Sugar Baby Conversion

[GeeBee]

One major misconception is that sugar is only sex. Sugar is so much more than just sex. This is why sugar companionship is so misconstrued these days. Even the OP said he had a one night stand with a sugar baby… I’m sorry but that’s an escort.

You pay sugar babies to stay and you pay escorts to leave. If she left after one night then I’m sorry to tell you that was NOT a sugar baby lol

I’d agree, it’s a good distinction. Even if the girl doesn’t see it that way.

I’m in the sugar world for sex obviously, but there is more to the relationship than just that. If you want a quick fuck and out the door there are lots of escorts to fill that need. Sugar babies are more work, but there can be more to the arrangement than just sex if it works out well.

 

[Hybrid7]

I'm not here to judge OP, in fact, I think it's incredibly hot that you were fooling around behind your fiancee's back. Would you mind explaining how that started? Was it a physical or an emotional need that she couldn't meet that led you to hobbying/sugar dating? How would you describe the first provider who you 'broke bad' into that world with? Was she something special?

And how did you manage to juggle things and for how long? Separate phones? Snapchat?

 

[_Melissa]

It seems in this thread, that

I’d agree, it’s a good distinction. Even if the girl doesn’t see it that way.

I’m in the sugar world for sex obviously, but there is more to the relationship than just that. If you want a quick fuck and out the door there are lots of escorts to fill that need. Sugar babies are more work, but there can be more to the arrangement than just sex if it works out well.

Absolutely! It’s possible to have a sugar arrangement that is strictly sexual in nature and happens on an on going and consistent basis. If those are the needs both sides agree to and they are happy then that’s awesome. But often times the guy wants companionship and connection to be a part of the physical aspect but in a less traditional way than having a normal girlfriend. Further more it should be about mutual benefits, respect and total reciprocation. Not just about what the guy can get out of it for as cheap as possible you know?

 

[RobI]

I swear this Country is messed up. It’s good for a lot of things but finding a good woman is not one of them.
Men here need to travel more and you will see many beautiful girls around the world, who would be happy if you buy them a meal.

Yeah, spending half an hour on LeoList will certainly give you that impression - so many scams now. There are plenty of normal girls on these sugar sites (just don't use Secret Benefits), the problem is they get chased off quickly by the sex maniacs

 

[dadbodyguy]

Get it while you can. In a year these innocent girls will be wanting double what they are getting now and calling you babe and hun

there will always be more coming up that won't though.

Circle of life never stops

 

[shack]

there will always be more coming up that won't though.

We can consider it a renewable resource.

 

[superman12]

One major misconception is that sugar is only sex. Sugar is so much more than just sex. This is why sugar companionship is so misconstrued these days. Even the OP said he had a one night stand with a sugar baby… I’m sorry but that’s an escort.

You pay sugar babies to stay and you pay escorts to leave. If she left after one night then I’m sorry to tell you that was NOT a sugar baby lol

I'm so glad you pointed this out. Having a relationship with an SB and seeing escorts are two different experiences. Sure an sb relationship might involve sex at times but it's not the only thing I'm looking for in an sb relationship. If I'm just looking for sex I'm going to go see an escort. I currently see both sb's and escorts. Last night I took my sb of 2 years out on a date where all we did was go shopping and had dinner. We flirted and made out but no sex because it wasn't what I was looking for. If it was I would have probably just booked as escort.

 

[oralgiver]

This thread is click bait. It seems implausible to me. Just saying.

 

[GeeBee]

This thread is click bait. It seems implausible to me. Just saying.

It may seem implausible, but it’s very much real. Just not every guy’s cup of tea.

I’m sure the whole idea of high class SP’s seems implausible to an outsider too, but for the gent’s of TERB it’s a well known reality.

 

[jsanchez]

It may seem implausible, but it’s very much real. Just not every guy’s cup of tea.

The subject of this thread (sb conversion, op's first post) is implausible, I don't buy it, they're in it for gifts or money.
If a naive 18yr old sb is fooled into thinking this is a potential long term relationship then that's a different story.

 

[PabloNeruda]

I started on Seeking about 2 weeks ago. Within a few days I made an arrangement to meet someone, she is a 25 year old beauty pageant winner who was a finalist for Ms Canada two years ago who recently moved to Toronto, tall, blonde and beautiful, she's also bisexual. She is into older, rich, successful guys. I take her out for dinner, Canoe, Louis Louis etc., and then we come back to my place and have two plus hours of sex. I'm 55 but look about 40 (and thank you Cialis), it is a good relationship but I started to find it boring, not the sex but there is only so much you can talk about. I have a date tomorrow night with a fitness model, we will see how it goes, but what helps are good photos, looking young and fit, good fashion sense, money and being upfront. I like it because unlike escorts, there is no time limit, but it does start to get like regular dating and I have been stalked by some girls, texting me repeatedly after I have ghosted them.

