Many people don't know when you choke, you press from the sides and not directly on the windpipe which is the risk for injuries or even worse. I am into choking (with full consent of course) and most girls I am with enjoy it because I actually do it right and not try to crush their windpipe lol.There's research now showing it you are routinely obstructing the airway ...like the choking described - its actually causing brain damage akin to getting a concussion. Be careful out there folks!
Frequent and Recent Non-fatal Strangulation/Choking During Sex and Its Association With fMRI Activation During Working Memory Tasks - PMC
Being strangled, or “choked,” by a sexual partner has emerged as a prevalent, often wanted and consensual sexual behavior among adolescent and young adult women, yet the neurological consequences of repeated exposure to this behavior are unknown. ...www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Association of Frequent Sexual Choking/Strangulation With Neurophysiological Responses: A Pilot Resting-State fMRI Study
Turn ons that are turn offs?
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Watch out DeSalvo has a cold sore!! Don't want to catch herpes as you're being strangled!
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I feel like most men don’t really choke though, they put their hand on my neck and don’t apply any kind of pressure which is fine.
High heels are sexy. In bed they come off.
Turn off : Stinky socks.
Turn on : Fully dressed sexy cloths, quickies. I have done a few where I went to pick up my lady friend to go out. The best way to not mess her up is to have her kneel on her sofa facing away. Leggings down or skirt up. ( with heels on ).
I'm okay with that, some actually want you to squeeze. Hard. And I'm like..."what about oxygen though" LOL.
There is a difference between the whole "restrain by the neck" aspect and the actual obstruction of blood flow/oxygen.
Lots of people really like the dominance aspect of being held by the neck - those who actually want the sensation of oxygen being cut off to the brain are fewer.
But most people refer to both as "choking".
Yeah not my thing. I like to breathe you know, grab my neck if you want but let me breathe.
As with most kink play, it's good to clearly communicate expectations.
Just need to establish boundaries clearly. I like to say “please sir let me breatheAs with most kink play, it's good to clearly communicate expectations.
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