Ahem ..penis size matters to women??

lomotil

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Part of the Asian SP fetish is driven by the belief that asian women have
tighter smaller more shallow vaginas and that non-asians with small penises
are told that they have huge penises with the greatest sincerity.

However I think for most women, several factors compliment the sexual
experience so that with the correct ambience, any size penis will do the job.
Mental and physical stimulation are both equally important.

For women with sugar daddies with big bank accounts and a small penis, size is never an issue. IMHO
 

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Hi LD,


I understand this male issue...it is given to much attention.

More should be talked about the chase.... The touching the carressing the eye contact. The pillow talk..The lets try this....I like that....and make out like a couple of Dew Worms in the night.

The unfortunate thing about sex is that it cums to an end.
 

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flyingdgn said:
I'm in a bad mood today so forgive me if this sounds harsh.

I have very close female friends that tell me things honestly and here is the beef that I have heard.

Anybody who asks if size matters has a small dick.

Any woman when asked face to face if size matters will lie to you, say it doesn't and will laugh behind your back for asking. If you believe them, they will laugh at you again for being so foolish.

Size does matter. Anything under 5" is unacceptable, anything over 10" is uncomfortable. (I'm averaging here)

Width does matter. Needle dicks do nothing for girls unless she's into anal then you might have an advantage. It is rare that a dick is too thick.

Technique is important. If you have the minimum 5", what you do with it can make up the difference. BUT they prefer a bigger dick with better technique.

Your girlfriend/wife has had bigger. They're not with you because of your dick, they're just willing to overlook the dick thing because you're a nice guy.

If you think you're small, then you are small. Don't try to rationalize it with stupid excuses, just improve your technique. Live with it, it's not the end of the world.

And yes, I have a small dick.

And one other thing. If you ARE the guy with the big thick dick.. oh why bother it's just gonna get edited by the moderators anyways...


This is the only guy who got it right.

I can only speak for myself (and every woman I've ever talked to about it) but of course size matters!!! Anything between 5 and 9 is awesome...less or more is no fun. Girth is important...skinny dicks don't do anything for me. And obviously, you have to pay attention to other areas of the woman, not just her vagina, and communicate, find out what she wants and likes etc. you can have the most flawless dick but if all you do is ram it into her, the sex is gonna suck. All this aside though, having a good sized, thick dick generally makes for much better sex. IMHO.
 

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Hi LD,


More should be talked about the chase.... The touching the carressing the eye contact. The pillow talk..The lets try this....I like that....and make out like a couple of Dew Worms in the night.
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Like one worm said to the other worm in the cemetary...let's go do it in dead Earnest!

:))
 

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i;m just so sorry

that u (obviously) have reasons to be concerned, perhaps the purchase of corvette would replace what god did not give you
 

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Well a Corvette... don't work for me....

Ares said:
that u (obviously) have reasons to be concerned, perhaps the purchase of corvette would replace what god did not give you
I gotta say I got a laugh at the comments in this thread......

As far as a Corvette............ Not me.... I got a BIG ROSY RED, Throbbing, Powerful, Ford Pickup Truck.. I tower over all y'all............. Now thats just the recipe for a little....... a little well stick shift.

But then again what would a Redneck have.. Now for a little Country Song!


Girls Lie Too by Terri Clark


So she can't go out tonight again
Her sister's sick, she's gotta baby-sit
Yeah, that sounds like a pretty good excuse
Now you didn't hear any of this from me
But things aren't always what they seem
Brace yourself, this may come as a shock to you

[Chorus]
Girls lie, too
We don't care how much money you make
What you drive or what you weigh
Size don't matter anyway
Girls lie, too
Don't think you're the only ones
Who bend it, break it, stretch it some
We learn from you
Girls lie, too

We can't wait to hear about your round of golf
We love to see deer heads hanging on the wall
And we like Hooter's for their hotwings too
Other guys never cross our minds
We don't wonder what it might be like
How could it be any better than it is with you

[Repeat Chorus]

Yeah, girls lie, too
We always forgive and forget
The cards and flowers you never sent
Will never be brought up again
Girls lie, too
Old gray sweatpants turn us on
We like your friends and we love your mom
And that's the truth
Girls lie, too
Yeah that's the truth
Girls lie, too

No, we don't care how much hair you have
Yeah, that looks good
Comb it over like that

Isn't it scary at the bottom of this box to type this stuff in there is something to Increase Size.. or Decrease Size.........
The damn "Increase Size" aint workin
 

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flyingdgn said:
Size does matter. Anything under 5" is unacceptable, anything over 10" is uncomfortable. (I'm averaging here)

Width does matter. Needle dicks do nothing for girls unless she's into anal then you might have an advantage. It is rare that a dick is too thick.

Technique is important. If you have the minimum 5", what you do with it can make up the difference. BUT they prefer a bigger dick with better technique.

Your girlfriend/wife has had bigger. They're not with you because of your dick, they're just willing to overlook the dick thing because you're a nice guy.

If you think you're small, then you are small. Don't try to rationalize it with stupid excuses, just improve your technique. Live with it, it's not the end of the world.

And yes, I have a small dick.

And one other thing. If you ARE the guy with the big thick dick.. oh why bother it's just gonna get edited by the moderators anyways...
AHA! you got it.

