This guy gives great advice and I really fell sorry for the average young guy trying to date westernized women in north america or western europe as it is really tough out there for them. The thing that really bothers me about these articles and content creators is that while they are giving good advice it's the overall theme of how men these days need to make a shopping list of major improvements just to date an average girl.
It usually goes something like this:
Womens requirements:
-- Over 6 feet, preferably over 6'2
-- good career that makes over 150k
-- fit , preferably with abs
-- funny, interesting, charismatic
Then the advice from these content creators is
well your not over 6 feet, so you got to make up for it in other way ...ie another shopping list of requirements just to maybe have sex with some average girl;
-- guy in video says having a V shaped body, which involves a lot of time in the gym , constant dieting and exercising, and good genetics
-- have interesting hobbies, guy in the video talks about his friend who has two planes, and how women love it when he takes them flying
What do women have to do or improve? zip, zero. Notice how you never see content on what women need to get men,
-- dont need to go the gym or workout, anyone that has been to gym knows it's 90% guys
-- doesnt need to lose weight
-- doesnt need to have interesting hobbies, most women are boring as shit and have zero hobbies.
It's almost the equivalent of having to get a harvard phd just to try and get a job at McDonalds.
My advice is this...international flights have never been cheaper. Go find a girl in eastern europe, SE Asia or South America. 10's of millions of young beautiful women in these countries that would be happy to have a decent man with a decent job.
My requirements are a little different.
- Yes I would like a man who is at least 5'11 because I am 6'1 and I like my man to be very close to my height or taller. I honestly have wished all my life that I was shorter. Having a bf in high school was non-existent for me.
- Good career, well for me honestly, in both of my past relationships I was the one working, not him, so it would be nice to be with a guy who can contribute
- fit sure, but I can only expect what I am willing to give.. as you say a little further down.. if I am expecting a guy to be in great shape, I better be in great shape. My preference would rather be to get into great shape together.
- funny, romantic, affectionate, sensitive, family oriented, enjoys the outdoors, loves sex.. sometimes outdoors lol.. and many more things.
Most women are boring as shit lol.. well I guess it depends upon the company you keep.. I write, I draw, I do digital art that I sell, I make heirloom rosaries, I create travelers notebook covers, I create planners, and on and on.
It could be just the fact that we are both, you and I, looking in the wrong places lol.