Sex clubs as a single man

[Tashki]

I really wanted to tap inside the whole cuckhold scene for the first time. I was intrigued by the idea going to a swingers club.

What I vehemently dislike is that I have to pay for membership even if it’s my first time and an entry club fee on top of that. So depending on where I go, I would be spending roughly around $160 dollars. There’s no free trial membership for newbies like me or another way for me to see what the vibe is like for the first time. Is the juice worth the squeeze?

Unfortunately, It doesn’t seem like the sex club scene is beneficial for single men. It cost the most to go to a sex club as a single guy. It seems better for single men go to MPAs and SPs instead. What do you guys think?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I really wanted to tap inside the whole cuckhold scene for the first time. I was intrigued by the idea going to a swingers club.

What I vehemently dislike is that I have to pay for membership even if it’s my first time and an entry club fee on top of that. So depending on where I go, I would be spending roughly around $160 dollars. There’s no free trial membership for newbies like me or another way for me to see what the vibe is like for the first time. Is the juice worth the squeeze?

Unfortunately, It doesn’t seem like the sex club scene is beneficial for single men. It cost the most to go to a sex club as a single guy. It’s seems better if single men go to MPAs and SPs instead. What do you guys think?

Agreed.

 

[Valcazar]

They price against single guys to prevent it from becoming too unbalanced as a sausage fest.
If you are going to go, better to bring a date.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Totally agree, but the whole premise of the sex club is to balance it out hence you bring a date. I would like to go eventually but not there yet - baby steps.

 

[hockeyguy19]

My wife and I have the same problem. We tried a sex club several years ago, paid the membership and it just wasn't anything that we enjoyed all that much and not what we expected. Pretty expensive as a trial, paid for drinks, etc so it was a pretty pricey experiment.

Then we decided to give it another chance but it just happened that the previous membership had just expired so we had to do it all over again and the result was the same. Disappointed again. So we just stick with SP's and MP's for now.

I tried posting on this forum in the past to see what others thought of the sex clubs that i suggested but the responses were very few if any so it tells me that those on this forum are just not into the sec club scene. But then again, I don't know for sure. Just our experience.

 

[Valcazar]

Totally agree, but the whole premise of the sex club is to balance it out hence you bring a date. I would like to go eventually but not there yet - baby steps.

I've only ever gone as someone's date - didn't seem worth it to go alone.

 

[onomatopoeia]

Singles Night at the Sex Club:

 

[SchlongConery]

I really wanted to tap inside the whole cuckhold scene for the first time. I was intrigued by the idea going to a swingers club.

What I vehemently dislike is that I have to pay for membership even if it’s my first time and an entry club fee on top of that. So depending on where I go, I would be spending roughly around $160 dollars. There’s no free trial membership for newbies like me or another way for me to see what the vibe is like for the first time. Is the juice worth the squeeze?

Unfortunately, It doesn’t seem like the sex club scene is beneficial for single men. It cost the most to go to a sex club as a single guy. It seems better for single men go to MPAs and SPs instead. What do you guys think?

So paying $160 for an annual membership and including the entry fee for the night that includes venue rental, likely some snacks and paying for the mop boy is too much to pay to get the opportunity to live out a civillian fantasy is something you "vehemently dislike"?

And you want to know if going to an incall for hh or an Asian Massage Parlour for a 30 min handjob for the same $160 is "better"?

I think you miss the point of swingers clubs. It is a civillian venue that couples generally go to to swap partners. It is not a place where horny single men (who can't manage to muster a date) go to try to fuck another guys girl under the very narrow fetish scene of cuckholding.

Stick to the SP/MP scene. At least it is a sure thing. And tbh, my experiences in Swingers Clubs has been such that I found most of the attendees were below average in appearance. But also, tbh, I found many of the people to be really nice people. But didn't really want to fuck the women. Just spoiled from this 'hobby' I guess.

 

[SchlongConery]

Singles Night at the Sex Club:

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All that foam in the hot tub is absolute confirmation of wayyyyy too much sweat and other body fluids.

 

[escortsxxx]

I really wanted to tap inside the whole cuckhold scene for the first time. I was intrigued by the idea going to a swingers club.

What I vehemently dislike is that I have to pay for membership even if it’s my first time and an entry club fee on top of that. So depending on where I go, I would be spending roughly around $160 dollars. There’s no free trial membership for newbies like me or another way for me to see what the vibe is like for the first time. Is the juice worth the squeeze?

