TERB Guys don't like BBW's?

[John Wick]

Everyone is entitled to like what they like.

However, it is wrong to shame people for their appearances or preferences.

In these scenarios its better to just agree to disagree.

No one is 'shaming' anyone. A very simple and straightforward question was asked by the OP: Do TERB guys (hobbyists looking to pay prostitutes for sex) like/prefer BBWs? (i.e. how desirable an option are they in the eyes of the buyers vs other options?)

The question itself seems to make women in this thread (clearly those with body image insecurities) very uncomfortable, to the point of demonizing men who are simply responding with their dissenting personal opinions. Then they seem to want to go two steps further with ridiculous levels of politically correct virtue signalling and overt efforts to turn this thread in a body-positivity exercise. all the White Knighting going here doesn't help the discussion along either.

In the end, BBW escorts know how they look, and make conscious/deliberate personal choices to put themselves out on the market as an option to buyers. In do so, they are subject to public opinion regarding their looks/shape/performance just like any other retailer or purveyor of public facing services. Like all those other provider types, they have to take the good with the bad, but it's wrong to demonize those opinions that may not be positive in nature.

 

[Jenesis]

Fair enough, but you are unusual. Most women are very disinterested in exchanging recreational fluids with obese guys.

What the fuck?!? Calling me names!!

JOKING!!!! Totally joking. LMAO. I admit I am unusual in more ways the one. LOL.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

No one is 'shaming' anyone. A very simple and straightforward question was asked by the OP: Do TERB guys (hobbyists looking to pay prostitutes for sex) like/prefer BBWs? (i.e. how desirable an option are they in the eyes of the buyers vs other options?)

The question itself seems to make women in this thread (clearly those with body image insecurities) very uncomfortable, to the point of demonizing men who are simply responding with their dissenting personal opinions. Then they seem to want to go two steps further with ridiculous levels of politically correct virtue signalling and overt efforts to turn this thread in a body-positivity exercise. all the White Knighting going here doesn't help the discussion along either.

In the end, BBW escorts know how they look, and make conscious/deliberate personal choices to put themselves out on the market as an option to buyers. In do so, they are subject to public opinion regarding their looks/shape/performance just like any other retailer or purveyor of public facing services. Like all those other provider types, they have to take the good with the bad, but it's wrong to demonize those opinions that may not be positive in nature.

No one is 'shaming' anyone. A very simple and straightforward question was asked by the OP: Do TERB guys (hobbyists looking to pay prostitutes for sex) like/prefer BBWs? (i.e. how desirable an option are they in the eyes of the buyers vs other options?)

The question itself seems to make women in this thread (clearly those with body image insecurities) very uncomfortable, to the point of demonizing men who are simply responding with their dissenting personal opinions. Then they seem to want to go two steps further with ridiculous levels of politically correct virtue signalling and overt efforts to turn this thread in a body-positivity exercise. all the White Knighting going here doesn't help the discussion along either.

In the end, BBW escorts know how they look, and make conscious/deliberate personal choices to put themselves out on the market as an option to buyers. In do so, they are subject to public opinion regarding their looks/shape/performance just like any other retailer or purveyor of public facing services. Like all those other provider types, they have to take the good with the bad, but it's wrong to demonize those opinions that may not be positive in nature.

This whole thread is a "bash bbw & those who see them " thread. If people can't see that well then *shrugs*

At the end of the day commenting on a thread has nothing to do with a provider having body issues or low self-esteem. It is simply a bunch of adults having a healthy grown-up discussion about a topic that might be sensitive to some readers.

Another point i would like to make is one man or multiple men cannot comment on the popularity that BBW providers may or may not have because they can only speak for themselves and not others. They also can't comment on it because they have no idea how much a BBW in the industry makes a day.

We all need to remember that each man has different tastes and preferences, just like women. For example, some ladies prefer clients 25 & up, some prefer 30 & up, some like younger, some prefer not to see guys with disabilities while some will. Some men like skinny women, some men like curvy women, some like brunettes, some like blondes. I can go on and on. It all comes down to one thing. PREFERENCE.

As for BBWs who are in the industry, I'm sure they do know how they look and I'm sure that regardless of your opinion on them, they are happy and content with how they look and what they are doing. The only people who seem to have a problem with them are people who have cacomorphobia (fear of fat people).

 

[Sean__DGD]

Not going to read through eleven pages but I'm not a chubby chaser. I like my women average to petite. I personally don't find BBW's physically attractive, but that is my own personal taste. Before all you BBW's shame me for my own personal tastes, I don't claim to be attractive. I don't claim to be in gym shape. I pay women to fuck me and if I'm paying, why wouldn't I search out a woman that I find attractive.... to ME?

