Turn ons that are turn offs?

kherg007

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I was enjoying some morning porn and realised that scenes where the lady is wearing shoes totally turns me off. I mean, climbing onto a nice bed w your dirty shoes? Eww. Yet, there are so many scenes like this that i reckon a fair number of the viewers find that sexy.
Thus the question - are there some mainstream type sexy behaviours that turn you off in a real life encounter? (VS porn. E.g., ATM in porn is OK but eww in real life).
So - in a real encounter I reckon 2 things -
1) shoes (and to a lesser extent any clothes - i like her 100% nekkid). Always ask my ladies to drop the daks asap.
2) lactation. For some reason it makes me really nauseous even thinking about it, yet there are blokes seeking it. I know a lady in the biz a few years back that i really enjoyed on all levels yet at a later point did advertise lactation, and i reckon that has so turned me off I'd find it almost impossible to ever book her again, despite her excellence.

What about the rest of you lot?
 

xix

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La la land
Moaning.
"Oh yeah, more",,
"useless screams"

ATM (A2M) then mouth kissing. Ewwww
Or
BJ then to mouth kissing. EEEWWWWWW
Now if it is with a love partner (FWB, NSA) and not a one night stand /SP I have to think about it.
Have soap near by.
 

Jubee

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Bro! 10000%!!!! Those FUCKING shoes on the bed. Especially, sneakers. Like, WTF. So here are my turnoffs:

1. Cumshots or women posing with cum dripping all over their face. Gross as fuck. Especially hate pics of cum on body. Showing cum in the mouth to the camera, ugh.
2. Excessively sloppy blowjobs with spit everywhere.
3. Spitting that drips everywhere. Excessive spitting.
4. Wearing watches in bed - like an apple watch. Weird, but I like complete nudity, devoid of any jewellery or accessories on the body. This is not a turn on for anybody, just a turn off for me.
5. Women with hair tied back in bed. I like to hair pull or atleast run my hand through hair, so I hate it when women don't undo their hair in bed lol. Not a turn on for anybody, just a turn off for me.
6. Spitting on my genitals or asshole.
lol your list

1. 50/50 on that one.
2. 80/20 in favor
3. Excessive no.
4. Yep, don't get that at all.
5. Agree 100%
6. I never thought I'd like that until a girl did it to me and then I thought, wow, that's so disrespectful..................but hot. 😂
 

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#5 - Agree completely… I almost always get her to let her hair down. The only exception is if we’re doing it from behind and she has a sexy topsy turvy tail thing going on…
 
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  • The BJ gagging and all the choking sounds that go with it.
  • The gagging face with eyes welled up with tears
  • “Daddy” (hate when an SP says it…cool with Ay Papi though😎)
  • Slapping dick on face or on pussy…I just don’t get it
  • Rambling dirty talk… like I’m trying to focus and she won’t shut up!
  • Gaping…hard pass
 

corrie fan

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When a hot girl is giving a guy a blowjob and he is lying there looking bored out of his mind. Come on, at least pretend that you're enjoying it.
When one of the performers has a camera and is recording the proceedings. If someone is having sex with you they deserve your undivided attention.
 

jalimon

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The role of a great escort is to rapidly size what turns you on or not. Communication really helps.

Because what turns you off may turn on someone else. And vice versa.

I did many parties like swinger, orgy, gb in my life because my mind is open to anything and i like seeing other ppl having fun. Yet sometimes i had to see things that truly i found gross or worst ;) Yet the people were having their fun 😷
 

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1) shoes (and to a lesser extent any clothes - i like her 100% nekkid). Always ask my ladies to drop the daks asap.
2) lactation. For some reason it makes me really nauseous even thinking about it, yet there are blokes seeking it. I know a lady in the biz a few years back that i really enjoyed on all levels yet at a later point did advertise lactation, and i reckon that has so turned me off I'd find it almost impossible to ever book her again, despite her excellence.
I have a lot of people asking me to wear heels on our date and when I want to take them off they tell me “no no keep them on”.

When I was pregnant and after I gave birth, at least two people asked me if I was selling my breast milk. I said no at the time because it’s weird to me.
 

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My turn offs that are turn ons for others are:

• hair pulling
• having a man dickslapping me on the face
• people that are attractive, know it and act like they’re god’s gift to us
 

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I find fake moaning to be the biggest turn off. It actually becomes quite hilarious when a girl moans excessively for no reason and kind of ruins the vibe for me. I would like to think of myself as good in bed but I damn sure know I'm not that good where you need to be moaning after every slight touch lol😂
 

GameBoy27

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My top 10 turn-offs.

1. Toe sucking/feet licking
2. Rectal prolapse
3. Excessively sloppy BJs with gagging, saliva or vomit everywhere
4. Any kind of spitting
5. Calling someone daddy
6. Wearing socks
7. Fake eyes rolling back in the head
8. Ass to mouth
9. Face slapping, abuse
10. Scat (poop) porn
 
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Ceiling Cat

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Evidently there are guys getting off on watching women eat large quantities of food. Does nothing for me.

 
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She might be putting hair back so she doesn’t have to wash it before next client. Or because she isn’t confident in asking you to go wash your dirty hands. Doesn’t want your cum in her hair. Doesn’t want her hair going between your legs and smelling like your sweat.
shoes beyond a front door make me incredibly mad /grossed out. it’s truly not realistic. I’m also a bare feet indoors type of person (after washing feet too). Bodily fluids On face and body aren’t my thing. Also this new thing with urine and other excrements are nasty. messy. Anal is absolutely not my thing. Spitting is so not a turn on. how Do people even get so much saliva lol. Also I don’t want your food bits and what no if you didn’t brush teeth.
porn talk makes me laugh so I’m not one for that. Anything about familial relations makes me vomit.
agree with the slapping of the penis on her. It’s mostly for ego I guess. And same with slapping of the face and spitting on them or cumming all Over the face. Not into the demeaning behaviour. They get enough in their day to day.
call me traditional? just some good p in the
i find tan lines really distracting. And too much makeup. I’m finding it harder to tell who is a natural woman in some porns these days (no offence to those who choose to become a woman but many beautiful women are looking like men who want to look like women?)
 
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