Unfortunately, It doesn’t seem like the sex club scene is beneficial for single men. It cost the most to go to a sex club as a single guy. It seems better for single men go to MPAs and SPs instead. What do you guys think?

1st from a money point of view is not worth it. It's An experience As indicated by others.

At 1 time clubs gave free tours For newbies. Usually they have Bar area And then the sex area. Sometimes open houses. And sometime general parties.

Wicked what it existed had to open houses At least once a year.


If you're under 24 Take a u oft Course I join The frost week sex club. Frost week For university students is supposed to be totally wild. Something out of erotic movie. The students put a lot of effort into it. Basically a sex Olympics you know sex twister etc. This is exception I'd say this is worth it.

 

[onomatopoeia]

All that foam in the hot tub is absolute confirmation of wayyyyy too much sweat and other body fluids.

There's a joke about three gay guys in a hot tub, with punchline: "OK, who farted?" which is inappropriate to be told in public during the current Enlightened Age.

 

[Tashki]

So paying $160 for an annual membership and including the entry fee for the night that includes venue rental, likely some snacks and paying for the mop boy is too much to pay to get the opportunity to live out a civillian fantasy is something you "vehemently dislike"?

And you want to know if going to an incall for hh or an Asian Massage Parlour for a 30 min handjob for the same $160 is "better"?

I think you miss the point of swingers clubs. It is a civillian venue that couples generally go to to swap partners. It is not a place where horny single men (who can't manage to muster a date) go to try to fuck another guys girl under the very narrow fetish scene of cuckholding.

Stick to the SP/MP scene. At least it is a sure thing. And tbh, my experiences in Swingers Clubs has been such that I found most of the attendees were below average in appearance. But also, tbh, I found many of the people to be really nice people. But didn't really want to fuck the women. Just spoiled from this 'hobby' I guess.

it’s about $60 to $100 per entry fee depending on the club on top of the annual membership fee which is $100. The “opportunity” of having sex with a man’s beautiful wife is very low for me personally. I evaluated the costs to benefits ratio and the costs outweighs the benefits for single men like me. If a buy a membership and pay for an entry fee, it’s highly likely that I will not sleep with anybody. If I go again and fail, that’s more money that I’ve lost and I’ll just be in a sunk cost fallacy if I continue going. It’s not worth it.

Seeing SPs and MPAs has an almost guaranteed outcome.

 

[SchlongConery]

it’s about $60 to $100 per entry fee depending on the club on top of the annual membership fee which is $100. The “opportunity” of having sex with a man’s beautiful wife is very low for me personally. I evaluated the costs to benefits ratio and the costs outweighs the benefits for single men like me. If a buy a membership and pay for an entry fee, it’s highly likely that I will not sleep with anybody. If I go again and fail, that’s more money that I’ve lost and I’ll just be in a sunk cost fallacy if I continue going. It’s not worth it.

Seeing SPs and MPAs has an almost guaranteed outcome.

Exactly. That is the right decision for you.

However, I and others, often spend $160 on exploring a new experience (doesn't have to be sexual) is often worth it just for the experience.

 

[SchlongConery]

There's a joke about three gay guys in a hot tub, with punchline: "OK, who farted?" which is inappropriate to be told in public during the current Enlightened Age.

LOL!

That would explain the foaminess...

 

[Cholla]

it’s about $60 to $100 per entry fee depending on the club on top of the annual membership fee which is $100. The “opportunity” of having sex with a man’s beautiful wife is very low for me personally. I evaluated the costs to benefits ratio and the costs outweighs the benefits for single men like me. If a buy a membership and pay for an entry fee, it’s highly likely that I will not sleep with anybody. If I go again and fail, that’s more money that I’ve lost and I’ll just be in a sunk cost fallacy if I continue going. It’s not worth it.

Seeing SPs and MPAs has an almost guaranteed outcome.

I had the same experience going to the clubs a while ago. And, unfortunately, most women weren't that attractive even for a free fucking. I believe that you'd have better chance for a cuckold outside of clubs and other places.

 

[Cholla]

My wife and I have the same problem. We tried a sex club several years ago, paid the membership and it just wasn't anything that we enjoyed all that much and not what we expected. Pretty expensive as a trial, paid for drinks, etc so it was a pretty pricey experiment.

Then we decided to give it another chance but it just happened that the previous membership had just expired so we had to do it all over again and the result was the same. Disappointed again. So we just stick with SP's and MP's for now.

I tried posting on this forum in the past to see what others thought of the sex clubs that i suggested but the responses were very few if any so it tells me that those on this forum are just not into the sec club scene. But then again, I don't know for sure. Just our experience.

