me - will practice that scenario in front of the mirror if I ever get that lucky. I just want to be asked .

I seriously doubt if you will be offered in the SP world without a price tag.
If you get lucky and get offered just say "not into fudge packing today"