I discuss up front the "do" and "do not" for both of us.
The SP should discuss the same up front. If he did not agree, she should have walked him to the door.
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The SP should discuss the same up front. If he did not agree, she should have walked him to the door.
If touching her face is that important so as to detract from a session (big LOL) the the client should mention it when booking.
There's no way possible for the lady to know every man's preference in advance and list it on her page. It's impossible.
This is good. I guess the client that OP was describing did not let her know about touching her face in advance. Not that he respected her request anyways once she mentioned it.
It is a two way street. The SP should ask and confirm, the visitor should ask and confirm.
I am very particular about this to avoid any bad feelings or misunderstanding.
Too often an SP will get on here and beat the "war drum".
You should have punched his face since he doesn't understand when you told him to stop more than once.
As mentioned, I can understand and see many reasons why a person would not like their face touch during this type of encounter.
To clarify, one of the many reasons is that there might have been a connection issue.
Thanks for reminding me, I rarely if ever see an SP, I’m more into Strippers/dancers, not unless I really come across someone my type.
Being a gentalmen and discussing restrictions sounds proper. To be honest, I would rather ask her to do cartwheels than ask to touch her face lol. This is something you should feel out and know, although I can see mistakes happening. No big deal. Stop.
@beagle, you made me laugh at the cartwheels comment. Thanks pal.
Few years back I was tempted to do a cartwheel out the 8th floor hotel window.
What I ordered was not what came to the door.
Like a sloppy bigmac, most of the time it never looks quite the same as the pictures lol. Lots of alcohol helps lol.
In case you weren't aware, black ladies in particular struggle with, and put in endless time and effort to get their hair to look just a certain way, and that can include the use of full on wigs, hair pieces and various weaves. Given the hassles involved, most black ladies, and in particular black SPs have a hard rule of no touching the hair.
Ladies of other ethnicity typically don't typically have the same hard line / aversions.
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In the last 20 years ive had 1 guy pull my hair while having sex and I just gave him a funny look lol and said if you pull too hard its game over and he was ok but id freak if guys were touching my hair I have gorgeous long curly hair and guys compliment it but they sure as hrell don't touch it perhaps I give up a vibe that dont fuck with me while im taking control of giving you my royal treatment. there's nothing submissive about me so maybe that's why ive been lucky up til today. but ya if guys did that id give them a choice you dont touch it and I make you feel great or touch it and get out.
I once was with an SP that was afraid of my touching her face because her reaction was that I might have slapped her. Maybe, she was abused by another client in the past. I apologized and we continued our session. I felt sorry for her past experiences and assured her that she would never receive any bad treatment from me.
Respect an SP and her preferences and limits. She has reasons that are her own and nobody else’s.
1 in 20 years, is it cause for alarm ? Not the appropriate thing to do, yes.
Every business has a risk factor including escorting.
If a lady does not like anything about the business besides complaining,
maybe its time to consider a career change. Keep a safe distance from
everyone.
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That does not go well for her. Gives him grounds for an assault charge and that gets too much publicity and nasty.
After the first instance the session should have stopped and she should have told him to hit the door.
Unusual rules like that should always be disclosed up front. Anything else is perilously close to B&S...
It's very simple if you're gonna touch money wash your hands after it goes the same with eating food you wash your hands before you eat so wash your hands before you enjoy your provider
In all my years of hobbying, I have never touched a woman’s face during a session. I have had more than a few women who have touched mine or touching my neck and the back of my head, which is especially arousing, when they are kissing passionately.
If a guy has to be told numerous times not to do something that is on him, not her. Plus, if a guy has a “thing” for wanting to touch a woman’s face during a session he should let them know since this is not a usual occurrence from what I have experienced. Plus, just like with digits, not all guys are created equal. Imagine a guy getting carried away and scratching the woman’s face or poking her in the eye(s). Accident or not that can result in her not being able to work.
If a guy has to be told numerous times not to do something that is on him, not her. Plus, if a guy has a “thing” for wanting to touch a woman’s face during a session he should let them know since this is not a usual occurrence from what I have experienced. Plus, just like with digits, not all guys are created equal. Imagine a guy getting carried away and scratching the woman’s face or poking her in the eye(s). Accident or not that can result in her not being able to work.
I occasionally put my hand on the back of a lady's head while she gives a bj, but I don't do anything. I'm really just surfing with it while she does her thing. It's a self illusion type of thing.
