Advice from married guys
- Thread starter sholon
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Many probably do hobby, they just don’t tell their friends.
Haha I feel the same, i was actually feeling shitty about my life until I came to this threadBeing single feels even more amazing after I read the posts above
Oh true that's a good point. I guess there are many guys out there who probably don't find sex to be all that important at all, if they have a good mental connection and their own interests etc.
they find another hobby with less stress and headache over makeup left on your face or shirt, about the perfume smell, etc. Can easily lead to being paranoid.
mate you really think ability to see escorts or lets say see it without barriers is more important than have a family next to youBeing single feels even more amazing after I read the posts above
probably they are not real friends, i know when my friends are going for hobby or a real date
If you have a family next to you and you are on this board it’s great that it works for you but don’t expect me to feel like I am missing much
I have a buddy who would cheat on his wife every opportunity. He's a good looking guy, so the opportunities came... Things worked in reverse for him though. His wife turned everything around. She got fit, became super-supportive, wanted more sex and initiated it too. He hasn't strayed in over 10 years now as he has everything he wants plus the peace. Impressive.
People handle things like guilt, anxiety and stress very differently.
People that compartmentalize impress me. Like Tiger Woods for example.
To all the guys who would say "sexless marriage", ever ask why?
I did. Response was "it now hurts". Never went beyond that.
Curious if anyone asked or just accepted.
I did. Response was "it now hurts". Never went beyond that.
Curious if anyone asked or just accepted.
When I originally asked, I got: "I just don't want to". I pressed a bit, asking her why our dating life had more sex and she said: "You were duped". Painful to hear.
We've fought about it off and on for years. Last year was the worst... She made me read (I didn't want to) her journal entry which one-sidedly criticized my foreplay technique... I lost it on her and asked how she could expect me to 'better' without communication and consistent sex (4-5 times per year)... [I rarely cum with her, but never criticize...]
After that blow-out fight, she actually went away with her work friends (all girls) to a cottage during our anniversary. Upon her return, I asked why should I even stay in the marriage... She asked me if I still loved her and I said "no"... She burst into tears and my life flashed before my eyes, panicking over my kids and I reversed my comment to "yes" saying I didn't hear her question correctly...
Still no sex, but she's making me my lunch somewhat regularly now...
I helped generate amazing kids. She's a caring Mom and tries for them. The kids are physical specimens, funny and excel in school. It is all worth it.
Wow, it takes balls to ask and then process the response, balancing what we created together vs the need to fuck. Tbh, all parties settle.
