Are millenials entitled?

Are millenials entitled and spoiled brats?

  • Yes, they are

    Votes: 21 58.3%
  • No, they are the same as any other generation

    Votes: 15 41.7%

  • Total voters
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K Douglas

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/chuckle.

-just a few bullits.
The last serious recessionary period was the financial crises that started in 2008…….My how quickly we forget :( And yes, we have seen numerous quarters of contraction since 2019

Worthless pedigrees.
There is truth to that.
Not sure when it really began, maybe the 80s.
But at some point parents (society) started putting enormous pressure on their kids to go to post. Many think it’s the only way to define success today. In fact, once boomers are done leaving the work force, many labour markets anticipate shortages. Everyone wants a pedigree, few want dirty jobs…Be that the trades, trucking, etc and etc.

Furthermore, on that topic. Is the school of thought that so many fields, have devalued the degrees. In short, supply>>>>demand.
We can see that, in the staggering numbers of kids that leave post with mountains of debt, and can’t find work in the related fields………
Numerous studies are also showing that Depression/anxiety is soaring amongst those in post. Mom/dad pressuring them to be Drs/Lawyers, when they just want to open a coffee shop. But that’s not what people/society think is a worthwhile and succesful life….mountains of debt, stiff competition for fewer jobs….

And in fact, these days, if you don’t have a pedigree of any kind. Have fun getting a job as a taxi driver, a mail room clerk at a big firm. Basically even entry level positions….Etc and so on..

-Rae days.
Came about because Bob Rae promised oodles of goodies to everyone, especially unionized public service employees, who to that point, historically supported the NDP….When to everyone surprise he won. Well he had to try and make good. He flushed Ontarios fiscal house down the toilet…Faced with out of control spending, debt, credit rating downgrades, he had to try and get it order. Hence Rae days. Unions bailed, got pissy, stopped supporting the NDP….and filling him the oh so popular “common sense revolution” but ever since Rae it’s been a shit show…but for what it’s worth, people obviously didn’t learn that painful lesson. We are in the same boat again. Mountains of debt, no money to try and close growing gaps in Healthcare, fix the good awful mess Hydro and rates are, no money for rainy days because the sun always shines. Etc etc.
It’s odd because ever since Rae we’ve had NDP, CON,LIB governments. All 3 political ideologies and nothing but problems. One common denominator (outside of everyone buying votes)

unionized public service employees, none more so….than those in

education.

As it relates to youth today. Boomers screwed the pooch.
Yes that was a serious economic crisis but unlike past recessions of the early 90's and early 80's it wasn't prolonged and we did not see high rates of inflation, unemployment or interest rates.
 

bazokajoe

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I think a lot of us just realized we might never be able to afford a decent house with today's housing market and just decided to do what makes us happy instead of k*lling ourselves at work doing a job that we don't really like. You could buy a house for 80k back in the 90s and for the same house today you'd have to pay 350k yet salaries didn't go up as much.

Are millennials lazy? No. Are they following society's idea of productivity? Probably not. They seek comfort over anything which can make them appear lazy. We no longer want a 9-5, commute to work and only a handful of days off per year. If being an influencer allows you to make money while being able to enjoy your life, go for it.


If we paid doctors, teachers and everyone else more decently, we'd probably have more "beneficial" workers.
If someone bought a house in the 90's for 80k then it was a dump. Salaries have increased quite a bit since the 90's.
 

Adam_hadam

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Seems that the millenials I know are very lazy and entitled.

They'll spend hundrds of dollars on stupid stuff like gaming computers, laze around all day gaming and watching Netflix, and not have full-time work. They think streaming on Twitch, doing Onlyfans, becoming a Youtuber, or influencer is a legitimate job that benefits society, and refuse to do hard work. Most have been pampered their whole lives, and don't have the work ethic, social skills, or discipline to make it in the real world. Compare that to the boomers, who actually supported a family and had full-time jobs instead of gaming all day and ordering Uber Eats.

You see so many of these millenials delivering for Door Dash, and getting pissed off for not being tipped, and doing a lousy job by not delivering to the door, or even stealing. They refuse to work hard, but will take out loans to buy fancy cars, go on vacation so they can instagram it, and get their groceries from Whole Foods, and their coffee from Starbucks. Most hard-working middle aged men I know don't go to Starbucks and spend $5 on a coffee. They go to Tim Hortons or McDonald's where they get it for half the price.
When I was young I also spent $$$$ on video games, sporting goods, cars and their expenses, dates and their expenses, other fun things.

My favourite parenting quote is:
"There are 2 types of kids in the world: yours and everyone else's."
Other's kids aren't your problem.
 
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It's the same with every generation, but the conditions are always different. The baby boomers got the sweetest deals in history. Most never went to war, yet reaped the benefits of a greatly expanding post-war economy filled with loads of technological innovations. While technology always moves forward, I don't know if there's been any huge leap forward in decades. Many products and technologies are mature now so we're iterating and not innovating anymore.

In computing, PC manufacturers used to focus on specs like MHz, hard drive or RAM capacity. Today, you hardly hear about those specs because devices are so fast, efficient and have huge capacity while still being fairly cheap. People don't care about performance anymore. They want more features no matter how small they are. That's why this year's iPhone, cars, computers, etc are nearly identical to last year's model.

