Sugar Dating Experience

[Jicama]

Men are getting wise to the massive number of FB groups created by women under the context of "safety and protecting each other"...where they post men's pics and either ask if anyone has red flags about them...or slander the posted men for whatever reason....usually cuz the women have been ghosted, or they got banged then ghosted etc. These women are referred to as the "Un-picked" and are generally bitter. Men are starting to realize dating apps are stacked against them on multiple levels, and since they are the majority who pay for the subscriptions....

It's not surprising. These sites/apps are now old enough where they need sustainable profit and not just growth. They depend on guys for paying fees and they depend on women to bring guys in.

Guys who have a lot of success don't generate much revenue. Women have the illusion of choice, but it comes at the cost of longer term relationships and/or fuckboys and they're realizing it's not what they want.

The guys who are responsible for the vast majority of revenue usually have much less success and they can only be strung along for so long with bots before they just give up. So the app only ends up working for a small group of men who are getting lots of matches and a slightly larger group of women - neither of whom pay fees!

 

[GeeBee]

It's not surprising. These sites/apps are now old enough where they need sustainable profit and not just growth. They depend on guys for paying fees and they depend on women to bring guys in.

Guys who have a lot of success don't generate much revenue. Women have the illusion of choice, but it comes at the cost of longer term relationships and/or fuckboys and they're realizing it's not what they want.

The guys who are responsible for the vast majority of revenue usually have much less success and they can only be strung along for so long with bots before they just give up. So the app only ends up working for a small group of men who are getting lots of matches and a slightly larger group of women - neither of whom pay fees!

Exactly this.

These sites are not designed to give you success at finding a Sugar Baby, that is not their business model. The girls are the product and can join for free (no cost to the vendor for it’s inventory, whether all the girls are real or not doesn’t really matter ) and the guys pay to be there (paying customers who browse the shelves for an entry fee) The trick is to keep you coming back month after month.

Their money is made from giving the illusion of possibilities and providing just enough to keep the paying customers coming back. If you pay for a month and find a girl to see for the next year they really aren’t making much. But if you pay for a year and maybe get a couple of dates that give you that little sniff of success?? Ding Ding Ding!! You are the perfect customer. Money in their bank.

 

[onomatopoeia]

One of my friends has had a Coton de Tulear



dog for thirty years. It's not the same dog, he just gets a new one whenever the old one dies. He gets more pussy with that dog than any guy on this board, with the possible exception of Ceiling Cat, (if you believe his stats). He swears that this dog breed is irresistible to Jewish divorcees.

 

[Jicama]

Exactly this.

These sites are not designed to give you success at finding a Sugar Baby, that is not their business model. The girls are the product and can join for free (no cost to the vendor for it’s inventory, whether all the girls are real or not doesn’t really matter ) and the guys pay to be there (paying customers who browse the shelves for an entry fee) The trick is to keep you coming back month after month.

Their money is made from giving the illusion of possibilities and providing just enough to keep the paying customers coming back. If you pay for a month and find a girl to see for the next year they really aren’t making much. But if you pay for a year and maybe get a couple of dates that give you that little sniff of success?? Ding Ding Ding!! You are the perfect customer. Money in their bank.

That's just it - the bar is so, so low and they're still having trouble clearing it. To be fair, it's not all the platform's fault - the entire social pairing model breaks down when you have unlimited "choice" for some and unlimited rejection for many. It's a dynamic that can be quite unhealthy for the majority of both men and women.

 

[Leimonis]

the entire social pairing model breaks down when you have unlimited "choice" for some and unlimited rejection for many. It's a dynamic that can be quite unhealthy for the majority of both men and women.

Bill maher in his most recent episode referred to data showing that about 60% on men under 30 identify as single while only about 30% of women under 30 do. He said “I didn’t know that there’s so many lesbians” but jokes aside it has got to be something else.
I believe that it’s mostly because men over 30 (not captured by the data) are dating women under 30. Nothing unhealthy about that really and gives us all hope
Also maybe because small segment of “alpha” males date multiple women and all women who “know their worth” compete for those same men. That does seem a bit unhealthy. But like Louis ck said: if you feel bad for unfuckable people you can go ahead and fuck them.

