Stop being so picky
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Yes, I'm honest with my description and as far as I know, I haven't disappointed anyone.
My post was regarding the original subject, if someone came to visit me knowing my stats even though my stats weren't to their specific tastes.
If the client normally prefers someone without tattoo and he can’t find one, the only option that checks most of his criteria is one that a small tattoo or maybe two. He should not close the door.
There are some deal breakers, if you don’t like tattoos, don’t go and see someone who has sleeves just because.
I've read the entire thread and all of the responses, and I'm still confused by it. What exactly shouldn't we be picky about?? And how is going out of my comfort zone would help me have a better experience? If this thread was about managing expectations, then sure, I 100% agree. We usually expect too much and get disappointed in the process. SPs are just girls who're trying to make a living. I treat everyone with courtesy and respect, and my miles are usually very good. As far as being "picky" - we pay, so we get to be picky. Btw, assuming that a 45-50 year old man can't pickup a hot 30 year old is nonsense.
I mostly agree with everything above.
I’d been pushing myself for years to lower my standards and I’ve learned to like women who are 5-6 facially if they have great bodies.
But I still can’t do fat (definitely cannot repeat) and most get fat when older. Also as they age they tend to get fake body parts which I’m not a fan of.
If only I was able to get an erection while with a fat old woman I’d marry rich and be the happiest man in the world…
Skipping the semantics of calling it being picky; I would say due to our limited time (and to most, money), it would make sense for someone to pick someone they THINK its to their liking.
Even if one had enough time in their life to spare and not care about using their time to "broadening their views", there is the aspect of negative experience and then being embedded in your head. Which I think TERB is amazing because we can see the experience different people have, knowingly YMMV, but at least it gives us a glimpse about their potential demeanor and the overall experience.
Even if one had enough time in their life to spare and not care about using their time to "broadening their views", there is the aspect of negative experience and then being embedded in your head. Which I think TERB is amazing because we can see the experience different people have, knowingly YMMV, but at least it gives us a glimpse about their potential demeanor and the overall experience.
Or Shane Falco...Sounds like Evel Kneivel had it right:
Pain heals
Chick's dig scars
But Glory lasts forever!
Well when we talk about fantasy...it's quite clear where we get the fantasies from...Men are visual creatures in general...what they saw on the screen, (pretty woman, basic instinct, jessica rabbit etc etc) the options are almost endless.... fantasies can go from Pamela Anderson (baywatch) to Lucy Liu (payback)....IMO we can be picky if we're spending out $$$ to get on with a hot babe...if the experience is dull...then we should live with the mistake we just made...
I understand the argument being raised, but I think it's not taking the male sex drive into consideration.
Men are not like a lawnmower where you pull a cord at the back and we start going. That natural "drive" has to be there.
I've done the "Just try someone" approach and the usual end result is I leave unsatisfied. Not bad service but not satisfying.
Men are not like a lawnmower where you pull a cord at the back and we start going. That natural "drive" has to be there.
I've done the "Just try someone" approach and the usual end result is I leave unsatisfied. Not bad service but not satisfying.
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Having nothing is often preferable to having something you don't want. An STI, for example.
Not just anyone but if you’re into dark brown hair and someone matches your list of criteria with the exception of her hair, let’s say light brown hair instead. Why not try?
For me, personality is much more important than anything else when booking with someone. Even my perception of someone's attractiveness will skyrocket if I find them genuinely kind so I won't look much at face/body scores when reading reviews.
But I don't think my approach makes sense for everyone. A lot of people see SPs for very specific reasons e.g. to enjoy being with someone of a specific physical type or engage in a specific service. For these people, not being picky defeats their purpose of seeing an SP.
But I don't think my approach makes sense for everyone. A lot of people see SPs for very specific reasons e.g. to enjoy being with someone of a specific physical type or engage in a specific service. For these people, not being picky defeats their purpose of seeing an SP.
Obviously when I'm looking for someone to reach out to I'm looking at the physical attributes and if they are my type. (I think no different than regular dating). However she can be a 10/10 on the looks/body parts if she's not personable, friendly, or if there's little connection on a personable level, I won't be back. There's lots a providers I have seen where physically something was off or maybe not what I was expecting however if I had a good time with her I would always come back. Half of this is in the mind
Back to picky - I think it also refers to blokes imagining a flawless beauty, and then holding it against the lady. In fact, real women have the occasional stretch mark or extra roll or a touch of dimpling (cellulite?). Given I'm not perfect, I never hold it against the lady and in fact I find it humanizes them (after all, I'm punching above my weight on visits with these angels). Baby signs also render them special in that they gave life. Thus baby belly signs, a sag here or there, absolutely not a problem (unless the pics are way, way misleading). (BTW one exception for me is lactation. Makes me ill thinking about it).
I assume the pics I see in the ad are representing the lady in the very best possible light. I clearly expect a bit different when i meet in person and I'm almost never disappointed that way.
I assume the pics I see in the ad are representing the lady in the very best possible light. I clearly expect a bit different when i meet in person and I'm almost never disappointed that way.
I don't see that as an issue or much of a difference. The looks you are describing is very similar.
Let me rephrase your question. Lets say I'm into dark curly hair, but this provider has short straight blonde hair. That can be enough for me to say, "it's not what I'm looking for".
If it's not what I'm looking for, why force it? Especially when the cost comes out of my pocket?
I could say more but don't want to make this too long.
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To me, picky is when guys complain about only getting a cbj, not being able to DFK/LFK or no DATY/DATO.
These things are very trivial in my eyes and shouldn't be a reason not to see provider. But so many guys use this as make or break reasoning.
It hilarious to me that a peice of 1mm thick plastic will turn guys off to a woman.
These things are very trivial in my eyes and shouldn't be a reason not to see provider. But so many guys use this as make or break reasoning.
It hilarious to me that a peice of 1mm thick plastic will turn guys off to a woman.
I do agree that being too picky means gents are probably missing out on some great experiences but on the other hand when a gent is booking an sp there probably looking for a specific fantasy they want fulfilled which means there looking for a specific body type, race, age etc. You can see where the pickiness comes into play. If your a guy who is just looking for a quick fuck then it doesn't make sense to be so picky because all you need is a pussy and a girl who can give you a bj.
