How to be a bad client

[sweetiepieexo]

Not at all, but the chances of running into a scam are greater on LL. It used to be good and now it’s like finding a needle in a haystack.

Most people also do not take the time to research phone numbers and names, they get too excited by the good deals.

I have a lot of friends that advertise on LL but they also use at least another website. That allows client to cross check and make sure they’re legit at least.

The same thing happened on backpage though.

There was alot of scams but at the same time there was also alot of good providers.

I believe it is up to the client to do his due diligence and research the provider before booking an appointment. However, there are still tons of guys out there that dont know the review boards or think that review boards are pointless.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

Wait, like a full bath towel? Lol what the shit?

Yep , one of the hand towels. It was disgusting .

 

[explorerzip]

So because there are countless other threads on the board that are pointless, I'm supposed not comment on the ones I think fall into that category??

It's interesting that you think that I'm telling you not to comment at all. It's also funny that you started your earlier point with: "Not trying to sound rude here.." like you were trying to avoid blow back.

Ultimately, commenting on threads and expressing your opinions is part of the nature of online forums.

I do know how this forum works as I've been on it for about 18 years, which is a year longer than you. I guess that means my words carries more weight than yours. The membership start date is meaningless because there are people with much older accounts yet post much less. I am trying to sound rude, so do you realize how silly you look when you brag that you've been here for 17 years and somehow have the pulse of the board? Even if you did surveys on how the countless guys on this forum or LL think about this topic, then I'd also say you wasted your time.

"Pointless" may not have even been the right word. I just meant that I don't think she's reaching her target audience posting this here. In fact, I don't think she's reaching anyone at all. If she think she is, she's free to keep posting all she wants, but I just think she's wasting her time. If there was an online forum where all the respected reputable escorts hung out just to chat, I wouldn't start a thread telling them "how to be a good escort". I would be preaching to the choir.

There's no need to backpedal. Telling someone their post is pointless or they're wasting their time is nearly the same thing. Did the OP break any board rules by "preaching to the choir" or wasting their time? I don't get why you felt the need waste your own time to call out the OP for supposedly doing the same. The reality is that we're all wasting time by being on this forum. There are so many other things we can and should be doing.

I've wasted my own time trying to discuss this with you so I'll leave it there.

 

[SexB]

Not at all, but the chances of running into a scam are greater on LL. It used to be good and now it’s like finding a needle in a haystack.

Most people also do not take the time to research phone numbers and names, they get too excited by the good deals.

I have a lot of friends that advertise on LL but they also use at least another website. That allows client to cross check and make sure they’re legit at least.

Exactly, a lot of the time if clients would take the time to do a little basic legwork, or just exercise a little common sense, they would avoid getting scammed.

Unfortunately, a lot of the time they see an ad with a smoking hot model and their brains immediately go south. I also think that a lot of the time they assume if it's a bunch of bedroom and bathroom mirror selfies and not professional images, she's going to charge low rates. Ignoring that a lot of high-end providers use a mix of professional images and selfies, something you'd think that anyone who sees escorts would learn in a hurry.

 

[Joyrection]

Exactly, a lot of the time if clients would take the time to do a little basic legwork, or just exercise a little common sense, they would avoid getting scammed.

Unfortunately, a lot of the time they see an ad with a smoking hot model and their brains immediately go south. I also think that a lot of the time they assume if it's a bunch of bedroom and bathroom mirror selfies and not professional images, she's going to charge low rates. Ignoring that a lot of high-end providers use a mix of professional images and selfies, something you'd think that anyone who sees escorts would learn in a hurry.

The dick wants, what the dick wants, even if it sounds too good to be true.

 

[Vera.Reis]

If there was an online forum where all the respected reputable escorts hung out just to chat, I wouldn't start a thread telling them "how to be a good escort"

Yea, its not like vast majority of reputable providers complain about hobbiests in general, and terbites in particular... oh wait, they do.

In my experience terb members are ABSOLUTELY more likely than my tryst and Twitter clients to try to negotiate rates and services, evade screening and argue about my deposit requirements. Are there some respectable clients on here, absolutely, most that I meet are, but I've been contacted by far more that weren't and I thus didn't see them. We are the ones who actually know how the clients on here behave.

 

[SexB]

The dick wants, what the dick wants, even if it sounds too good to be true.

And this is why B&S ads work.