BBW's have a market. BBW lovers unite and keep being you. I don't shame you for your tastes.

I don't find BBW's attractive and I'm a TERB member. That doesn't mean all TERB members are BBW dislikers.

 

[Jenesis]

This whole thread is a "bash bbw & those who see them " thread. If people can't see that well then *shrugs*

At the end of the day commenting on a thread has nothing to do with a provider having body issues or low self-esteem. It is simply a bunch of adults having a healthy grown-up discussion about a topic that might be sensitive to some readers.

Another point i would like to make is one man or multiple men cannot comment on the popularity that BBW providers may or may not have because they can only speak for themselves and not others. They also can't comment on it because they have no idea how much a BBW in the industry makes a day.

We all need to remember that each man has different tastes and preferences, just like women. For example, some ladies prefer clients 25 & up, some prefer 30 & up, some like younger, some prefer not to see guys with disabilities while some will. Some men like skinny women, some men like curvy women, some like brunettes, some like blondes. I can go on and on. It all comes down to one thing. PREFERENCE.

As for BBWs who are in the industry, I'm sure they do know how they look and I'm sure that regardless of your opinion on them, they are happy and content with how they look and what they are doing. The only people who seem to have a problem with them are people who have cacomorphobia (fear of fat people).

oh boy - first you school and then you SCHOOL. LOL. Love it.

That word is going to piss some people off and I’m living for it!

 

[sweetiepieexo]

oh boy - first you school and then you SCHOOL. LOL. Love it.

That word is going to piss some people off and I’m living for it!

LOL it probably will

Honestly, I am just sharing my personal thoughts & opinions on this.

People (clients) like to act like they know the ins and outs of this business, which ladies busy, and which are not. It's all just assumptions and people's opinion based on their beliefs.

I'm glad my post made you smile

 

[Jenesis]

LOL it probably will

Honestly, I am just sharing my personal thoughts & opinions on this.

People (clients) like to act like they know the ins and outs of this business, which ladies busy, and which are not. It's all just assumptions and people's opinion based on their beliefs.

I'm glad my post made you smile

So true. The “how much does an SP make” threads are always a blast too. LOL

Hope your having an awesome day sweetiepie. I’m off to do Auntie duties today. Wish me luck! LOL.

 

[Sean__DGD]

LOL it probably will

Honestly, I am just sharing my personal thoughts & opinions on this.

People (clients) like to act like they know the ins and outs of this business, which ladies busy, and which are not. It's all just assumptions and people's opinion based on their beliefs.

I'm glad my post made you smile

So true. The “how much does an SP make” threads are always a blast too. LOL

Hope your having an awesome day sweetiepie. I’m off to do Auntie duties today. Wish me luck! LOL.

You guys should take this low key bashing offline and in DM's. Just sayin'

 

[Bagilson]

What the fuck?!? Calling me names!!

JOKING!!!! Totally joking. LMAO. I admit I am unusual in more ways the one. LOL.

Normal people are seldom memorable, nor do they often accomplish great things…

 

[John Wick]

The only people who seem to have a problem with them are people who have cacomorphobia (fear of fat people).

And again, to suit your virtue signaling agenda you are deliberately equating men's preferences to men having a problem with them. I'm not reading anywhere in this thread that men have a PROBLEM with BBW women. I am reading men do not see them as a preference. Equating that with men suffering from cacomorphobia is a massive stretch that only someone highly indoctrinated into PC mindsets would make. Sorry, but I don't think you have or are 'schooling' anyone. You are revealing your own bias, but nothing more really.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

And again, to suit your virtue signaling agenda you are deliberately equating men's preferences to men having a problem with them. I'm not reading anywhere in this thread that men have a PROBLEM with BBW women. I am reading men do not see them as a preference. Equating that with men suffering from cacomorphobia is a massive stretch that only someone highly indoctrinated into PC mindsets would make. Sorry, but I don't think you have or are 'schooling' anyone. You are revealing your own bias, but nothing more really.

That is not what i am doing but i can see how it will seem that way.

Everyone has different preferences and different perceptions of beauty. Which is what i have been saying all along.

It doesn't matter if a girl is short, tall fat or skinny, if she wants to be a sp she can, and I guarantee you there is somebody out there in this world that would see her.

 

[John Wick]

It doesn't matter if a girl is short, tall fat or skinny, if she wants to be a sp she can, and I guarantee you there is somebody out there in this world that would see her.

