If a person has a heartbeat, there is a man willing to have sex with them. He used to post on this board as GG2.
Sex clubs as a single man
- Thread starter Tashki
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Agreed. I have had more than a few MF couples that I met through swinging back in the 90's, through those phone dating services lavalife/casual encounters that turned out to be good friends and the fucking the wife thing was a central feature. Most of them went that way and they were good, positive experiences for us all.
But in the case with the couple I met before the sellyourgf.com-scene couple, the guy and I fucked hs wife standing up at their house. Him in her ass and me in her pussy. He went in first. I went in about a minute later and he blew his nut in her ass within a minute. Then he got aggressive and pulled her away from me and said I had to leave. The wife started to say something and he was very snappy so I figured that this guy was not stable and that I'd best just leave.
So my strategy the next time was to give the guy some sort of reason to see it through.
Now that I am thinking about it...might be time to go back on fetife! Pretty hard to find any commercially available bushy pussy what with the market forces determining that the smooth look is more palatable! lol!
Even if no heartbeat for some of them I thnk!
Who was GG2? I'll search him later.
You know what most women don't like? Going to sex clubs when they allow single men. We only go on couples and single females nights. A female friend told me of her experience on a single men evening. It totally creeped her out. She started having sex with her husband and when she looked up, there was 5 single guys jerking off while watching her. Ew!
That's an amazing encounter. As much as my wife and I enjoy being with other women, the few times I watched her with other men have been incredibly hot and a huge turn on. I would be open to doing that more often but the problem is she is just so fuckin picky and specific when looking for the right guy that its often like finding a needle in a haystack. She is far less picky when choosing women for some fucked up reason. Maybe Fetlife is the way to go. Are the pics of the members there fairly accurate? I just don;t want it to be full of a bunch of desperate men who aren't able to hook up under normal circumstances.
Cuigeo my friend. He is a pro bull! But I think he needs you to be on video if you are okay with being filmed (face blurred).
I looked him up. Other than the video taping, he was pretty close to what she is looking for. But the taping is the issue for her. Even though he blurs out the face, she has a few distinguishing tattoos she would rather not have something out there of her that she has no control over. We have three kids and they are more technically savvy than I will ever be and god forbid they see mommy getting plowed by this guy on their screens.
It’s interesting to hear your experiences. I’ve dabbled a bit in the adult dating scene myself and had some memorable encounters. There was one time when a couple I met was totally different from what I expected - the guy was super jealous and aggressive, which was an instant turn-off. It taught me that communication and mutual respect are still important here, and I also noticed that finding authentic profiles can be tricky nowadays with all the smooth, curated looks out there. That’s why I’m trying to stay on adult dating anonymous platforms like https://tosituhma.com to find more genuine connections. Hope it's useful for you, too.
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Been there done that. Unfortunately if they leveled the playing field and charged single me the same it would be 100 guys for 1 woman. Lol
Comparing sex club to SP hobbying is apples to oranges. I am a regular single guy at one of the clubs and you shouldn’t go there if you are looking only to get laid.
It is for people who are into a lifestyle that celebrates and rewards open lustful relations with other people. It is also for people to seek validation in their kinks. For me, I like the feeling of not being the only horny perv in town.
I know many couples and women who enjoy the attention they get in these clubs. Not all women like being surrounded by dicks but then there are some who do. Sex clubs are a good place for these women and for guys who love them.
And remember its a “club” not a “service”. You need to know people in any club to have a meaningful experience.
It is for people who are into a lifestyle that celebrates and rewards open lustful relations with other people. It is also for people to seek validation in their kinks. For me, I like the feeling of not being the only horny perv in town.
I know many couples and women who enjoy the attention they get in these clubs. Not all women like being surrounded by dicks but then there are some who do. Sex clubs are a good place for these women and for guys who love them.
And remember its a “club” not a “service”. You need to know people in any club to have a meaningful experience.
Well stated. If you just need to get laid see a SP.
It is a learning experience.
Ideally, it is a place where people can leave the night having made great friends
As soon as you are there you realize you do not want to have sex with everyone and not everyone is interested in you.
It is like any where else really but with immediate sex as the possible endgame .
It is up to the women to signal interest with a smile , approaching you for a conversation etc now you have to make a positive impression
if you are interested. The implications are unstated like in any normal social setting to avoid hard rejection so you have to be aware of signals and be confident in the approach
If you do get lucky you now have to think about her desires more then yours as you have not paid for her.
Communication is the key so ask her what she wants and you need experience, if you have none you are in the wrong place IMHO
Rules are no means no and maybe means no and yes means maybe
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I have been to M4 several times.
A few basics:
1) Most of the women are average to unattractive
2) Patience and moderate expectations are key
3) Being nice and respectful can lead to some good experiences, often with 2 men and a woman (heterosexual). Get a bbbj while she gets fucked from behind. Do the fucking (covered), while she gives a hj or bbbj to another.
4) Worst case, you respectfully watch others have sex.
I enjoy it once in a while, but not for sex with a good looking woman.
Back in the day I was at Wicked with a good looking partner on a no single men night. Definitely a better way to go if you can make it happen.
A few basics:
1) Most of the women are average to unattractive
2) Patience and moderate expectations are key
3) Being nice and respectful can lead to some good experiences, often with 2 men and a woman (heterosexual). Get a bbbj while she gets fucked from behind. Do the fucking (covered), while she gives a hj or bbbj to another.
4) Worst case, you respectfully watch others have sex.
I enjoy it once in a while, but not for sex with a good looking woman.
Back in the day I was at Wicked with a good looking partner on a no single men night. Definitely a better way to go if you can make it happen.
