Sugar Baby Conversion
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I understand what you mean. I've got contact details from friends in the past, and most sugar babies (who aren't pros) will freak out if some random guy contacts them out of the blue. The only time it's worked is if the guy vouches for me and she allows it.
I agree about the motivations. The true sugar babies are coming from a different place and are usually looking to fulfil an immediate need, not make a career out of it
For that reason, I tell guys who ask, "Here's her profile and how much she was looking for as a guideline." If the girl sounds serious in her profile, it's usually not that hard to arrange a meet-up as long as the guy doesn't give off bad vibes.
If you ever do want any leads, I don't mind sharing profiles, there are too many with good potential for my bank account to support
I swear this Country is messed up. It’s good for a lot of things but finding a good woman is not one of them.
Men here need to travel more and you will see many beautiful girls around the world, who would be happy if you buy them a meal.
Men here need to travel more and you will see many beautiful girls around the world, who would be happy if you buy them a meal.
Get it while you can. In a year these innocent girls will be wanting double what they are getting now and calling you babe and hun
I immediately run away from the ones that call me babe and hun. That's the way the pros talk.
This one says she's got a couple of friends around her age that are interested. I'll make sure that I have lots of film in my camera phone to take pics of their IDs before they get past my door.
One major misconception is that sugar is only sex. Sugar is so much more than just sex. This is why sugar companionship is so misconstrued these days. Even the OP said he had a one night stand with a sugar baby… I’m sorry but that’s an escort.
You pay sugar babies to stay and you pay escorts to leave. If she left after one night then I’m sorry to tell you that was NOT a sugar baby lol
I’d agree, it’s a good distinction. Even if the girl doesn’t see it that way.
I’m in the sugar world for sex obviously, but there is more to the relationship than just that. If you want a quick fuck and out the door there are lots of escorts to fill that need. Sugar babies are more work, but there can be more to the arrangement than just sex if it works out well.
I'm not here to judge OP, in fact, I think it's incredibly hot that you were fooling around behind your fiancee's back. Would you mind explaining how that started? Was it a physical or an emotional need that she couldn't meet that led you to hobbying/sugar dating? How would you describe the first provider who you 'broke bad' into that world with? Was she something special?
And how did you manage to juggle things and for how long? Separate phones? Snapchat?
And how did you manage to juggle things and for how long? Separate phones? Snapchat?
It seems in this thread, that
Absolutely! It’s possible to have a sugar arrangement that is strictly sexual in nature and happens on an on going and consistent basis. If those are the needs both sides agree to and they are happy then that’s awesome. But often times the guy wants companionship and connection to be a part of the physical aspect but in a less traditional way than having a normal girlfriend. Further more it should be about mutual benefits, respect and total reciprocation. Not just about what the guy can get out of it for as cheap as possible you know?
Yeah, spending half an hour on LeoList will certainly give you that impression - so many scams now. There are plenty of normal girls on these sugar sites (just don't use Secret Benefits), the problem is they get chased off quickly by the sex maniacs
I'm so glad you pointed this out. Having a relationship with an SB and seeing escorts are two different experiences. Sure an sb relationship might involve sex at times but it's not the only thing I'm looking for in an sb relationship. If I'm just looking for sex I'm going to go see an escort. I currently see both sb's and escorts. Last night I took my sb of 2 years out on a date where all we did was go shopping and had dinner. We flirted and made out but no sex because it wasn't what I was looking for. If it was I would have probably just booked as escort.
It may seem implausible, but it’s very much real. Just not every guy’s cup of tea.
I’m sure the whole idea of high class SP’s seems implausible to an outsider too, but for the gent’s of TERB it’s a well known reality.
The subject of this thread (sb conversion, op's first post) is implausible, I don't buy it, they're in it for gifts or money.
If a naive 18yr old sb is fooled into thinking this is a potential long term relationship then that's a different story.
I started on Seeking about 2 weeks ago. Within a few days I made an arrangement to meet someone, she is a 25 year old beauty pageant winner who was a finalist for Ms Canada two years ago who recently moved to Toronto, tall, blonde and beautiful, she's also bisexual. She is into older, rich, successful guys. I take her out for dinner, Canoe, Louis Louis etc., and then we come back to my place and have two plus hours of sex. I'm 55 but look about 40 (and thank you Cialis), it is a good relationship but I started to find it boring, not the sex but there is only so much you can talk about. I have a date tomorrow night with a fitness model, we will see how it goes, but what helps are good photos, looking young and fit, good fashion sense, money and being upfront. I like it because unlike escorts, there is no time limit, but it does start to get like regular dating and I have been stalked by some girls, texting me repeatedly after I have ghosted them.
what did the 2 hours cost you - not including dinners and how many dinners to get her to your place