 

[xix]

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[dadbodyguy]

I started on Seeking about 2 weeks ago. Within a few days I made an arrangement to meet someone, she is a 25 year old beauty pageant winner who was a finalist for Ms Canada two years ago who recently moved to Toronto, tall, blonde and beautiful, she's also bisexual. She is into older, rich, successful guys. I take her out for dinner, Canoe, Louis Louis etc., and then we come back to my place and have two plus hours of sex. I'm 55 but look about 40 (and thank you Cialis), it is a good relationship but I started to find it boring, not the sex but there is only so much you can talk about. I have a date tomorrow night with a fitness model, we will see how it goes, but what helps are good photos, looking young and fit, good fashion sense, money and being upfront. I like it because unlike escorts, there is no time limit, but it does start to get like regular dating and I have been stalked by some girls, texting me repeatedly after I have ghosted them.

what did the 2 hours cost you - not including dinners and how many dinners to get her to your place

 

[xix]

Australia’s online dating industry adopts code of conduct to keep users safer

A code of conduct will be enforced on the online dating industry to better protect Australian users

torontosun.com

 

[jerbb]

I started on Seeking about 2 weeks ago. Within a few days I made an arrangement to meet someone, she is a 25 year old beauty pageant winner who was a finalist for Ms Canada two years ago who recently moved to Toronto, tall, blonde and beautiful, she's also bisexual. She is into older, rich, successful guys. I take her out for dinner, Canoe, Louis Louis etc., and then we come back to my place and have two plus hours of sex. I'm 55 but look about 40 (and thank you Cialis), it is a good relationship but I started to find it boring, not the sex but there is only so much you can talk about. I have a date tomorrow night with a fitness model, we will see how it goes, but what helps are good photos, looking young and fit, good fashion sense, money and being upfront. I like it because unlike escorts, there is no time limit, but it does start to get like regular dating and I have been stalked by some girls, texting me repeatedly after I have ghosted them.

I'm been curious regarding the whole SB scene and have been using agencies lately. I asked one I really liked at the agency if she was interested and it was super easy to set up and took the plunge. I like long appointments, its way more affordable.and bang for your buck. I calculated it out and it's at least $100 an hour less then seeing an escort

I see her every week since Aug and she has traveled with me for work and I have to say It's way for fun too.

 

[xix]

I am beginning to wonder about ALL THESE NEW MEMBERS.

It's like you are having a convo with a friend in the street and some strange over hears and drops a dumb comment. 80% it's a NPC.

 

[dadbodyguy]

I am beginning to wonder about ALL THESE NEW MEMBERS.

It's like you are having a convo with a friend in the street and some strange over hears and drops a dumb comment. 80% it's a NPC.

you too were once a new member

 

[_Melissa]

The subject of this thread (sb conversion, op's first post) is implausible, I don't buy it, they're in it for gifts or money.
If a naive 18yr old sb is fooled into thinking this is a potential long term relationship then that's a different story.

sure we like the gifts and money but just because we want those things doesn’t mean there aren’t other qualities that are important to us.

What I look for in a sugar daddy besides the obvious generosity, is some one with a sense of humour that I can tell all my dad jokes to, someone with sense in their head and some life experience. Someone that can mentor me and show me things that a younger, broke dude could never dream of showing and teaching me.

I actually want to learn something valuable from the man that’s supporting me. Money comes and goes but the things I could learn from him in life are forever. The right SD is only all too happy to build a young girl from the ground up and look at her with pride when she’s finally successful in life because of HIM!

 

[Oliverleo]

I am creating a new thread because I think it’s a big enough departure from the sugar dating experience thread.

I have been into sugar dating (and hobbying still) for about 2.5 years. I have met and been intimate with approximately 30 of them. The first was a one night thing and it was pretty thrilling (it’s addictive) and then so were the next probably 5-6. Mostly involved meeting for a coffee or drink to see if we connect, I.e. they are evaluating if you’re a danger and/or a poser. It then proceeded to what you'd expect. Overall good stuff.

I should add that during this timeframe I lived with an ex fiancée. No judgment zone reminder to those who may come at me. I was also hobbying still. I need help, I know.

May 2022 I met someone different. We really did hit it off. She was 20 I was 37. We talked every day. We agreed on $200/week and she was pretty clear on platonic. I never in my life I thought I’d agree to that type of arrangement in my life , but I did. July 2023 one night she calls late and asks if I can pick her and her friend up from the bar and I said sure. Got her crumpled roomate up to her bed (beefy girl, too). The SB and I sat and talked for a couple hours and ended up doing the deed. From there we did another 6 months with the $200/week. A year in, she goes home for a month and we taie a slight slow down and I say that I’m not sending money, it’s fine. She comes home in a month, never start sending money again. We keep seeing each other. And we had still talked every day, multiple FaceTimes a day. 1.5 years in and she moves home to Florida. 2 years in this past may we finally parted ways. Actually heart breaking to be honest but I won’t go into that.

During this relationship I still met other SBs. I was actually engaged, had a mistress, seeing other SBs and hobbying. I’m a degenerate.

Last October I converted a 19 year old for 2 months. Only provided a gift the first time. Last November I converted an 18 year old for 2 months, gift once. I’ve recently converted a 20/21 to a no gift situation.

I guess my question is, have others done this? If so, tell your story and let’s make a playbook.

Wow, that's quite a story! It sounds like you've had a pretty unique journey through sugar dating, especially with how things evolved from the usual financial arrangements to more genuine connections. I've been involved in sugar dating for a while too, but haven't experienced the transition to a no-gift situation like you have. I'm curious though how do you bring that up or steer the relationship in that direction? It would be interesting to hear how others have handled this as well. Every experience seems so different.