Curious to know if there were any significant breakthroughs mentally or realizations you made about yourself after the first time you saw an SP and had that experience?
Realizations after seeing your first SP?
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Sex with a stranger will never be as meaningful/memorable as it is in a commited relationship with someone you know. We're paying for mediocre sex at best (maybe slightly better than mediocre for escorts we have seen on more than one occasion). WHY would we pay for mediocre sex??? Answer that question and you will find the truth.
First time I realized. "That was great. Just what I wanted. I thought it would be a rip off, but it was more than my money's worth. Great deal. Nice woman."
mediocre sex? You're seeing the wrong SPs.
Agreed regarding the "committed relationship", but unfortunately the "good meaningful sex" part usually diminishes until there is ultimately no sex at all, in the majority of such relationships if they go past 4 or 5 years, or for sure after a couple of kids.
We pay for so-so, mediocre, good, or sometimes mind blowing sex with escorts because we need variety, or, for one reason or another, aren't getting it from our "significant other", or any other civilians...
I was (literally and figuratively) blown away by not only how lovely she was, but how "normal" and interesting and fun she was.
I spent 2 months doing research. Eventually visited the now defunct Naughty Nuru agency.
All the NN women were like that. Wow. Hooked ever since.
I spent 2 months doing research. Eventually visited the now defunct Naughty Nuru agency.
All the NN women were like that. Wow. Hooked ever since.
One of the greatest experiences and the realization of why I waited so long to join this hobby. Thank @SultrySofia for showing me what to look for and what to expect - its been great ever since. Approach this as a hobby and you will truly love it - also that it takes a certain personality to enjoy this for what it is - not a replacement for intimacy but a service that is provided to satisfy a need.
That I was capable of doing something illegal…. And that I could now be the pervert I was truly meant to be.
The realization i had was that the sex and experience itself wasn't as good as I had thought it would be in my head. The sex feels robotic compared to having sex with somone you might be in in a relationship with and who wants to fuck you just as bad as you want to fuck them. Fucking an sp will just never be the same. The experience itself is also more formal and kind of scripted which is not what I expected my first time seeing an sp. But after all these years I'm still going back for more so I realized my first time will definetly not be my last time lol
Nope. The opposite. I've had REALLY good sex with people I've been in relationships with. Out of the more than 50 escorts I've seen in my life, I can count on one hand those which were somewhat memorable....and 98% of the ladies I saw were "very well reviewed". Variety doesn't do it for me and never saw the point. Unless your partner is unreasonably holding out on sex, it aint "worth" it.
One of the first SP, or the first can`t remember, the girl was using my dick to fuck face herself. She was laughing, swinging it and blowing like there is no tomorrow... It was quite hardcore... I was in pure shock. I had no clue it could be like that with an escort. Me the dude who was just very recently separated... after 4 years without sex... with 2 kids... I remember at that moment thinking about a gangster movie where Robert De Niro is asked if his wife had given him a nice blow job recently. He answered 'What`s wrong with you, the mother who kisses my kids good bye each morning???'
Don`t get me wrong sex with a life partner or just any relationship is amazing. But so different. Sex with a stranger is just fucking amazing.
Out of every 10 couples, I am sure 9 would see great benefits to see escort
Sorry if this doesn’t count, but my greatest realization was how smart women are who use their sexual power. And that realization came over time.
There was one really well-known provider I saw in Montreal who famously juggled an agency persona three afternoons a week (I saw her in that one), a more expensive independent persona, an online entertainment persona (she handed me a discount code), and it turns out from one of her later reviews, she was juggling six different Sugar Daddies. She has since left the scene. I genuinely wonder what she is doing. Something quite lucrative, I suspect. That lady would look through this thread and decide those who are negative on seeing escorts would be better as customers in her Sugar Baby persona.
I used to see a lady in the U.S. a very long time ago at her tiny little rented house on a hill in Los Angeles. She primarily worked at a brothel but she gave her cell phone number to regular customers who were either from L.A. or traveled there occasionally. Smoking hot girl. Once I was supposed to see her at her house, but she redirected me a few days before my visit to an apartment in the city. Turns out she had to evacuate her rented house due to mudslide risk. She told me to pick up a pizza at a certain place not far from the apartment. She was thin and not a big eater. She had a piece of pizza. I had several (this was before Viagra made sex and eating incompatible). After the session, she told me it was a male friend‘s apartment who was out of the country on a work assignment. She told me he was letting her use the apartment since she had to evacuate her place. He was an impressive guy with lots of awards and based on the pictures in his apartment, he was a good looking guy. It took me a while to understand why I was told to get pizza, but I finally understood. If any of his neighbors happened to be looking, I was the pizza delivery guy from the nearby pizza place from which she routinely got delivery. Hell, they probably got delivery from there together when it was Blockbuster and Chill. This was before Netflix. God, that girl was smart.
