I am not sure how to deal with a situation that has come up and could really use some advice....Two weeks ago I had a date with a guy - I arrive for a one hour session on time...with all of the formalities out of the way we get down to the business at hand...and to make a long story short, the guy is done before he even gets his pants off. Thats ok by me and although we still have 55 minutes left he asks me to leave. Well the next week he calls and asks if he can finish what we started without cost since he feels he was taken advantage of. (I did offer to stay and start over at the time). I am new to this business and don't want to appear like I'm unfair or not a nice person. What would be the right thing to do?? Any opinions from either side of the fence would help!!
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Violet, I think the guy paid for a 1hr session of which he was entitled to an hour and if he decided not to use the full hour thats his issue not yours. You owe him nothing.
Dumb question but did he cum in his pants or something..Thats pretty weird. lol
Dumb question but did he cum in his pants or something..Thats pretty weird. lol
Wow, you sure you have your times right. 5 mins, not 15-20 mins.
I never hear of trying to make time up from a past date, like if you book her for an hour but after 50 mins she leaves, that does not mean she stays for 1 hour and 10 mins next time.
But gee, in this case you could be nice and give him a 1/2 hour date free...I think most would not but its your call. It would seem fair to me.
I never hear of trying to make time up from a past date, like if you book her for an hour but after 50 mins she leaves, that does not mean she stays for 1 hour and 10 mins next time.
But gee, in this case you could be nice and give him a 1/2 hour date free...I think most would not but its your call. It would seem fair to me.
Violet,
you SWORE to me my quick trigger would be our dirty little secret. Now how am I going to live with my not so secret shame?
you SWORE to me my quick trigger would be our dirty little secret. Now how am I going to live with my not so secret shame?
I agree - nothing is owed by you here. But, if you're in a position to do so some customer service might go a long way. Perhaps charge him for 1/2 an hour and stay for the full hour or something. But you certainly don't need to feel obligated to give him anything or even see him ever again.
if it was me i wouldn't have taken the money, but i would have asked to be compensated for my travel cost (if it was an outcall) thats just what i would do.
as for him asking her to leave might have been the embarrassment of the premature ejaculation & depending on the age maybe he couldn't give two shots.
as a show of good will offer him 1/2 off the next hour session, if he accepts good for both of you if not just move on at least you would have tried to be fair.
thats all you can really do right?
as for him asking her to leave might have been the embarrassment of the premature ejaculation & depending on the age maybe he couldn't give two shots.
as a show of good will offer him 1/2 off the next hour session, if he accepts good for both of you if not just move on at least you would have tried to be fair.
thats all you can really do right?
Strictly speaking, you're right.Amazon_woman said:
However as xarir said/implied, a smart business person knows the value of a little customer service. Offering $50 off the next session (just an example) could prove to be more beneficial to the provider than taking a hard ass approach. After all, I'm sure the client felt very embarrassed (probably why he asked her to leave) and this would show some empathy on her part.
I agree another 55 minutes for free is not appropriate. Offering a token would be a very nice gesture.
I had a date the other way around in Windsor this summer.
She thought a 1 hour date meant 1 shot, time to leave afterwards. I was like WHAT...but yes there was a big diff. in age...well she offer to give me back a whole $20 and call it a half hour date. I agreed, being the nice guy I am but I never will see her again.
Next time, give some $$ back...this way you are being fair. I know not all SP will agree but if it was well under a 1/2 hour call, why charged him for an hour.
She thought a 1 hour date meant 1 shot, time to leave afterwards. I was like WHAT...but yes there was a big diff. in age...well she offer to give me back a whole $20 and call it a half hour date. I agreed, being the nice guy I am but I never will see her again.
Next time, give some $$ back...this way you are being fair. I know not all SP will agree but if it was well under a 1/2 hour call, why charged him for an hour.
The guy did ask originally for 1/2 hour session and I made it clear that since I only date once a day, I do have a one hour minimum - and he was ok with that. I am grateful for everyones opinion on this matter...and believe the most reasonable thing to do would be to give him a 1/2 hr freebie ( which, lol should only take 2 mins) and be guilt freeRadio_Shack said:
ps: he did look pretty happy when I left!!
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