Myth 4
"I'm more of a man if I have a big penis."
In all the years I've worked with men, I have never seen any evidence that masculinity is connected to penis size. I know that a sense of self esteem might come through being able to walk around the locker room or the changing room with an enormous penis swinging in front of you - but that doesn't mean you're more of a man if your cock is huge. It's a social construct that penis size equals masculinity. The truth is this: penis size has no relationship whatsoever to those masculine values worth cultivating - the ones that make you a real man: the ability to father a child, either biologically or socially, the strength of character to be a model citizen or a good leader, the personal depth to be a creative force both personally and in the community, and a powerful and emotionally aware male in your relationships, the dedication to be a mentor to adolescent boys, and the determination to think with power and clarity and get what you want out of life. If you had to choose between a big cock and those values, what would you choose? And, out of interest, which do you think would be more likely to attract women?
Myth 5
"A big penis helps you make love for longer."
No it doesn't. The length of time for which you can make love depends on many things, but penis size is not one of them. Men who experience premature ejaculation come in all shapes and sizes. I know this because I have spent a long time counseling men with PE. The cure for premature ejaculation is greater self confidence, a better relationship with your spouse or partner, eliminating fear and guilt from sexual relationships, and open and honest communication. It's not having a big penis, or falling for the line peddled by the penis enlargement sites about how a big penis can make you last all night. If you want to know how to deal with premature ejaculation, go here.
Myth 6
"I can't satisfy a woman unless I have a big penis."
No woman would ever agree with that. Only a minority of women orgasm through vaginal intercourse - and if they do, it's because the penis is stimulating their G spot. (A penis in the vagina doesn't stimulate the clitoris.) And guess where the G spot is found? About two inches inside the vagina on the upper wall. Now, is your penis two inches long? Yes? It is? Oh, good! So, if you want to, you can give a woman a vaginal orgasm. Most couples never realize this, because they don't know how vaginal orgasms are produced. You can read about it here, or if you don't want to bother, you and she can be quite satisfied with clitoral orgasms: these come from stimulating her clitoris with your tongue, your fingers, a vibrator, or the tip of your penis, rubbing outside her vagina on her vulva and clitoris. Here is an email on an internet discussion board from a woman:
"My husband has a penis about 5 inches long and not thick. But I can assure you, he can absolutely drive me crazy with it - and for hours! I guess desire and technique are more necessary and appreciated for a small man? As you know, the clitoral area, the labiae minorae, and the vulva are delectably excitable. So, the smaller penis may be better able to stimulate that area. He teases me there with just the tip of his penis. WOW! Talk about multiple orgasms! So, if you're a man who doesn't have the largest of penises, please don't feel too bad about it - you can still do it for a woman!"
The Penis Website:
http://www.penis-website.com/ Scroll down past the ads.
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Facts about Penis Size
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm
P.S. Just because we are SPs, MPAs & dancers doesn't mean that'll we will lie about everything and anything just to keep business. Some might lie, most won't. Like in ANY other business in this world you have both liars and non-liars.
I could care less whether or not I lose business over this. A question was asked and I gave MY
HONEST opinion.
