Stop being so picky

[LC18]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

 

[Kautilya]

Looks, body type, race and age are never a criteria for me. I have booked providers across races and body types. I have booked providers as young as 22 and as old as possibly 50. Attitude, hygiene, service and most importantly being sexually open minded is what I look for.

Infact I actually like physical imperfections. I find them sexy than being absolutely perfect.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Looks, body type, race and age are never a criteria for me. I have booked providers across races and body types. I have booked providers as young as 22 and as old as possibly 50. Attitude, hygiene, service and most importantly being sexually open minded is what I look for.

Infact I actually like physical imperfections. I find them sexy than being absolutely perfect.

Totally agree mate - attitude and hygiene is all I look for, hmm ok and recommendations.

 

[Burldude]

Same here... I actually try to avoid girls that are too pretty or too young. I prefer mature and service oriented woman with great attitude.

 

[LC18]

Infact I actually like physical imperfections. I find them sexy than being absolutely perfect.

me too, I love looking at scars. I never ask how they got them but I’m always happy when they feel comfortable enough to share on their own

 

[bazokajoe]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

Disagree.
Customer is always right.
I'll look and choose by my preferences.
If someone prefers a certain race, body type then so be it.
Why pick someone who won't turn you on by not being "your type".

 

[LC18]

Disagree.
Customer is always right.
I'll look and choose by my preferences.
If someone prefers a certain race, body type then so be it.
Why pick someone who won't turn you on by not being "your type".

I see you chose to read in diagonal. I never said you should book someone that doesn’t turn you on, I said if you’re so picky that you can never find the “perfect SP” maybe you should consider going slightly out of your usual criteria.

 

[Cbr20152012]

Another good thread from LC18. Hope this one runs for awhile and doesn’t get derailed.Though, I think it needs a question in it as well as the challenge to really drive conversation.

I’m generally all for service attitude and fun.

Like everyone I am pre-conditioned for/against certain attributes or variables. One of the unexpectedly fun things about this foray has been the challenging of those pre-conditioned opinions (as well as experiencing the kaleidoscope of options that exist in Toronto).

didn’t think I could have fun with the following and was proven completely wrong:
Covered in Tattoos
University age
Quite old

What got me to try options that I didn’t think I was into were the reviews on here. Glad I tried. Had fun.

 

[Butler1000]

Hang on......Popping popcorn, let me get comfy....

 

[xix]

Both genders are delusional.
There is no sense in pinpointing anything or any body or any locations because it is everywhere. Not even by age. I seen old woman acting like teenagers.

So when you are an SP and get that call I can understand three questions when all your info is on the web. If not then,, I can see five questions.

But unfortunately most people think they can turn a tiger into a leopard.
People have their preference if they are waiting for ever that is their bad decision not the SP or another client.

To many people think they are almighty on top of a mountain because they are older and have a cell. Delusional.

IF the SP is not to your liking MOVE ON.

 

[SexB]

Well said as always, @LC18.

 

[LC18]

Would you prefer booking a 10 with a nasty attitude, poor service and who doesn’t seem to care about you or a 7 with an amazing attitude, great service and that wants to please you?

This is what I meant btw, never said to go and book a 2 if you can’t find a 10

 

[Mr Deeds]

This is a great thread
As a practice I don't see SPs under the age of 35 Mostly because of my age But also the fact that I find women of that age to be much less inhibited and of course much less chance of getting ripped off. I find the sex with these women to be for the most part very good. I also find them to be better company. To me looks take second seat to personality I want to be able to spend time with a woman who is good company and can carry on an intelligent conversation as well as give me a great ride.

 

[onomatopoeia]

Physical appearance is a major factor for me. I won't intentionally pay to have sex with a woman whom I would not find attractive if I met her in a civilian scenario. I HAVE done that, when the 'goods' were not as advertised. In those cases, I don't bolt at the door, but my enthusiasm is severely diminished.

 

[Daddy2021]

This is a great thread
As a practice I don't see SPs under the age of 35 Mostly because of my age But also the fact that I find women of that age to be much less inhibited and of course much less chance of getting ripped off. I find the sex with these women to be for the most part very good. I also find them to be better company. To me looks take second seat to personality I want to be able to spend time with a woman who is good company and can carry on an intelligent conversation as well ask give me a great ride.

I’m with you on that.

 

[onomatopoeia]

This is a great thread
As a practice I don't see SPs under the age of 35 Mostly because of my age But also the fact that I find women of that age to be much less inhibited and of course much less chance of getting ripped off. I find the sex with these women to be for the most part very good. I also find them to be better company. To me looks take second seat to personality I want to be able to spend time with a woman who is good company and can carry on an intelligent conversation as well ask give me a great ride.

 

[Kautilya]

This is a great thread
As a practice I don't see SPs under the age of 35 Mostly because of my age But also the fact that I find women of that age to be much less inhibited and of course much less chance of getting ripped off. I find the sex with these women to be for the most part very good. I also find them to be better company. To me looks take second seat to personality I want to be able to spend time with a woman who is good company and can carry on an intelligent conversation as well ask give me a great ride.

Yup, how they make you feel is more important than how they look. Looks usually dont do much for me lol.

 

[kherg007]

It is an interesting thread, and certainly at some points in your life this may be even more important. I was set up on a blind date (was possible 30 years ago lol) nice personality, cute, but her butt was too out of proportion and if I saw her on the street might have ignored. Got to like her, we get interested, and I found that big ol' butt was big ol' fun! Never wrote off such women ever again. Thus I think this is more important when one is younger. Opens the palate.
That being said, I sort of do but don't have a type. Yes, ebony mainly, but I vascillate among the VA VA VA room curvy, and the athletic cut, and the spinner, albeit all ebony ladies.
There are a couple outside my type I'd love to have a run with (eg, one redhead, one older asian) , but not living in gta means when I have an opportunity, I often end up catching up with my regs (all ebony) whom i adore. Only if none were available in my time window I'd give these non-type ladies a go.

 

[ogibowt]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

a couple of times you mentioned older guys above 45 or twice your age....well im old enough to be your Grandpa lol....and i can prove how old i am by admitting that i have no idea who Adriana Lima is lol

 

[KittyCaterina]

Obviously, if you are looking to book an escort, you should be able to pick the woman of your dreams (or close to). It is all part of the fantasy after all, calling a girl that you’d probably be too shy to approach in a bar. Meeting up with a woman half your age. Getting a pretty girl on her knees.

However, I fear some of you are unnecessarily picky. Let me explain myself and you can agree or judge respectfully after.

Yes the looks are important when choosing a companion but there’s more to it. There are many providers that don’t exactly look like Adriana Lima in her prime time but that would give you the experience of a lifetime. An addictive personality, a magnetic charm and just amazing bedroom skills.

By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.

Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?

Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.

TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.

I totally agree with your post and understand your point, although...

I would never want a client to see me who, for example, really really dislikes tattoos but is trying to "broaden his horizons" and I am left feeling like he is not attracted to me during our session because I can sense his body language and verbal cues.

I want my clients to have some form of sexual attraction to me. Knowing my client finds me irresistible is actually a turn on and the confidence it gives me during a session helps my passion.

If they truly dislike sexworkers my age, my weight, or with attributes I have, I would rather they not see me.

It could lead to a bad experience for them and I or a negative review that is undeserved only because they had seen me knowing I am not their type.
And I have seen this review issue happen many times, not personally thank heavens.