The one thingg i asked .....

[KDK13]

It's very simple if you're gonna touch money wash your hands after it goes the same with eating food you wash your hands before you eat so wash your hands before you enjoy your provider

Pretty open and shut. You say please don't- then he must stop. Regardless of reason. (If he had half a brain and really wanted your best he'd eagerly follow your guidelines. Its not rocket science).
I agree I don't touch my lady till after the shower. I tell a new lady (as my regs already know my routine), that I'm not touching her lovely pristine self until I can wash the Toronto grime off my hands and body. They seem to appreciate that.

 

[J Smoove]

It's very simple if you're gonna touch money wash your hands after it goes the same with eating food you wash your hands before you eat so wash your hands before you enjoy your provider

Makes sense to me.

 

[TimberOne]

One thing I observed over a few months is this:

Men feel entitled to whatever service because they pay $$$

Here, on TERB, in the comfort of your homes, many write the right things. Oh, you need to respect this and that, but in reality there's a pattern of men expecting women to put out, especially if price point is high. (This is reflected in multiple reviews)

In the moment, when it counts, we must respect SP's boundaries. She doesn't want her face touched? Just stop! She doesn't enjoy a particular activity, don't push it and try to find something you both will enjoy. Later, you can leave yourself a note, that she didn't like DFK or you kissing her nipples or whatever else it may be and it's within your rights not to repeat, but please be a gentleman and respect her as a PERSON, don't push her boundaries and you just might enjoy entire experience more than you know.

 

[Beagle_]

Why is he acting like a creep? Fucking moron, go take a shower lol.

 

[fall]

I understand pulling in the lady's head for deeper bj is definitely off limits. That has happened to me in my personal life.
Pulling one's head and touching a face are not the same.

All these restrictions should be spelled out on the profile. List all the" Don't" and there will be
no misunderstanding ever. This will help the naive population.

Not only that, but if SP advertised GFE and then does not allow such simple intimate encounter as touching the face, she is party at fault. Spell out your restrictions before the booking!

 

[Beagle_]

Seem like a hygiene thing with her lol.

Face touching thing is still fucking weird tho lol. He sounds like a stranger, should of slapped him

 

[John Wick]

One thing I observed over a few months is this:

Men feel entitled to whatever service because they pay $$$

Here, on TERB, in the comfort of your homes, many write the right things. Oh, you need to respect this and that, but in reality there's a pattern of men expecting women to put out, especially if price point is high. (This is reflected in multiple reviews)

In the moment, when it counts, we must respect SP's boundaries. She doesn't want her face touched? Just stop! She doesn't enjoy a particular activity, don't push it and try to find something you both will enjoy. Later, you can leave yourself a note, that she didn't like DFK or you kissing her nipples or whatever else it may be and it's within your rights not to repeat, but please be a gentleman and respect her as a PERSON, don't push her boundaries and you just might enjoy entire experience more than you know.

But...but....what if I can only get off by scratching the inside of her belly button, biting the webbing between her toes, and licking my own drool off her face!? I paid my $160 for 30mins of paradise! I want my money's worth, goddammit! Is it really too much to expect she indulge me!? Like really!! This is a service industry, and she's a hooker - haven't they ever heard of the Hobbyist's Bill of Rights!? It clearly states "...anything, anytime, anywhere, even if it's gross."

These chicks need to get with the program, man. Sheesh!

 

[johnd5050]

Men feel entitled to whatever service because they pay $$$

You put all men in one category and that is incorrect.
Personally I do not feel entitled to whatever......., but I do expect a little bit of return for my time and money.
I always extend proper etiquette to men and women and I expect the same in return.
If he did not stop after she told him once, he should have been kicked out.
The SP should be in total control of the event. Being 110% assertive is the key to improper behavior.

 

[Jenesis]

You put all men in one category and that is incorrect.
Personally I do not feel entitled to whatever......., but I do expect a little bit of return for my time and money.
I always extend proper etiquette to men and women and I expect the same in return.
If he did not stop after she told him once, he should have been kicked out.
The SP should be in total control of the event. Being 110% assertive is the key to improper behavior.

I get and respect what you are saying. And agree. Plenty of men do not feel entitled. Sadly, it is the entitled ones that speak the loudest and therefore are the most seen. Like with anything. Quiet gets ignored and loud gets all the attention.

