I'm glad you're both a-o-k. I don't think anyone can question you two - you're two of the most solid girls I've met in this industry from a peer's perspective and from a client's perspective.
Keep your chins up <3
Keep your chins up <3
An unfortunate PSE session with Candice Cane.
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It's good to hear that you ended the session. The limits, as set out by any SP should be respected. The fact that this scum did not respect the boundaries is appalling. You are a good friend to do what you did and it's good to hear that you are both unharmed.
I have met Candice and she came across to me as one of the best SPs I have ever met. and we had a great convo too and she is so cool and easy to deal with. And I emailed her several times as Indy trying to make a deal and she was amazing. It makes me feel awful that she and yourself went trough this.
Zook
Zook
Really what is there to say? Candice and Jezzi, nobody deserves that type of behaviour. Good to hear that you have each other's backs and there was nothing further.
That sucks! Glad you two are okay.
I hate the idea of having to cut a session early as I try to make the best of every situation and offer alternatives, as im sure we all do. But when that line is crossed, he KNOWS IT, and I hope all the girls in this industry will use this as an example to clearly define and enforce our own individual rules so that certain gentlemen know that crossing lines is NOT okay, not even once in a while with a new girl who doesn't know better.
>:| To guys who call agencies asking for the "new" girl giving the idea he is doing her a favor, but really just wants to pull a fast one over her... for example!
I often have trouble getting guys to provide screening information -- some things should just be the normal expectation...
Stay focused <3
I hate the idea of having to cut a session early as I try to make the best of every situation and offer alternatives, as im sure we all do. But when that line is crossed, he KNOWS IT, and I hope all the girls in this industry will use this as an example to clearly define and enforce our own individual rules so that certain gentlemen know that crossing lines is NOT okay, not even once in a while with a new girl who doesn't know better.
>:| To guys who call agencies asking for the "new" girl giving the idea he is doing her a favor, but really just wants to pull a fast one over her... for example!
I often have trouble getting guys to provide screening information -- some things should just be the normal expectation...
Stay focused <3
No need for second thought here. Two ladies who have liberal boundaries were disrespected and frightened by a client. Why impune their motives when empathy and relief that they are not seriously harmed is really all we should be feeling. To imply that their post was to pre empt any negative feedback is, in itself, disrespectful to them. Nit picking over where it was posted is petty. Whether you meant this or not it it seems that to paraphrase your ending "oh by the way.....I'm glad you are ok" is an afterthought. It should have been your first concern. The impression you give is that you have more sympathy for the perp that for Candice and Jezabel.
there is a real business lesson here too... to borrow a phrase from a truly strange thread ... a repeat, known, safe client is "worth his weight in gold". i understand this message is a little self serving but nevertheless an opportunity to suggest to the lovely ladies (especially awesome independents like jez, cc, etc... and i have seen both) that there is a real opportunity to develop your business around dt guys who can host (likely a convenient location, reduces your overhead since you dont have to pay for a room) , who can commit to a regular schedule for visits (helps you plan your life better so is more efficient) and most important reduces the "fear factor" as this thread points out that even the most savvy, careful, and cool ladies are going to have real safety issues , unfortunately.
id recommend a little less clock watching, a little more flexibility, maybe the odd extra special session (like bring in a friend for a 3way as a loyalty reward ) bcuz just as we clients love to find and stick with a real "gem", there are gems to be found on our side too
id recommend a little less clock watching, a little more flexibility, maybe the odd extra special session (like bring in a friend for a 3way as a loyalty reward ) bcuz just as we clients love to find and stick with a real "gem", there are gems to be found on our side too
Sorry to read about your experience and glad that it ended without serious consequences. However no SP, never, under any circumstances, for any reason at all, should tolerate being taken advantage of!
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Really sorry to hear that hun. There will always be some people who just won't respect other people's privacy. 
Glad you are both ok. At least I hope you are.
Your body - your game - your rules. No questions asked
It's a shame you or any SP has to be subjected to this type of assault and Jez and Candace, call it what you want but it's assault and the guy should be punished.
Keep safe !
Your body - your game - your rules. No questions asked
It's a shame you or any SP has to be subjected to this type of assault and Jez and Candace, call it what you want but it's assault and the guy should be punished.
Keep safe !
He's lucky that Candice didn't use her boxing skills on him!
(I saw Candice with Sydney over a week ago which re-opened my eyes as to how great Candice is both in physical beauty and service. My RP request was fulfilled quite nicely, and it played out like a porno. Candice though is also a very cute and charming young lady - which turned me into a jack rabbit he he. I love the fact that she loves wearing heels throughout the session, but she did remove them eventually when I asked her for some mutual foot cuddling.)
(I saw Candice with Sydney over a week ago which re-opened my eyes as to how great Candice is both in physical beauty and service. My RP request was fulfilled quite nicely, and it played out like a porno. Candice though is also a very cute and charming young lady - which turned me into a jack rabbit he he. I love the fact that she loves wearing heels throughout the session, but she did remove them eventually when I asked her for some mutual foot cuddling.)
I guess you're another jackass that didn't bother reading the OP! I've highlighted a few items from the OP so that morons like you will know what not to do.
I am so sorry that this happen to you. SPs screen clients as best as they can but on occasion a douchebag gets past it.
It's assholes like that that give the rest of us a bad name we are already stigmatized enough we don't need assholes like him prepuating the stereotype that all johns are violent misogynist pigs who just want to hurt women.
Good you got his information so that other sps can be on the lookout.
It's assholes like that that give the rest of us a bad name we are already stigmatized enough we don't need assholes like him prepuating the stereotype that all johns are violent misogynist pigs who just want to hurt women.
Good you got his information so that other sps can be on the lookout.
Yes, you have; and I apologize for my rude (and over the top) name calling. It seemed pretty clear from the OP what had happened... rules and boundaries had been clearly defined by the SP before the session began. I suspect that the client was made aware that he was violating those rules as the session progressed. Surely we (i.e., clients) should know that secretly photographing or filming a session is, if nothing else, unethical. And, for God's sake, when a client is ignoring an SP's use a safe word (while she is also crying at the same time) that's unacceptable. Why do you (or anyone else) need more specifics than what were provided to know that these actions were not appropriate?
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