I try to give up front but with some regulars we have both forgot until afterwards, one time putting on my boots, she asked did we square up?
This has happened to me once before with a regular! We were having so much fun we both forgot the payment. I was already in the shower by the time he realized and called me. He waited 20 minutes in the parking lot for me to get back to him so he could come back and pay me. It’s guys like that are the real MVP! I gave him some complimentary extra time the next time he booked for being so honest!
They likely lose more than that; when they lose trust in guys to do the right thing, it may affect the way they see and/or interact with the guys who come after. Making someone lose trust in others is a pretty shitty thing to do.
You are right in both cases especially about maybe losing a regular who thinks he got a freebee. Even if Kitty's gut feeling is usually right, it can be wrong and if so, it costs the SP and she may lose that customer going forward.
This is why I stress to guys that it’s so important to do research on a girl first before making such an investment. If you make any investment in life (Car, home, escorts, etc) without doing the research first then you have to bite the bullet and understand that you took a huge risk in the first place. This is far less likely to happen to you with a girl that has a stellar reputation.
Yes. It's time we're paying for. (We can't help it if young beauties find plain looking older blokes with no discernable skills irresistible). Stay away from the dodgy ladies as Melissa says. Then pay upfront. There is a performance aspect to this sort of visit (she's engaging yourself as a gf and you're buying into it) so having to ask is really awkward. (In fact, one agency lady -no longer in the biz - upon entering the door says to me with a neutral face, "put the payment here and you have to take a shower." Then turns her back and goes to the bed. No hello, no nothing else. Just ruined the experience right at the get-go.
Buy it, don’t buy it. That doesn’t matter to me. It’s a simple well known fact and nothing more. You’ll see it on 90% of escort websites and I guarantee you’ll have a hard time finding a professional and established escort willing to accept payment in 2 separate transactions the way you described instead of everything up front and out of the way.
So I guess we should just forget all the discussions about how much more clients had to pay to get a particular service? However, you may be quite right that this doesn't apply with "most girls", but I can't say for sure because I've only sampled a relatively small number.
Yes you should because I’m generally speaking of the base payment for a companions time. In my experience men dont Say “Hi how much for a bj, sex and kissing.” They ask, “How much for half an hour or an hour, etc.”
Do you know how many times a donation has been forgotten about because it is not paid upfront. Ensuring payment doesn't mean she cares more or less about anything.
Reality check. The SP does not care at all about the service if there is no fee. Now I have seen many girls who provide great service, with both a physical and mental connection, who take a great deal of pride in providing a great experience. But that encounter would never have happened if there were no financial compensation. As I said 3 years ago when this thread started, providing payment up front lets her relax and let her guard down a bit. All women, sex professionals included, get much more into sex when stress and worry is minimized and trust is maximized.
Mate it's all about the money, your responsibility is to provide it right away so she doesnt have to ask. She provides a service - pay up front.