As for pursuing YouTube as a career, it's actually a lot harder than it looks. Perhaps you've heard of a channel called Linus Tech Tips? It was just a hobby at first, yet today he has multiple buildings and employs over 100 people. There are plenty of other channels with much fewere people where you can tell they put everything into making quality content.

Besides, why would anyone in their right mind want to work hard for a big company these days? You're just going to get laid off at some point anyway. So you may as well try to do your own thing. Even if you fail, you can only blame yourself.

Yes, there are lots of "lazy and entitled" people out there. There are also just as many innovative, enterprising or just hard workers out there too.
The oldest boomers and the guys just a bit older than them even more so got the ultimate deal. Everything(jobs women) was totally picked over when the youngest boomers reached adulthood and the structure of the economy was totally changed(widespread personal computers,de-industrialization, intense competition, collapsing commodity prices). One of my sisters was a secretary during the mid 1970s(I was too young to work) and she told me about jobs where they had nothing to do, so she did knitting and stuff and the boss would drink and lay on the couch.
 
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“The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.”

- Socrates, c. 400 BCE
 

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“The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.”

- Socrates, c. 400 BCE
I see we both went to ancient Greece to show how old this idea is.
(Although yours isn't actually a Socrates quote - it's a summary of the various complaints about Children around that time in Ancient Greece and comes from the early 20th century.)
 

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I think millennials recognize they are fucked by what Boomers (and to a much lesser extent) Gen X did to the economy. They realize they cannot likely buy a house in a place like Toronto (fuck, maybe not even in Hamilton/Whitby). They don't see job security like back in the day when you could have a job for nearly life, since corporations fire people like never before (they love to call it downsizing). Education costs have skyrocketed (still nowhere near as bad as the US, but it's higher than it was 10 years ago). Finally, I think they just don't give a fuck in a way that we should all aspire to. They call out bullshit more than older generations, who just took toxic behaviour and kept our heads down. The millennials I worked with were on the ball, sharp, and hard working. But they didn't buy into that work 50 hours a week to get noticed....because it really doesn't get you anything but over worked...
 
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onomatopoeia

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I see we both went to ancient Greece to show how old this idea is.
(Although yours isn't actually a Socrates quote - it's a summary of the various complaints about Children around that time in Ancient Greece and comes from the early 20th century.)
I copy/pasted the Socrates quote from azquotes(dot)com.

Neither of us is old enough to confirm the exact words Socrates used to describe young people from that day, and he would not have said them in English. Perhaps shack or eddie kerr would know.
 

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One of my sisters was a secretary during the mid 1970s(I was too young to work) and she told me about jobs where they had nothing to do, so she did knitting and stuff and the boss would drink and lay on the couch.
My mom was a data entry clerk in the days of reel to reel mainframes and dumb terminals. It would sometimes take over an hour to do certain tasks. All the ladies in the department took up knitting at the same time.
 

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When describing a younger generation as "lazy" or "entitled", we should remember that the previous generation set up the conditions that allowed such "laziness" and "entitlement" to exist. We didn't have to embrace the Internet, Social Media or smart phones. We could have thought about the consequences of each. Instead, we just lived with them, thinking that we had no choice. We all chose addiction over reason, and we turn around and blame the next generation for taking advantage of the technology and the capabilities that arose. We chose not to get rid of fast food, delivery services of fast food, and the service industry that made that delivery so convenient.

Millennials and Gen-Z will embrace AI, just like we did the Internet and Smart Phones. The generation after them will blame them for the problems that will arise.....

If Millennials are indeed lazy and entitled, guess who's fault it is?????
helicopter parenting and giving all the things a parent never had as a child. when people are given everything and have no fear of having nothing or have no understanding of the money, time, effort used to acquire such things it really provides no concrete ways to measure value for that person.
 

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Social media has destroyed our society, especially the younger ones. They are now all growing up feeling entitled to everything and not having to work for it.
That’s the biggest difference between how GenX, vs Millennial, vs GenZ we’re raised and socialized
 

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All deflection and no substance. Going back to the 1970s is absolutely worthless now.....Millennials didn't even exist then.

The years between 2001 and 2020 were very tough for Millennials because of unrealistic expectations, significant political change, horrific greed and a terrible pandemic that shut down work opportunities for many.

Where were you then? Hiding in your bunker eating prime rib and scratching your balls?
You asked me when was the last recession we went through. I gave it to you and you choose to ignore it.
Again you don't understand. So here we are again.
 

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I copy/pasted the Socrates quote from azquotes(dot)com.

Neither of us is old enough to confirm the exact words Socrates used to describe young people from that day, and he would not have said them in English. Perhaps shack or eddie kerr would know.
It's not a case of having to confirm.
The quote you have is from a guy's thesis, if I recall.
He doesn't claim it is a quote from Socrates - he is summing up the general tenor of many quotes from the era.
Someone later read that and printed it as a quote and it has been circulating ever since.
 
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Young people are high-minded because they have not yet been humbled by life.
Truth.

But weren’t we all like that to one degree or another depending on what happened the first 20.

Life happens to everyone, and most people even those into their 30s, and sometimes some into their 40s haven’t really experienced adversity. Or if they have not many times.

kind of like Millenials.
but that’s on the parents.
 
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