To all of you kind enough to let us know your relationship sex was so much better than the transactional sex generally reviewed here, what happened to those poor girls? Did they get run over by a bus, possibly when they were distracted by thinking about how much they loved you? Or were they providing great sex with the illusion of you being their One and Only and they moved on, or declined the great relationship sex, once they got what they wanted? Women are whip smart and go through life knowing their greatest asset has its highest value when they are young. They create illusions. Nothing wrong with enjoying the illusions ourselves without getting hung up on society’s expectations.
And hell, those illusions are created be women as a whole. Men don’t fantasize about $100,000 weddings. Women do, and it is “her” day. Most women want that Day for herself, surrounded by her friends and family. Damn right she provides some great sex before that wedding to the guy who marries her. And if she wants kids, that great sex continues till she has the kids she wants. After that, maybe not so much ???
There was one really well-known provider I saw in Montreal who famously juggled an agency persona three afternoons a week (I saw her in that one), a more expensive independent persona, an online entertainment persona (she handed me a discount code), and it turns out from one of her later reviews, she was juggling six different Sugar Daddies. She has since left the scene. I genuinely wonder what she is doing. Something quite lucrative, I suspect. That lady would look through this thread and decide those who are negative on seeing escorts would be better as customers in her Sugar Baby persona.
I used to see a lady in the U.S. a very long time ago at her tiny little rented house on a hill in Los Angeles. She primarily worked at a brothel but she gave her cell phone number to regular customers who were either from L.A. or traveled there occasionally. Smoking hot girl. Once I was supposed to see her at her house, but she redirected me a few days before my visit to an apartment in the city. Turns out she had to evacuate her rented house due to mudslide risk. She told me to pick up a pizza at a certain place not far from the apartment. She was thin and not a big eater. She had a piece of pizza. I had several (this was before Viagra made sex and eating incompatible). After the session, she told me it was a male friend‘s apartment who was out of the country on a work assignment. She told me he was letting her use the apartment since she had to evacuate her place. He was an impressive guy with lots of awards and based on the pictures in his apartment, he was a good looking guy. It took me a while to understand why I was told to get pizza, but I finally understood. If any of his neighbors happened to be looking, I was the pizza delivery guy from the nearby pizza place from which she routinely got delivery. Hell, they probably got delivery from there together when it was Blockbuster and Chill. This was before Netflix. God, that girl was smart.
To all of you kind enough to let us know your relationship sex was so much better than the transactional sex generally reviewed here, what happened to those poor girls? Did they get run over by a bus, possibly when they were distracted by thinking about how much they loved you? Or were they providing great sex with the illusion of you being their One and Only and they moved on, or declined the great relationship sex, once they got what they wanted? Women are whip smart and go through life knowing their greatest asset has its highest value when they are young. They create illusions. Nothing wrong with enjoying the illusions ourselves without getting hung up on society’s expectations.
And hell, those illusions are created be women as a whole. Men don’t fantasize about $100,000 weddings. Women do, and it is “her” day. Most women want that Day for herself, surrounded by her friends and family. Damn right she provides some great sex before that wedding to the guy who marries her. And if she wants kids, that great sex continues till she has the kids she wants. After that, maybe not so much ???
I once met a girl who was a street prostitute. She said she got more money/clients when she performed certain acts over others; the guys would tell their friends "[insert name of escort]" did X with me last night. My wife/ex-wife would never do that with me during our marriage. It's important to keep that in mind. When people say that sex with an escort is soo much better, I question to what extent those people have been in truly loving and committed relationships....in most cases, you're just getting the tip of the ice berg with an escort. It's mostly surface level authenticity.One of the first SP, or the first can`t remember, the girl was using my dick to fuck face herself. She was laughing, swinging it and blowing like there is no tomorrow... It was quite hardcore... I was in pure shock. I had no clue it could be like that with an escort. Me the dude who was just very recently separated... after 4 years without sex... with 2 kids... I remember at that moment thinking about a gangster movie where Robert De Niro is asked if his wife had given him a nice blow job recently. He answered 'What`s wrong with you, the mother who kisses my kids good bye each morning???'
Don`t get me wrong sex with a life partner or just any relationship is amazing. But so different. Sex with a stranger is just fucking amazing.
Out of every 10 couples, I am sure 9 would see great benefits to see escort
The first thing I learned while being a member of such a review site? Never expect a girl who does X with someone will do it with you
Socrates might have come up with his quote after seeing a good sex worker. I think the Athenians had good brothels.
Life is a series of illusions. Kind of a shame to carry the torch for the intimacy of a past relationship so much that you don’t enjoy sex with a sex worker, even if she offers DFK like a new girlfriend does. She is trying her best. Just my opinion.
Volaire seems the least likely of the bunch to have enjoyed commercial sex. The apparent philosopher Michael Jordan just likes leaping over people and dunking the basketball in their faces.
Life is a series of illusions. Kind of a shame to carry the torch for the intimacy of a past relationship so much that you don’t enjoy sex with a sex worker, even if she offers DFK like a new girlfriend does. She is trying her best. Just my opinion.
Volaire seems the least likely of the bunch to have enjoyed commercial sex. The apparent philosopher Michael Jordan just likes leaping over people and dunking the basketball in their faces.