I agree completely. It is mostly a myth of having a cuckold/threesome with a handsome partner in a sex club. Finding someone reliable in a real life might do it, not with some strangers.

 

[Cholla]

So paying $160 for an annual membership and including the entry fee for the night that includes venue rental, likely some snacks and paying for the mop boy is too much to pay to get the opportunity to live out a civillian fantasy is something you "vehemently dislike"?

And you want to know if going to an incall for hh or an Asian Massage Parlour for a 30 min handjob for the same $160 is "better"?

I think you miss the point of swingers clubs. It is a civillian venue that couples generally go to to swap partners. It is not a place where horny single men (who can't manage to muster a date) go to try to fuck another guys girl under the very narrow fetish scene of cuckholding.

Stick to the SP/MP scene. At least it is a sure thing. And tbh, my experiences in Swingers Clubs has been such that I found most of the attendees were below average in appearance. But also, tbh, I found many of the people to be really nice people. But didn't really want to fuck the women. Just spoiled from this 'hobby' I guess.

Agreed. I was looking for Asian girls in Swingers Clubs and didn't find any. But it was long time ago though.

 

[krealtarron]

When I go to a sex club, I always pick a night when single men are not allowed. I usually frequent Oasis.

I have been to Oasis once when single men were allowed. None of them got any action. The couples played with their dates, while these guys were standing around jerking off under their towels. It was fucking gross.

They charge single men for a reason otherwise motherfuckers think they are all going to get laid lol. Nope.

If you are going to a sex club, go on a day single men are not allowed and bring a date of course.

I dont agree with the whole its expensive bit though. Its 160 bucks. But its the voyeurism and exhibitionism that is a turn on. And to renact all your fantasies like fucking in the sauna etc.,

 

[SchlongConery]

I had the same experience going to the clubs a while ago. And, unfortunately, most women weren't that attractive even for a free fucking. I believe that you'd have better chance for a cuckold outside of clubs and other places.

That is the sad reality of swingers clubs.

As for the cuckhold thing. I sometimes go onto Fetlife.com and check out some interesting people. About2 years ago I hit it off with a nice married couple. Both were attractive and SHE really wanted some strange cock. And he loved that his wife was so fucking hot that other guys drooled over her.

Anyways, having been through the retrospectively reluctant male who gets pissy during or after the actual fucking, I came up with a fantasy scenario that I hoped would head this off. I said that I thought it would be super hot and non-threatening (to their relationship) if I met her as an escort and him as her pimp or the sellyourgf.com scenario where the hard-up bf has to ask his gf to fuck a friend to buy something etc. They chose the latter and it worked out well as indeed he got a bit uneasy/jealous or whatever when his gf really got into my pounding her. He sort of started to say something and Ijsut replied in character that the 'deal' was that I got to creampie her. For some reason that got him super excited and so I didn't have to worry about him calling the finale off. As has happened 2x before in my life where the guy in the couple went weird near the end.

Check out fetlife and make the investment in time to be a good member. I think the fetish scene is one place where even homely guys can get laid.

 

[Cholla]

That is the sad reality of swingers clubs.

As for the cuckhold thing. I sometimes go onto Fetlife.com and check out some interesting people. About2 years ago I hit it off with a nice married couple. Both were attractive and SHE really wanted some strange cock. And he loved that his wife was so fucking hot that other guys drooled over her.

Anyways, having been through the retrospectively reluctant male who gets pissy during or after the actual fucking, I came up with a fantasy scenario that I hoped would head this off. I said that I thought it would be super hot and non-threatening (to their relationship) if I met her as an escort and him as her pimp or the sellyourgf.com scenario where the hard-up bf has to ask his gf to fuck a friend to buy something etc. They chose the latter and it worked out well as indeed he got a bit uneasy/jealous or whatever when his gf really got into my pounding her. He sort of started to say something and Ijsut replied in character that the 'deal' was that I got to creampie her. For some reason that got him super excited and so I didn't have to worry about him calling the finale off. As has happened 2x before in my life where the guy in the couple went weird near the end.

Check out fetlife and make the investment in time to be a good member. I think the fetish scene is one place where even homely guys can get laid.

An unbelievable story! You are a courageous guy and you were rewarded! I always wondered, if cuckold/threesome goes well and everyone is happy, why wouldn't they continue to meet and fuck together? Sure, lots of people like variety, but I don't get why this amazing fucking should be a one-time thing only? I'd stay together for few months at least.