The Rise of LONELY & SINGLE Men...
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Numbers are just an excuse. If you've got it you will succeed no matter what the odds. Me? I couldn't get lucky in a women's prison with a handful of pardons. Most of the time.
Imho if anyone (male or female) is abusive to their partner/significant other / parents / kids they are low value scum of the earth period.I would think that goes both ways. Seems logical. If your not a 10, you have to make up for it somewhere. Men have way too high a standard for what they want in the looks department for women as well. If we are not high make up, fake lashes, FaceTune filters to look like Instagram models, under 25, etc etc.
But this is what society tells you and it is false because there are plenty of ugly looking couples around the world. LOL.
I always get a kick out of “high status male” remarks.
It is such a joke. My abusive ex thought he was a high status or high valued male and he was not.
Again, just because you have a job, a car and bank account doesn’t mean you bring any substance to a relationship. You may bring money but big fucking deal. When you are an asshole behind the money, no woman will want you anyway.
Can I please ask what made your ex high value in his mind?
Follow up question is. Why would you even entertain / date / marry an abusive partner?
Ratio of girl to guy is so high in Toronto. Specially beautiful girls, even older ones, like 30s and 40s, it's hard to believe any women would be picky. I think it's easy for men if you know how to meet them. Tinder still sucks for men.
Funny thing long time ago it wasn't like this or at least I didn't notice this many beautiful women. They're made in a factory for sure, no way thru natural selection.
Every time I go out I'm shocked at how beautiful the women are and how they're in such high quantity. Just got damn flawless. Better than world's top super models (duh cuz made in a lab).
Too bad these types don't work as Escorts.
Funny thing long time ago it wasn't like this or at least I didn't notice this many beautiful women. They're made in a factory for sure, no way thru natural selection.
Every time I go out I'm shocked at how beautiful the women are and how they're in such high quantity. Just got damn flawless. Better than world's top super models (duh cuz made in a lab).
Too bad these types don't work as Escorts.
1. He had a high paying job, corner lot house, money in the bank, 2 cars etc. Add to that his “alpha” male personality, in his opinion, which would lead him to getting dates with women but it never led to any substance. It was not just me he was abusive too. You always find out so much after you leave the relationship. So I am pretty sure the next girl he gets involved with will become his next victim. But that won’t last. And he will go through the cycle thinking he is making these choice to leave these women and he is better for it when In reality he is an abuser because he is lonely and hates himself. That and he is a drunk. But he drinks because he hates himself.
2. Cycle of abuse. I had some stressful things going on in my life that left me emotionally vulnerable and he got in there, then cycle of abuse starts and it is hard to get out. But I finally did.
its a cluster fuck.
women want what they want. women control access to sex, outside of breaking the law by men. men are incredibly driven by their sex drive, which women have been able to prosper by. in the gay community there isnt nearly the same amount of hoop jumping as there is for hetero relationships. unfortunately a majority of men wont go this route.
the problem is women will always set the price for access. this price will increase as time continues to pass. expectations will continue to grow.
in a time of 50% divorce, which is initiated 80% of women(reason cited as not being happy). it is an act of futility to try to meet those constantly growing expectations when men can so easily be financially and emotionally destroyed.
this is why more men are geo maxing to other countries, to find more traditional women who have less growing expectations. eventually like western women when their country levels up and women can prosper financially the exact same thing will happen there.
women dont need mens wallets anymore, but government has now replaced men(welfare, child tax benefits). the legal system incentivizes divorce through child support and alimony payments.
men need to accept that you will need to jump through womens hoops to access sex. the problem is that women need to accept that the men who access sex with them will more than likely not stay with a woman since they can access other women(if they can provide all those wonderful things women want why would they just stay with one women?). wash rinse repeat.
lets face it, some men will not be able to jump through the hoops. some men wont want to jump through the hoops. some men will jump though the hoops and smash and dash.
the statistics and studies out there paint a very dark picture of hetero relationships.
its a cluster fuck and will only get worse. perhaps with enough time a collapse of western society.
either way, Ill live my life by my rules and choices.
women want what they want. women control access to sex, outside of breaking the law by men. men are incredibly driven by their sex drive, which women have been able to prosper by. in the gay community there isnt nearly the same amount of hoop jumping as there is for hetero relationships. unfortunately a majority of men wont go this route.
the problem is women will always set the price for access. this price will increase as time continues to pass. expectations will continue to grow.
in a time of 50% divorce, which is initiated 80% of women(reason cited as not being happy). it is an act of futility to try to meet those constantly growing expectations when men can so easily be financially and emotionally destroyed.
this is why more men are geo maxing to other countries, to find more traditional women who have less growing expectations. eventually like western women when their country levels up and women can prosper financially the exact same thing will happen there.
women dont need mens wallets anymore, but government has now replaced men(welfare, child tax benefits). the legal system incentivizes divorce through child support and alimony payments.
men need to accept that you will need to jump through womens hoops to access sex. the problem is that women need to accept that the men who access sex with them will more than likely not stay with a woman since they can access other women(if they can provide all those wonderful things women want why would they just stay with one women?). wash rinse repeat.
lets face it, some men will not be able to jump through the hoops. some men wont want to jump through the hoops. some men will jump though the hoops and smash and dash.
the statistics and studies out there paint a very dark picture of hetero relationships.
its a cluster fuck and will only get worse. perhaps with enough time a collapse of western society.
either way, Ill live my life by my rules and choices.
Good on you for getting out of that toxic situation!
Now if you peel back the layers. It seems you were initially attracted to his (perhaps there is more)
1. Status
2. Earning potential
3. Alpha Male personality
These seem to be common traits in defining a "high value male". These traits get attention from women.
At the end of the day, women are attracted to men who other men want to be like and other women want to be with.
I will say this again so it's clear. If you are an abusive person you are low value regardless of how attractive you are to the opposite sex.
Hypergamy is real. Men should always "chase excellence" because women will follow.
Depends how much money you have and how nice your car is.I would think that goes both ways. Seems logical. If your not a 10, you have to make up for it somewhere. Men have way too high a standard for what they want in the looks department for women as well. If we are not high make up, fake lashes, FaceTune filters to look like Instagram models, under 25, etc etc.
But this is what society tells you and it is false because there are plenty of ugly looking couples around the world. LOL.
I always get a kick out of “high status male” remarks.
It is such a joke. My abusive ex thought he was a high status or high valued male and he was not.
Again, just because you have a job, a car and bank account doesn’t mean you bring any substance to a relationship. You may bring money but big fucking deal. When you are an asshole behind the money, no woman will want you anyway.
Yes, I read about this also many years ago. I think it depends on the age group we are talking about. The baby boom really distorted things as men tend to marry women about 2 years younger on average. So the front end boomer men could dip down into a huge pool of women(not sure if U.S. draft dodgers had a substantial negative impact for Canadian men), but the back end boomer men were left high and dry(also because of the decline in unionized manufacturing jobs amongst other things). Also, infant mortality for males was traditionaly higher(baby boys are weaker than girls) but modern hospitals have been saving those weak boys. I have heard about NYC. I would not be surprised if a lot of those women just stay single due to high expectations. I saw a show where they interviewed women in Alaska. Alaska has huge shortage of women. One women said the odds are good but the goods are odd.
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And if you can get Exellence - no matter how hard you try - or the universe is against you - will the women still follow?
First, you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women..."
Scarface.....
Amazing that it seems to work in some cases.
If you can't become an executive, maybe try becoming a convict.