 

[Joyrection]

Yea, its not like vast majority of reputable providers complain about hobbiests in general, and terbites in particular... oh wait, they do.

In my experience terb members are ABSOLUTELY more likely than my tryst and Twitter clients to try to negotiate rates and services, evade screening and argue about my deposit requirements. Are there some respectable clients on here, absolutely, most that I meet are, but I've been contacted by far more that weren't and I thus didn't see them. We are the ones who actually know how the clients on here behave.

Haha, might explain why some made the effort to say that posting about nasty asses was pointless.

 

[explorerzip]

Yea, its not like vast majority of reputable providers complain about hobbiests in general, and terbites in particular... oh wait, they do.

In my experience terb members are ABSOLUTELY more likely than my tryst and Twitter clients to try to negotiate rates and services, evade screening and argue about my deposit requirements. Are there some respectable clients on here, absolutely, most that I meet are, but I've been contacted by far more that weren't and I thus didn't see them. We are the ones who actually know how the clients on here behave.

How can it be that you and other girls know the industry better than terbites about what goes on behind the scenes? That can't be true because he is confident he has the pulse of the board!

 

[massman]

Yea, its not like vast majority of reputable providers complain about hobbiests in general, and terbites in particular... oh wait, they do.

In my experience terb members are ABSOLUTELY more likely than my tryst and Twitter clients to try to negotiate rates and services, evade screening and argue about my deposit requirements. Are there some respectable clients on here, absolutely, most that I meet are, but I've been contacted by far more that weren't and I thus didn't see them. We are the ones who actually know how the clients on here behave.

I could be completely off base, but maybe the guys that specifically tell you they are on TERB are the ones who negotiate, evade screening and argue about deposits, perhaps using the leverage of a good/ bad review to get what they want. I’ve been on TERB longer than the two old timers arguing above () and the only time a girl knows I’m on here is if A) I met her online here first or B) she asks for a TERB handle as a form of verification. Otherwise it never comes up. As I’ve speculated in another post, I’d bet escorts see a lot of guys on TERB who never mention they are on here. I’d imagine many / most guys who start searching online for escorts will quickly discover this site.

 

[Vera.Reis]

How can it be that you and other girls know the industry better than terbites about what goes on behind the scenes? That can't be true because he is confident he has the pulse of the board!

He has all our phones hacked and cameras in our incalls! So obs he knows exactly what we deal with!!

 

[Vera.Reis]

I could be completely off base, but maybe the guys that specifically tell you they are on TERB are the ones who negotiate, evade screening and argue about deposits, perhaps using the leverage of a good/ bad review to get what they want. I’ve been on TERB longer than the two old timers arguing above () and the only time a girl knows I’m on here is if A) I met her online here first or B) she asks for a TERB handle as a form of verification. Otherwise it never comes up. As I’ve speculated in another post, I’d bet escorts see a lot of guys on TERB who never mention they are on here. I’d imagine many / most guys who start searching online for escorts will quickly discover this site.

My rate is 600/hr to attract American clients who pay more and book longer, a rate most people here won't pay. When I have more free time bcz of school breaks or just less readings, I advertise on terb a discount, but to get that they need to tell me they are from terb. I basically never post here for my regular rate. So yes, I know Every. Single. Terbite. That sees me.

Again, your speculation is just that, we know the industry far better than you. My booking form also asks where clients found me.

 

[Kusa]

How to be a bad client:

1. Her rate is above my budget. I should convince her to lower it for me because I can find other girls for half the price.

2. She doesn’t give me what I want? I should insult her.

3. She did not answer the first time I called. I should call back 5 more times and leave an obscene voicemail. That should do it!

4. She trusted me and told me her real name. Let me tell all of my “hobby buddies”.

5. She requires a deposit but I don’t do that. I should harass her until she accepts to see me without one. The ambiance will sure be pleasant.

6. She asked me to shower but I don’t want to. I should argue for 5 mins and then go to the bathroom angrily and pretend to shower while I stand next to it.



How to be a good client:

1. Her rate is above my budget. I should find someone whose rate is within my budget.

2. She doesn’t give me what I want? I should block her and move on.

3. She did not answer the first time I called. I should be patient and wait until she calls/texts back.

4. She trusted me and told me her real name. I should still use her stage name around my “hobby buddies”.

5. She requires a deposit but I don’t do that. I should find someone who doesn’t require deposits.

6. She asked me to shower but I don’t want to. I should just do it because after all, I want to be fresh and delicious


What inspired this thread:
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Quite likely I will put up a post on how to be a Good SP...It will start like this "Don't keep us waiting outside for long outside, I am not visiting a hospital...I paid for each minute". Stay tuned...

