Turn ons that are turn offs?

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Regarding BJ to mouth kissing...

If you are grossed out to kiss a woman on the lips after her mouth has been on your own penis, I would wonder why...

If I wouldn't kiss a client after he went down on me, that would mean I find my own vagina gross in some way.
The previous clients hair was on there or below.
I think I said if she was my gf it is fine.
 

stephenp

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This one's E Z! Once received a "surprise" from a lady in a Nevada brothel. Rubbed some lineament on Mr. Happy -making him very UN happy and abruptly ending the session. She swore most guys really like it😂...
Yikes, yes this would not go over well with me either
 

Muchadoaboutnothing

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Regarding BJ to mouth kissing...

If you are grossed out to kiss a woman on the lips after her mouth has been on your own penis, I would wonder why...

If I wouldn't kiss a client after he went down on me, that would mean I find my own vagina gross in some way.
This. Makes me wonder if it’s because he knows he’s not clean ? Then why are you making her do it ?
 
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Paprika

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1. Fake orgasm during fingering / sex, come on I just fingered you for 1 minute...

2. Partially clothed (bra lifted up) during sex. I really enjoy taking off women's clothes, but they don't get to wear anything when they're with me.

3. 69, unless her ass is really round and perky.

4. Snowballing aka making out with a woman after cumming in her mouth.

5. Menage a trois aka threesome, it's awkward with two women you just met and a lot of work...only tried it once, but I'm sure I will like it more with 2 really hot women.

Three things I really enjoy in the last a couple years:

1. Titty fuck: seek out a pair of big soft titties and rub my cock back and forth in that cleavage. Really got into it watching a porn video by Taylor St Claire.

2. Fingering pussy with a lot of lube. Since I don't do BBFS, this is a good way to feel out their pussy before fucking them.

3. Having young girls call me daddy: now in my 30's I demand young college girls 18-22 call me daddy during mish.

Three things I really enjoy but don't get to do a lot:

1. Fingering girls in the ass. Most have no problem with DATO but whenever you try to finger their ass they would say "no not that deep".

2. Calling mature ladies "mommy", had a session with Isabel@SFT, suddenly had the strong urge to call her mommy but was embarrassed to actually do it.

3. Pulling a lady's ponytail hard during doggy...too scared to hurt them.
 

GeeBee

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I put my hair up when I’m about to give a BJ because who likes hair on their D?
I usually like longer hair to run my fingers through, but tied back for a BJ, yes please. Bonus points if she ties it back kind of seductively, with a wry smile that says good things are coming. :)
 

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Fake orgasms. Huge turn off.

“snowballing”. Always chuckle that guys love women who will suck and lick their juices off a guys fingers, dick and mouth. But recoil at the thought of kissing a woman after exploding in hers
I believe snowballing is actually passing the sperm back and forth, not just kissing after a CIM. I have no problem kissing after but the idea of having her spit my spunk into my mouth makes me cringe.
 
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Muchadoaboutnothing

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I believe snowballing is actually passing the sperm back and forth, not just kissing after a CIM. I have no problem kissing after but the idea of having her spit my spunk into my mouth makes me cringe.
I think it started as a way for her to get back at him and then he liked it and it became a fetish
 

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Over the years I've gotten comfortable with choking but I don't like doing it, never have. But every chick I meet loves getting choked and it really does nothing for me.
As for something done to me or on me, I'm not a fan of wet, sloppy blowjobs. Saliva isn't really hot to me unless I am in love with you otherwise, I prefer to keep things a little neater.
That's all that came to mind, I'm generally pretty open minded and I don't overthink these kinds of things
 

kherg007

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Over the years I've gotten comfortable with choking but I don't like doing it, never have. But every chick I meet loves getting choked and it really does nothing for me.
As for something done to me or on me, I'm not a fan of wet, sloppy blowjobs. Saliva isn't really hot to me unless I am in love with you otherwise, I prefer to keep things a little neater.
That's all that came to mind, I'm generally pretty open minded and I don't overthink these kinds of things
There's research now showing it you are routinely obstructing the airway ...like the choking described - its actually causing brain damage akin to getting a concussion. Be careful out there folks!

Association of Frequent Sexual Choking/Strangulation With Neurophysiological Responses: A Pilot Resting-State fMRI Study
 
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