The sentence should be a good amount of men believe because they have the green, they should be seen. Because there are lots and lots that do

I had a guy fighting with me at the beginning of the week because he wanted an appointment time that is not available. He couldn’t understand why I would not be able to see him. My schedule, hotel check in time, not being in the actual city they wanted - none of that mattered. LOL.

 

[johnd5050]

It's very simple if you're gonna touch money wash your hands after it goes the same with eating food you wash your hands before you eat so wash your hands before you enjoy your provider

Hope you use mouth wash, brush your teeth and shower between appointments.

 

[johnd5050]

I get and respect what you are saying. And agree. Plenty of men do not feel entitled. Sadly, it is the entitled ones that speak the loudest and therefore are the most seen. Like with anything. Quiet gets ignored and loud gets all the attention.

The sentence should be a good amount of men believe because they have the green, they should be seen. Because there are lots and lots that do

I had a guy fighting with me at the beginning of the week because he wanted an appointment time that is not available. He couldn’t understand why I would not be able to see him. My schedule, hotel check in time, not being in the actual city they wanted - none of that mattered. LOL.

It irks me when I read "men feel entitled................" crap.
There are bad actresses as well.
You come across as being assertive, hope you are in total control when making appointments and also from the start to end.

 

[Jenesis]

It irks me when I read "men feel entitled................" crap.
There are bad actresses as well.
You come across as being assertive, hope you are in total control when making appointments and also from the start to end.

I get you. It is like me when guys complain that “all escort try to rip you off”. It is not true for all of us.

Sometimes it is a true opinion. He personally does actually believe that ALL are the same but sometimes it is just writing wrong. Thumper called me out a few weeks ago when I made a boater comment. I was talking about a small percentage of boaters but just said “boaters” and it came across as generalization. It wasn’t intentional, just bad writing. But I came back, edited and acknowledged the mistake.

 

[johnd5050]

Makes sense to me.

It does. Just use mouth wash, brush your teeth and wash hands before dining at the Y.

 

[taya6ix]

Maybe, but he did not know if there was restrictions. He might be new to the hobby. His fetish was touching the face.
When I meet a new SP, I spend a few minutes discussing the do's and do not for her and me.
I have a couple of fetishes that I discuss. If she says no, I respect that and keep it in mind.
It makes the date go smoother and more enjoyable without interruptions.

No he was not new to hobbying....he said his buddy refered me

Hope you use mouth wash, brush your teeth and shower between appointments.

I do not brush my teeth between each apt....but i do water floss my reeth and wipe surfaces and occasionally vacuum the entrance and bathroom. Floor.. change bed sheets lol

 

[johnd5050]

No he was not new to hobbying....he said his buddy refered me

I do not brush my teeth between each apt....but i do water floss my reeth and wipe surfaces and occasionally vacuum the entrance and bathroom. Floor.. change bed sheets lol

Thanks. This is a hygiene lesson for every one.
Hope you never have another erratic ill mannered a-hole in your work place.. If you do, open the door and stick a foot up his rear end.
You gave one too many warnings. I say one is enough for a man to understand what it means.
Have a good day.

 

[fall]

I think the issue is much simpler. Notice how many SPs close their eyes and avoid eye contact? It is the intimacy issue. Touching face, like eye contact, is very intimate at emotional level. Much more intimate then sex. Kissing is intimate too, but some SPs tolerate it. However, SPs prefer to stay at "emotional distance" from their clients. And, despite they advertise GFE, they are not willing to offer emotional GFE, only a set of sex-related acronyms. So, when SP advertises GFE but refuses gentle touch of the face - she is lying in her advertising and does not provide the service she promised. Yes, she does not like it, but I think she is not very fond of having sex fro money either. There is nothing dangerous or sexually weird or humiliating in light touching of the face or gentle (without pushing) holding of a face just to be able to look at the eyes, or kissing. But SPs are not willing to offer such service because they are too intimate emotionally and it makes SP unable to clear her mind and just forget that someone having sex with her. It is OK, but if some SPs do it, please do not advertise your services as GFE as they are not.

 

[Beagle_]

Some morons, should learn when intimacy is appropriate. Dude is twilight zone weird lol.