#1.- Size matters. Under 5" is not unacceptable... its just smaller and not as 'filling'. Over 9" is just a bit more than I can accomodate even after 'working it in' with lots of lube.
Mind you, small is NOT bad, if the guy knows how to use it.
But lets face it... if size didn't matter AT ALL... would anyone really be asking?

#2.- Width does matter. Too thin doesn't feel bad, just not as 'filling' as I said, but you can cum just as well as with a thick one, as long as it doesn't stretch you to the bleeding point.

#3.- I bet most women have had bigger, unless you happen to be HUGE.

#4.- Most guys with average to large penises (between 6" and 12") think they are small. It is RARE to find a guy with a big one that knows he has a big one.

#5.- Most guys that know they are small, don't talk about it. They just do their thing and are satisfied that you are satisfied.

Then again, to each their own.
 

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i have sent at least 5 chicks for sutures ...
By any chance was it from them splitting their sides from laughter when you whipped it out
 

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with respect to the title of this thread.....size does matter...IMHO...

(I'm a pig anyways who care)
 

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DaBig Aristotle said:
I know I am small. I look at other dudes peeing in the urinals and when I compare mine to theirs, I don't feel like much of a man. But what are you going to do when your third leg is more like a tootsie roll stuck to your pants?
lol suck on it :p
in all honesty i don't care about size to all you guys who feel you are too small i'd make up for it by making it twice as happy lol
 

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DaBig Aristotle said:
I would if I could! As described in my main problem, the friggin thing is so short, I cannot reach down. The pain of having something so sweet right there for the taking and not able to have it! ARRRRRR! As Homer Simpson said, "...life is one crushing defeat after another until you just wish Flanders was dead."
i would be glad to help you out anytime *wonders how many licks it would take to get the creamy center:D*
 

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DaBig Aristotle said:
I know I am small. I look at other dudes peeing in the urinals and when I compare mine to theirs, I don't feel like much of a man. But what are you going to do when your third leg is more like a tootsie roll stuck to your pants?
This is not the greatest indicator of size... different guys dicks can differ in how much they enlarge upon erection.
 

LeatherDoll

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i am one said:
I think you have other issues to work out if you're always checking out mens' cocks.
That you have even bigger issues to work out if you spend all your time worrying that you shouldn't look at other men's penis' and making sure that you don't do it (or don't get caught doing it!).

I bet you urinate in the stall, don't you?
 

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very true

TheNiteHwk said:
Unless your really big or really small. :D
I believe that size doesn't matter unless your really big or really small. When My ex- boyfriend and I split up, I started my rebound with a guy a few years younger than me....when we finally had sex, I was really unsatisfied...why? because his cock was way too small! I'm talking WAY below average. I was used to having sex with an 11" dick for almost two years...so I never called the small pecker again! Call me shallow but I called my ex and we resorted to being *## buddies! Yes, I definitely believe that a small cock or or an average size can make up for it in technique...I guess I just went for the wrong rebound..........
 

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EchoXXX said:
This is the only guy who got it right.

I can only speak for myself (and every woman I've ever talked to about it) but of course size matters!!! Anything between 5 and 9 is awesome...less or more is no fun. Girth is important...skinny dicks don't do anything for me. And obviously, you have to pay attention to other areas of the woman, not just her vagina, and communicate, find out what she wants and likes etc. you can have the most flawless dick but if all you do is ram it into her, the sex is gonna suck. All this aside though, having a good sized, thick dick generally makes for much better sex. IMHO.
...I think are the only woman who is speaking for most women.

What you said has been my observation as well, both from experience and from information passed on by women.

I've got a decent sized dick - not enormous, but big enough that almost invariably it becomes a topic of conversation at some point with the woman I am sleeping with (not on the first date necessarily, but....). Every woman I have ever known has said larger is better, but too large is a problem, and typically really well hung guys are assholes because they think that is the end of the universe and makes up for everything else.

I have heard absolutely no shortage of stories regarding guys with small dicks. Every woman can tell at least one story about the guy she was dating who was really nice but just didn't do it for her. Yes, it helps if you have great skills...but not if you've got a REALLY small cock because eventually what most women want at some point is to get FUCKED...not every time, not all the time...but if women wanted just cunnilingus people would never have intercourse because as we all know going down on them gets them off more consistently than anything else.

On the other hand, as others have said clearly men worry about this too much. Unless more than one woman has actually told you (or made it really plain without saying so) that you have a too small dick, chances are it is just fine. I spent years thinking my dick was small because it really is when limp, and the only comparison to erect cocks I ever had was in pornos (and I'm not hung like THAT). I got married the first time relatively young, and to a gal who had relatively little experience (a few BFs). She always said I was the biggest she'd ever had, but since I was only the 3rd, what did that mean?

I wasn't until I divorced, read some stuff to try to figure out why I hated condoms so much (since I planned to do A LOT of fucking around...turns out I hated condoms because the regular size was too small for me...who knew?) and start sleeping with women who had been around the block a few times and had seen a few peckers and felt mine was one fine example thereof did I come to realize things were actually the opposite for me...that I had absolutely nothing to worry about.

In between these two times in my life I decided to become relatively skilled at sex, at the time motivated by what I thought was a small dick. I'm no guru, but I know few things. And those are the things that seem to matter the most.

But then again...as it turns out...I'm not compensating. So - back to the original point...yeah size matters, and if you believe otherwise - well, whatever helps you sleep at night. ;)
 
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