 

[explorerzip]

I could be completely off base, but maybe the guys that specifically tell you they are on TERB are the ones who negotiate, evade screening and argue about deposits, perhaps using the leverage of a good/ bad review to get what they want. I’ve been on TERB longer than the two old timers arguing above () and the only time a girl knows I’m on here is if A) I met her online here first or B) she asks for a TERB handle as a form of verification. Otherwise it never comes up. As I’ve speculated in another post, I’d bet escorts see a lot of guys on TERB who never mention they are on here. I’d imagine many / most guys who start searching online for escorts will quickly discover this site.

Wow, you're coming up on your 25th anniversary. Do they give you a a pack of gold condoms for your dedicated years of service?

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

Deposits is one of the most controversial topics on TERB, so if there's anything to argue about in this thread would be that, imho.

I, personally, dislike them because far too many hobbyists took a bullet. There's very little upside and much gambling involved with said deposits. Once you send the money, you're on the hook and are hoping for a good weather just like on TheWeatherNetwork.

All other points, I pretty much agree with. One word to help any hobbyist navigate IS RESPECT. Treat all human beings with respect and you may find yourself in a better place, especially in any given session.

 

[massman]

Wow, you're coming up on your 25th anniversary. Do they give you a a pack of gold condoms for your dedicated years of service?

 

[massman]

My rate is 600/hr to attract American clients who pay more and book longer, a rate most people here won't pay. When I have more free time bcz of school breaks or just less readings, I advertise on terb a discount, but to get that they need to tell me they are from terb. I basically never post here for my regular rate. So yes, I know Every. Single. Terbite. That sees me.

Again, your speculation is just that, we know the industry far better than you. My booking form also asks where clients found me.

Fair enough. And as you say you know the industry way better. I’d never argue that. Just pointing out that there are probably very few guys in this day and age, who find escorts via the internet (and lets be honest, these days it’s the only way) in the GTA who don’t know about TERB, and many of those have browsed this site for research purposes.

And BTW I do enjoy your contributions here abd don’t think they are at all pointless.

 

[LC18]

Deposits is one of the most controversial topics on TERB, so if there's anything to argue about in this thread would be that, imho.

I, personally, dislike them because far too many hobbyists took a bullet. There's very little upside and much gambling involved with said deposits. Once you send the money, you're on the hook and are hoping for a good weather just like on TheWeatherNetwork.

All other points, I pretty much agree with. One word to help any hobbyist navigate IS RESPECT. Treat all human beings with respect and you may find yourself in a better place, especially in any given session.

Then if you wanted to be a good client you’d simply see someone who doesn’t require a deposit

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

So because there are countless other threads on the board that are pointless, I'm supposed not comment on the ones I think fall into that category?? Ultimately, commenting on threads and expressing your opinions is part of the nature of online forums. "Pointless" may not have even been the right word. I just meant that I don't think she's reaching her target audience posting this here. In fact, I don't think she's reaching anyone at all. If she think she is, she's free to keep posting all she wants, but I just think she's wasting her time. If there was an online forum where all the respected reputable escorts hung out just to chat, I wouldn't start a thread telling them "how to be a good escort". I would be preaching to the choir. If there was a way for me to reach some of the bottom feeding scamming misfits on LL that possibly lurk on other platforms, might be worth posting something a message like that on those platforms. Anyway, seeing as you find this thread so helpful, I'll move on and let you ingest all the amazing pointers your getting from it.

Well this forum could be utilized as a how to be a good escort and avoid the bad clients /what to look for in an escort and client relationship /how to identify those with dark triad traits etc.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Fair enough. And as you say you know the industry way better. I’d never argue that. Just pointing out that there are probably very few guys in this day and age, who find escorts via the internet (and lets be honest, these days it’s the only way) in the GTA who don’t know about TERB, and many of those have browsed this site for research purposes.

And BTW I do enjoy your contributions here abd don’t think they are at all pointless.

The internet is the website they post the phone number and email though …
don’t tell me you think people cruise Jarvis street still ?