 

[Funtimez77]

Bill maher in his most recent episode referred to data showing that about 60% on men under 30 identify as single while only about 30% of women under 30 do. He said “I didn’t know that there’s so many lesbians” but jokes aside it has got to be something else.
I believe that it’s mostly because men over 30 (not captured by the data) are dating women under 30. Nothing unhealthy about that really and gives us all hope
Also maybe because small segment of “alpha” males date multiple women and all women who “know their worth” compete for those same men. That does seem a bit unhealthy. But like Louis ck said: if you feel bad for unfuckable people you can go ahead and fuck them.

I mean that should make sense, many (or most?) women will typically date a guy at least 2-3 year older than them. So not surprising that a lot of 26-30 year old women might be dating 30-35 year old men. In my friends circle, the split is half and half. Half the guys are with women their age and the other half are with women 2-5 years younger.

 

[GeeBee]

Bill maher in his most recent episode referred to data showing that about 60% on men under 30 identify as single while only about 30% of women under 30 do. He said “I didn’t know that there’s so many lesbians” but jokes aside it has got to be something else.
I believe that it’s mostly because men over 30 (not captured by the data) are dating women under 30. Nothing unhealthy about that really and gives us all hope
Also maybe because small segment of “alpha” males date multiple women and all women who “know their worth” compete for those same men. That does seem a bit unhealthy. But like Louis ck said: if you feel bad for unfuckable people you can go ahead and fuck them.

LOL Bill Maher would know. I vividly remember him getting photographed coming out of nightclubs with some of LA’s finest hookers. He also had a huge reputation for dating much younger women (SB’s ? who can tell) I understand he’s settled into a LTR several years ago but he definitely knows how the stats he’s quoting play out.

 

[SchlongConery]

LOL Bill Maher would know. I vividly remember him getting photographed coming out of nightclubs with some of LA’s finest hookers. He also had a huge reputation for dating much younger women (SB’s ? who can tell) I understand he’s settled into a LTR several years ago but he definitely knows how the stats he’s quoting play out.

 

[futt bucker]

An angry scammer

 

[GeeBee]

An angry scammer

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Well that escalated quickly

 

[futt bucker]

Well that escalated quickly

You think she's a keeper? LOL

I had a few red flags even before the stuff I wrote about not wanting to chat online forever.

 

[GeeBee]

You think she's a keeper? LOL

I had a few red flags even before the stuff I wrote about not wanting to chat online forever.

LOL Yeah you can usually weed out the scams with a bit of casual chat, the red flags do pop up pretty quickly don’t they?

I’ve enjoyed some of the back and forth sometimes, and it’s given me a good feeling about the vibe a real interaction might have. If a girl can communicate on full sentences at least you know she might be able to hold a conversation over a drink. Many times I’ve been correct in the long run. But often one or two messages is enough to tell me I’m wasting my time and energy.

 

[Leimonis]

An angry scammer

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I bet there was already a good reason to block before this latest exchange.

 

[Leimonis]

Meanwhile sugar babies are also complaining

 

[futt bucker]

I bet there was already a good reason to block before this latest exchange.

Yep.

 

[futt bucker]

I can't wait to talk to her

 

[Leimonis]

I can't wait to talk to her

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She has a degree in gluing nails on nails and another degree in drawing eyebrows on eyebrows

 

[onomatopoeia]

 

[IMBob]

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[concol]

Monte Carlo, Admiral, Canada’s Best Value -Evans. Travelodge-Richmond Hill. White Knight - Dixie /Derry. Mississauga Gate -Dundas - renovated rooms, exterior is sketchy

If in Mississaguga the Double Tree Dixie/401 has some decent rates.