Apparently, Paul Bernardo and Ted Bundy received lots of love letters with nude pics from female admirers. Go figure.
The Rise of LONELY & SINGLE Men...
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go where you are treated best. live your life the way you want. go your own way.
every man needs to make proactive choices in their life, and suffer the consequences of those choices.
if I want sex I buy it. if I want to meet a woman I will more than likely go to another country. its not a driving force in my life to have a relationship. nor is it a driving force to get laid as much as I did when I was younger.
I focus on myself and my goals. goal number one is to self improve both mentally and physically. second is to grow my empire.
if men could somehow out think that biological urge and devote all the time and energy we use towards women the achievements we could unlock would be profound.
The last 5 words of your paragraph lost me... fix it please.. you almost ended in a high note and I thought I entered a euphoria moment there.
SO what is romance?
Sweet words.. that other players have used.
Complimenting her hair and she thinks you are seeing other women.
Saying you are "beautiful today" and she places an airtag on your jacket.
Liking someone for more than sex. You wanna be around that person all the time, do things together, tonna sex, and if you suck at life they still like you. Partner kills someone accidentally gets sued and you still fully support them rather than run away.
More to relationships than money
it makes sense to me...
" if men could somehow out think that biological urge and devote all the time and energy we use towards women the achievements we could unlock would be profound. "
where I was going with it was we spend so many of our resources(time, energy, money, etc) on the pursuit of women. if we didnt have that drive/addiction for women the potential for improvement of our bodies, minds, finances would exponentially grow. think of the amount of time we spend on terb talking about women. how many minutes or hours a day would that amount to over a year or a lifetime. the money you have spent trying to win a womans favor on date over a life time.
lets face it as men we dedicate a huge amount of resources towards women. behind most of our motivations in life lie the desire to attract and mate with women. a new car, a flashy watch, new clothes, a ring, building a physique, going to clubs. it all comes back to women.
its amazing how a flip of the switch before puberty utterly changes how we behave and see women. there is no way in hell women dedicate nearly the same amount of resources in the pursuit of men.
I hope this answered your request.
Not to women. To sex. It all comes back to sex.
And you are right, women don’t pursue sex the same way.
You are also right that if men didn’t pursue pussy so hard, the growth would be insane. Women have been steadily growing social and economic status over the last few decades. We are not focusing on sex and we are not listening to men who want to keep us focused on them or family. So we have grown with a change of focus. Men can do the same thing. All they have to do is jerk off but that is not enough of a release for most men.
how much time, money and effort do you think women spend on looking pretty? painting their faces as if they are going to war with another tribe etc etc?
Then why so many women on Tiktok asking...
where are the men...
I don't get approach ...
Men don't want single /divorce mothers..
I am being ghosted...
I want a man who makes money
I want a man to love me and don't care for money.... Just be there for me.
I cheated,,,
Or
Feminism destroyed relationships....
F killed chivalry
and so on.
IF people are true to themselves and found themselves and accepted who and what they are then they can find a beautiful relationship.
I told a BW 'white' how to get married,,, and she never thanked me. She's been married more than 19 years.
Spite doesn't help relationship.
I dont disagree that women dont put out effort and expense; however, men also have similar cost to look attractive (clothes, hair cut, cologne) if you look at the timeline of a relationship between men and women from courting to divorce or if you wish to be optimistic courting till death still married it would still be for men. .the marriage process which I am rusty on prices a man band is usually a gold ring not nearly as costly and fancy as a womans engagement ring. whats the rule of thumb for how many mans months salary he should spend on it. happy wife happy life comes at a price tag. divorce is is the most costly feature. child support and alimony for 18 yrs and losing half of your shit.
relationship cost everyone, however, from a long term process it does not work out equally from a financial benefit towards men. I doubt it from a casual stand point as well since I dont see a good roi when dating.
sadly it is all about women, and men wanting sex with women. while the gays seem to have a better go for some reason, sex still drives us.
we cant escape it. I would consider it worse than an addiction. I would compare it to women wanting children, although at a much different level.
true, women have overtaken men in many metrics and have shifted away from family first to career first and family later. ironically its not until women biological clock starts ticking from late 20s to early 30s women shift to focus on family. this shift has also caused some unforeseen developments for women.
unfortunately just wacking off does not fully satiate that need for most. while it takes the edge off it in no way replaces it. it would be like giving weed to a crack head. ya he will smoke it but he still needs the rock.
on a personal biological note I remember having no interests in females when I was a child, then in grade 6 or 7 developed the interest. in my early 40s I recall sex and chasing women as becoming less important. the addiction waning and the ability to make much more logic driven decisions and clarity was astounding.
while testosterone is a fantastic hormone it keeps men hooked on women. just like the crack
This will never change. It's a biologically ingrained response for women to get wet over.
The only way to describe how men are wired for sex is to compare it to a serious drug addiction. The drive for sex is something so strong in most man that I'm not sure that most women will ever understand it. Short of castration, it's not going to change.
It's a hypergamy culture. Women general,y don't date down and never have as they were never in a position to, while men have always had to. Single women who have never married and never had kids have been out earning men in the same boat for 50 years now so their minimum standards have risen significantly. Problem is fewer and fewer men meet those expectations and the ones that do have even more women pursuing them, and a good number of them realize their desirability and become players, further reducing the pool of eligible men. This happened first in the black community decades ago as men were imprisoned or underemployed in large numbers and women often were the breadwinners in the family unit. China is much further down the road with this problem as the legacy of the one child policy and discrimination in favour of sons has great,lay altered the ratio of men and women, to the point it is not unusual for young women to be kidnapped to be brides in rural areas.
I think incels are way off with the expectation that the government should provide them with women, but decriminalizing prostitution is a conversation that needs to be had. Lonely men are going to need a release so long as hypergamy prevails.
I think incels are way off with the expectation that the government should provide them with women, but decriminalizing prostitution is a conversation that needs to be had. Lonely men are going to need a release so long as hypergamy prevails.
More women in university than men(this has been going on for quite a while now). Also, women have the majority of the best jobs, the public sector jobs. Male wage inequality started to rise in the early 1980s. The math just does not add up at all for the average man.
Plus diversity programs are job killers for men. Many public and private entities are required to achieve various gender ratios and if they can't create lots of new roles for women the on,y alternative is to pass over or fire men.
Yes, men cannot even take refuge in the smaller number of private sector union jobs that still exist.
Quite a debate when you have diversity vs. seniority by the way.
Quite a debate when you have diversity vs. seniority by the way.
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