tldr; see who you want to see for the reasons you want to see them. Clear communications will help you find the trysts you enjoy.
I cannot imagine the number of reasons a client seeks out the company of a SP (there are many), but for the purposes of this response I will group clients in two seperate groups:
- Clients seeking sexual gratification; and/or
- Clients seeking the companionship of an attractive (to them) SP
I can only speak for myself and will frame my responses below as such.
For the record, I seek both equally... a lovely lady to spend a brief interlude enjoying not just the physical; but to also connect with a person that piques my interest.
As a mature gent myself, this suggests to me the lady I am considering to meet is mature herself. I very much appreciate the company of a mature
woman that can titillate not just my physical senses, but also my intellectual and emotional senses. I do enjoy "
falling in like" every now and then.
Yep, I have dated below my preferred age/"maturity" level, 'cause damn that
girl looks hot... but am soon bored as that is the only perceived connection. "Quickies" are not something I typically seek, so I don't want to be clawing my eyes out listening to inane chatter as I surreptitiously look at my watch to see when I can depart.
Although I do not drink wine often, but a
lady that has experienced life, has views and opinions... and is able to express them; is a far more interesting person to spend time with: sexually and companionably.
Refinement may come at any age, but experience takes time to nurture.
I cannot speak to
my "refinement" as I am still prone to bouts of gleeful immaturity... but am "old enough to know better and young enough to want to do it anyway.” ;--)
To hell with "political correctness".
Clear communications are valued by those that read and think critically, I sense these are the clients you seek.
Personally, I am wary of folks who may have daddy or mommy "issues". Please don't call me daddy lol
Not having met you (yet) Ali, I cannot speak to your refinement and genes, but I would not be surprised to discover you look 'youthful'... I can "hear" maturity in your words and the few pictures I have seen of you suggest a total fox ;--)
Hell no, you are a beautiful
woman: intelligent, independent, funny and engaging... do whatever the hell you want... I strive to do that myself every day ;--)
Final thought: I can't thank the
ladies enough who post to this forum... it is most insightful (and refreshing) to see conversations like this.