Totally agree with this. That said, we also need to remember that for those that choose not to see her based on their preferences, it doesn't make them bad people, shouldn't imply that decision is implicitly fat-shaming them, nor does it automatically mean there is some form of unfair, discriminatory, and nefarious 'phobia' somehow at play. That just victimizes men simply for having a preference they chose to state out loud.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Is this actually a thing. I don't ever recall anyone being trashed for this.
Hell people post questions for shemales, those get pushback but, adult males can deal with that so it doesn't stop.
Questions on oldest SP, all sorts of kink. Don't think I've ever seen anyone get trashed. A eww gross isn't getting trashed and much like Mr T, I pity the fool that would be fearful of having someone respond to their kink with that level of response to the point of claming up.

I ask in my booking form where clients found me, I have seen dooooozens of terb members and I got like 4 or 5 reviews over the last 3 years. It definitely tracks, like the clients who tell me, I kid you not, that they prefer my body type but married a skinny woman. They never say why, and despite the fact that I'll argue here, i avoid anything that would cause an argument in person, so i don't ask, but I'm sure fear of ridicule and the idea that a certain type of wife shows you're more successful plays a substantial role.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I think this idea that men, in general, do not like bbws is far from reality.

I can't leave my house in sweats without having men trying to talk to me. If I put on nice clothes, a little makeup and wear my hair down, guaranteed that at least 4 men will ask me out within an hour. When I go out with my skinnier friends, there have been many times where I get far more attention.

This is because my shape is amazing, my face is gorgeous, and I exude copious amounts of confidence because I'm hot and I know I'm hot.

 

[Sean__DGD]

I think this idea that men, in general, do not like bbws is far from reality.

I can't leave my house in sweats without having men trying to talk to me. If I put on nice clothes, a little makeup and wear my hair down, guaranteed that at least 4 men will ask me out within an hour. When I go out with my skinnier friends, there have been many times where I get far more attention.

This is because my shape is amazing, my face is gorgeous, and I exude copious amounts of confidence because I'm hot and I know I'm hot.

I don't mean this with any disrespect, but are these men who come on to you black?

Before anyone calls me a racist and or profiling, any black man I've been friends with, the majority of them love big girls.

 

[onomatopoeia]

This applies to me personally, and probably a sizeable majority of other men who hobby:

There are different standards between the civvie women with whom I would have sex, and the professional women whom I would pay for sex.

I don't seek out BBWs for pay-for-play for the following reasons:

Supply and Demand: There is an abundance of ready, willing and able civvie single plus sized women that I could date, with minimal cost and commitment.

The catch-all term BBW itself: Without recent photographs, and especially face pictures, there's no way of knowing if a woman described as BBW is a size 16 or size 46, and whether or not she would be described as physically/ facially beautiful by an impartial critic.

A relatively small percentage of people can legitimately be described as beautiful, and a smaller percentage of them are plus-sized. The legitimately beautiful rarely use that term to describe themselves.

A butterface with a killer bod can get me horny, but a plain Jane who could stand to lose 100 pounds, not so much. I pay money for fantasy, women who would have little to no interest in knocking boots with me in the real world.

 

[onomatopoeia]

I think this idea that men, in general, do not like bbws is far from reality.

I can't leave my house in sweats without having men trying to talk to me. If I put on nice clothes, a little makeup and wear my hair down, guaranteed that at least 4 men will ask me out within an hour. When I go out with my skinnier friends, there have been many times where I get far more attention.

This is because my shape is amazing, my face is gorgeous, and I exude copious amounts of confidence because I'm hot and I know I'm hot.

Vera, I looked at your website pics, and I believe an impartial critic might well describe YOU as hot.

 

[Sean__DGD]

A butterface with a killer bod can get me horny, but a plain Jane who could stand to lose 100 pounds, not so much. I pay money for fantasy, women who would have little to no interest in knocking boots with me in the real world.

This sums it up.

The term "Grateful" comes up in locker room speak when hooking up with a civvie BBW. There are guys who will take advantage of low self esteem just to get their dick sucked, I'm not one of them, but they're out there.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I don't mean this with any disrespect, but are these men who come on to you black?

Before anyone calls me a racist and or profiling, any black man I've been friends with, the majority of them love big girls.

The vast majority of my clients are not black, so the men who actually pay me, are mostly not black.

As for in my personal life, I'd say half of the men who approach me are Black, the second biggest group being white men, sometimes south Asian men approach me, very rarely do east and south east Asians approach me but some do.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Vera, I looked at your website pics, and I believe an impartial critic might well describe YOU as hot.

Thank you