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I did have one girl today agree to $300 ppm. So I guess we'll do a M&G and see how that goes. The rest of the girls I was chatting to just flaked when I suggested a $200-300 ppm. I mean, all you need is 3-4 and that's enough to have some fun in the city.

Honestly it's really hard to review a SB. They're all so different. All comes down to emotional connection and personality. If she's petite, she probably won't do anal because it just doesn't work. If she sees you as an alpha male she'll do just about anything if her body can take it. That's been my experience anyway.

What I like about SB vs. SPs is that with an SB I can build up trust over a few weeks and remove protection. Thanks to Hassle Free Clinic, you can get a full STI testing done in a matter of a week for free.
Also keep in mind that most of these girls are civvies, not pros. As such, it would not be fair to post any personal info such as pics, profiles or contact info. Therefore, any review of services/dates would be useless to anybody else.
 

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Also keep in mind that most of these girls are civvies, not pros. As such, it would not be fair to post any personal info such as pics, profiles or contact info. Therefore, any review of services/dates would be useless to anybody else.
But it still would be cool to hear some of the stories and what type of service or what I’d say intimacy that you had with some of these sugar babies.
 

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But it still would be cool to hear some of the stories and what type of service or what I’d say intimacy that you had with some of these sugar babies.
I think it would be cool if people shared some of the stories and some of the details of their experiences with sugar babies.
 
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Is there any way you can do review and what type of service you got from this sugar baby.
Services vary dramatically. I have had SBs that I have gone onvacations with and received all services that I wanted (10 FS for week, including BBJ, DATY, DFK, romantic dinners, fun in the private pool, etc.). I paid for the trips plus $1-3K plus a huge bonus for an amazing time.

I have had SBs where it was identical to a hot young GF 20 years younger than me and some where it was very transactional. I try to find SBs of my background as I find that super hot and they seem to connect better and with me too.
 
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Services vary dramatically. I have had SBs that I have gone onvacations with and received all services that I wanted (10 FS for week, including BBJ, DATY, DFK, romantic dinners, fun in the private pool, etc.). I paid for the trips plus $1-3K plus a huge bonus for an amazing time.

I have had SBs where it was identical to a hot young GF 20 years younger than me and some where it was very transactional. I try to find SBs of my background as I find that super hot and they seem to connect better and with me too.
What site would you recommend that one should use to find sugar babies.
 

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Text and voice app. Can send/receive photos as well. Under $10/month.

Turn off all notifications if needed. If you go away with a SO for a while, uninstall the app and reinstall it later after telling your SB you will be offline for XX days.

No second phone to explain. SB’s don’t reject the use of such apps like agencies do. Bonus over free texting apps is voice call support and pic/video sending always works.
 
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Text and voice app. Can send/receive photos as well. Under $10/month.

Turn off all notifications if needed. If you go away with a SO for a while, uninstall the app and reinstall it later after telling your SB you will be offline for XX days.

No second phone to explain. SB’s don’t reject the use of such apps like agencies do. Bonus over free texting apps is voice call support and pic/video sending always works.
This is a good idea if you don't have shared apps or shared family apps. I can justify a 2nd phone with my SO with a work and personal to keep it off the 'grid'. Very informative information from this thread!
 

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I've sent 10 lovely messages to 10 ladies on Sugar daddy dot ca. They messaged me first. The site is garbage but I have credits to use. I'll let you know if i get any hits
 

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I've sent 10 lovely messages to 10 ladies on Sugar daddy dot ca. They messaged me first. The site is garbage but I have credits to use. I'll let you know if i get any hits
When I was using SA I was sending out 7-10 messages to women every few days. And then there was all the ones that wrote in. I had a well done profile with what I wanted, and didn't want, etc. Ironically of the three I see now, 2 of them wrote in to me first. And it took a while to get them from "first message" to "coffee time"
 

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When I was using SA I was sending out 7-10 messages to women every few days. And then there was all the ones that wrote in. I had a well done profile with what I wanted, and didn't want, etc. Ironically of the three I see now, 2 of them wrote in to me first. And it took a while to get them from "first message" to "coffee time"
Yeah, it's nice as a man to get unsolicited messages. That's so rare in any other context. I find on SA you get a lot of messages from women in South America
for some reason. Some are really hot but have no way of getting up here.
 

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I find on SA you get a lot of messages from women in South America
for some reason. Some are really hot but have no way of getting up here.
You're the wealthy sugar daddy. Isn't it incumbent on you to fly them up? LOL.

I'd get messages from all over the States and Europe. I'd tell them, "Let me know when you're in town and we can get together.".
 

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You're the wealthy sugar daddy. Isn't it incumbent on you to fly them up? LOL.

I'd get messages from all over the States and Europe. I'd tell them, "Let me know when you're in town and we can get together.".
Just curious: did any of them ever come to town?
 

shack

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Just curious: did any of them ever come to town?
The furthest anybody came was from Hamilton and Bowmanville. They'd take a GO bus.

TBH, I didn't want anybody coming from far away strictly on my account. It would have to be for several days if they were coming from far.

I wouldn't want someone I've never met staying at my place so who's paying for the hotel? And what if we didn't hit it off? She came all this way just to see me and we are incompatible. What happens then?

I'd also tell them that there are 6 or 7 million people in the GTA so there are thousands of SBs who are a short drive or uber away from me. So spending thousands of dollars to meet made no sense. I'd tell them to scope guys from small towns or rural areas where those potential SDs have very few options.
 
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The furthest anybody came was from Hamilton and Bowmanville. They'd take a GO bus.

TBH, I didn't want anybody coming from far away strictly on my account. It would have to be for several days if they were coming from far.

I'd also tell them that there are 6 or 7 million people in the GTA so there are thousands of SBs who are a short drive or uber away from me. So spending thousands of dollars to meet made no sense. I'd tell them to scope guys from small towns or rural areas where those potential SDs have very few options.
You must be in the 20% great looking if they are willing to do that.
The second paragraph did they read you state about looking for local? did they take up on your offer?
 

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You must be in the 20% great looking if they are willing to do that.
The second paragraph did they read you state about looking for local? did they take up on your offer?
I just delete SA messages from the US, South America and Europe. Just a giant waste of time.
I assume they are all scammers .... but if not the chances of them coming to Toronto on their own dime are just about zero.
 
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shack

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I just delete SA messages from the US, South America and Europe. Just a giant waste of time.
I assume they are all scammers .... but if not the chances of them coming to Toronto on their own dime are just about zero.
They were basically just fishing.
 

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So, I’ve read this thread twice and was hoping for clarity on a couple things. I did joined SD . Ca without a photo and spent about $500 on credits for mainly ’Hey!’ Messages And no replies except from Sp asking for $400 - $800. I have seen many great SP’s for much less and wanted more..thrill of the chase.. as has been mentione.

1. I have a SO and getting caught would be catastrophic. How can you join seeking somewhat anonymously ?

2. Do you have a 2nd phone for messaging/Snapchat ?

3. How much time do the successful guys spend getting to their first meet and great ?

4. What type of photos stand out ? I’m 50 btw
1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.
 
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