TERB Guys don't like BBW's?

JohnnyWishbone

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Everyone has types they go for, both in real life and in the hobby and reasons why they go those routes.

Personally I would not go for a BBW, I'm a huge guy myself at 5'8 / 189lbs and I find what I see in the mirror every day repugnant (partially due to dismorphia from having been much bigger in the past and partially because yes I am.) So someone as big or bigger than me as an SP is just a hard no. The size and the fat just reminds me of me...

I go to SP's for the illusion of an attractive woman enjoying my presence and wanting to touch/be touched by me, even if I know it's just about the money for them and they are putting on a performance pretending not to be revulsed.

At least with SP's I'm aware it's transactional...
Similar to me in that I am very facially unattractive and I wouldn't want to pay to see someone unattractive facially. I want the illusion and fantasy of a hot woman pretending to enjoy her time with me including kissing my ugly face. In terms of BBW - I am not attracted to them (I am 5'11, athletic/slim and make a conscious effort to be fit and healthy) and I know a lot of guys and I can't say even one of them are attracted to larger/bb/fat/thick women. I am attracted to slim women with slim legs and small butt. That said I am sure there are guys who like BBW but I would guess (based upon 50 or so straight guys I know - friends, family, acquaintances, colleagues etc.) the vast majority of guys aren't into that look
 

Bushdoc

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I remember a couple years back, someone started a thread called "BBW / Chubby porn", and it sadly died on the first page.
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I think I might take an attempt at resurrecting that for my fellow bbw fans. But I don't have any expectation it will be popular.

I like a wide variety of women. I enjoy that I can go from super slim to huge, variety is the spice of life, and personally I prefer a huge butt and thick thighs to a slim girl. And I think the popular opinion about what's desirable changes over time and depending on the culture. But I realize my fondness for bbws goes beyond what many guys are into and crosses over into "fetish" territory.
 
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Bagilson

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Thanks (for the sarcasm)!

I try to stand up, when I can, when I see women throw real sex worker under the bus for attention. Because, flash news, I am a real sex worker and this is not okay to do that. Even women to women, it's not acceptable.

If you don't like it, you are entirely entitled to your opinion, but this is way deeper than a disagreement.

Respectfuly.
No, what you wanted was this thread deleted because it contained positions which you found disagreeable. That is the dead opposite of respectful debate.
 

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Personally, why do I want spend my $300 to screw a fat or politically correct termed as Big Beautiful Woman (BBW) chick?

If I want to spend my $300, it’s my sincere pleasure and gratitude to get laid with a thin girl with big boob, leaned legs and small ass (one hand grab ass) LOL.

No hard feeling BTW BBW, it’s just a man’s preference.
 
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Josephine Grey

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I will agree with you that this thread is negative and based on a stupid observation though.

But considering this is the lounge and the lounge is filled with scallywags, perverts, freaks, troglodites and opinionated hot heads of all ilks you could post a thread about kittens and there would likely be a battle between some members that would devolve the thread into a suckfest anyways so it's par for the course. :p

This section is basically a petri dish and should always be taken with a massive grain of salt
You are right on this point. This is a review forum where men exchanges point of view and banters. Honestly 99% of the time I say nothing at all. BUT when it comes from a women let alone an ex sex worker, it touches me.

We need to support each other. This women on women aggression needs to stop. This women on sex workers AND sex workers on sex workers aggression needs to stop too.
 
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Bagilson

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It’s kinda ironic; a man can say that he’s just not attracted to women in general; anyone who gives him static for it is a homophobe. However, a man says he’s just not attracted to fat women and some people start to dogpile on him for being lipophobic. Which, incidentally would also make him Lizzophobic and hippophobic as well….
 

sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
Everyone is entitled to like what they like.

However, it is wrong to shame people for their appearances or preferences.

In these scenarios its better to just agree to disagree.
 
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Almost every guy will have sex with a plus-sized woman fairly often, including most married men who are faithful. A lot of single guys, however, don't want to be seen in public with a BBW on their arm; if they introduce their new girlfriend to their buds, they want the other guys to say DUDE!!!, not dude...
 
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sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
Almost every guy will have sex with a plus-sized woman fairly often, including most married men who are faithful. A lot of single guys, however, don't want to be seen in public with a BBW on their arm; if they introduce their new girlfriend to their buds, they want the other guys to say DUDE!!!, not dude...
This is exactly what is wrong with society...

People care to much about what other people think about them. If people in the world stopped caring about what everyone else thought , a lot more people would be geniunely happy.

I never understood why people are so invested in other people's relationships.
 

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Too many pages to read through. If I want bbw, I’ll go pick one up in a bar. Not likely to happen as I have zero desire for one. Ottawa guys seem to love bbw as almost all providers here are overweight.
 
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