The one thingg i asked .....
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Touching the face and hair. If that isn't allowed, it should be in the ad.
If it isn't allowed, I'd respect that... by seeing someone else. I mean fuck, why not require someone to wear military grade NBC gear while we are at it.
Also you are willing to take my dick in your mouth but not willing to accept a gentle stoke of your face with my hand? Sounds neurotic. I am sure make up is a reason, but it's part of the business. If a girl isn't willing to do up the make up again, I wonder if she is willing to shower between guys, I mean multiple showers a day gotta be rough on the skin.
Actually I prefer no make up, even if there are mild flaws.
An SP can put in any rule she or he wants and we can choose to see someone else. It's not like Free Speech where you are allowed apparently to force it on others and they should shut up and take it.
If it isn't allowed, I'd respect that... by seeing someone else. I mean fuck, why not require someone to wear military grade NBC gear while we are at it.
Also you are willing to take my dick in your mouth but not willing to accept a gentle stoke of your face with my hand? Sounds neurotic. I am sure make up is a reason, but it's part of the business. If a girl isn't willing to do up the make up again, I wonder if she is willing to shower between guys, I mean multiple showers a day gotta be rough on the skin.
Actually I prefer no make up, even if there are mild flaws.
An SP can put in any rule she or he wants and we can choose to see someone else. It's not like Free Speech where you are allowed apparently to force it on others and they should shut up and take it.
What difference does it make what her reasons are? It's a very simple request, easy to comply with and does not detract from any sexual services being offered.
It's called showing respect.
She "listed" it verbally the first time he did. She only ended the session when he repeatedly ignored her restriction. Putting it on her website would have made no difference.
Using the same line of thinking as you're doing, he should have listed his special requests when booking.
It doesnt make any difference what the reasons are and i would personally respect the decision if its an sp i wanted to see and it was one of her restrictions. I was asking moreso out of curioisity why so many sp's have this restriction of not touching the face or hair. I mean when there willing to have sex with you and blow you but then not allow you to touch their face. Its just a bid odd to me thats all.
There could be any number of reasons. xmontrealer gave one possibility.
Thats a logical explanation but i would hope an sp is touching up her makeup and taking a shower before every session regardless if a client touches her face or hair.
Agree that its taboo if your doing it with someone who you are just meeting for non intimate reasons but when both you and the sp know you are about to fuck is is still taboo especially while doing the deed?I'd say it's pretty Taboo.
How often do you meet someone and say "Hi, how are you? Let me touch your face!"
Seriously lol thanks for that. Just don't touch her face lol why people are bugging like that?! She doesn't even have to explain it's not the end of the world.
Some have sensitive skin that breaks out when you touch it with oily hands. Some doesn't want to mess their makeup. Others have had traumatic experience, violence ect. No is no.
Trust me, it's just a thing. There are lots of aspects of hair management that differ between Caucasians and Africans such that you just leave it alone.
I believe a good number are wearing wigs, or weaves and do not want them touched
Fair enough if you felt you had to end it. Nice of you to give the money back for the unspent time. But I'm just curious what the client's reaction was after each face touch and you reminding him. Was he apologetic at least?
Sometimes, if it's something a guy is very used to doing, it can be pretty hard to break those habits. So maybe it wasn't like he didn't respect the rule, more a reflex.
I have a friend who really doesn't like being called "baby". And that word is normally a go-to for me. So it was pretty hard to stop. The first time we had sex, there was probably a dozen "Fuck, baby" "that's so good, baby"'s thrown out, each followed by a quick "shit, I'm sorry", eventually escalating to "I'm very sorry, WHY CAN'T I STOP SAYING THAT!?". But I managed to overcome that habit the first day. Met up a few times since and apparently I'm cured.
I've also experienced that with SPs who don't allow kissing. In the heat of the moment, going in for a kiss out of habit, but they'll just turn their head at the last minute, I still always at least gave them an "Oh, right. I'm sorry. Force of habit".
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EXACTLY! Who cares why? She was cool when it initially happened , simply clarifying not to do it again. Baron von Douche Nozzle does it anyway. Perhaps she should have rammed a thumb up his poop chute during the foreplay without permission
Rules are to be followed but "does not detract from any sexual services being offered", seriously.
Well I suppose if you hire a girl to be your cum dumpster [with condom natch] sure, if you like a side order of intimacy with your coital activity then much not not allowing kissing it does detract. The sort of expectation that should be expressed up front in the ad.
If it isn't in her ad I'd hazard a guess it is because she knows it will drive away a lost of customers, if it's no big deal might as well list it.
We are talking the touching of the face, not elbow deep anal fisting.
Again rules are rules, either comply or GTFO but there is nothing wrong with wondering why.
I'm also just curious what type of face touching we're talking about. Was it like this totally non-awkward touching in the cinematic masterpiece Face/Off? Because I don't see why that would be annoying or uncomfortable at all.
Every Time They Brush A Hand Down A Face Or Say Face Off In Face Off - YouTube
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Don’t use porn as an example of how to behave.
Being polite & asking about boundaries is sexy.
Being polite & asking about boundaries is sexy.
Ok so I have extremely long hair. I have to brush it a zillion times a day. And for some clients, I have no problem with them touching it, pulling it, etc. but other clients I do. Why? Because they simply don’t know what they are doing. They pull too hard, they knot it up badly. It does not turn me on.
Others know exactly how to play with hair, and I love it.
So I’m not going to put in my ad not to touch my hair, but I will tell guys not to do it in a session, when they start doing it incorrectly. I am not about to spend time “teaching” how to pull hair probably. And for every woman it may be different.
It is the same with face touching. Some guys are sweet and will lightly brush the side of your face while giving a BBBJ. Some get all Hanzi ( is that a word?) and I get a finger in your eye, or fuck up your false lashes (which get expensive), Or as stated, they smear your make up. Some ladies spend a couple hours on make up getting ready. Smearing it is not a simple 5 mins touch up sometimes. Some guys think smearing making up is a sign of good sex. Just like gagging means you are giving a good blow job.
Sometimes it is just lack of technique and experience and with 30 mins, I don’t have time to correct you so it is better to just ask you to stop.
That is just some of the reasons. Maybe it is too intimate for the lady and she doesn’t want that. But who really cares why. Why do you really need to know why? Beside Curiosity which sorry but sometimes you just have to live with not knowing.
I can’t see how not being allow to touch an escorts face is somehow a “service” option. Like we need to add FT to our menu or restriction list now???? Come on guys. Don’t be silly here.
Others know exactly how to play with hair, and I love it.
So I’m not going to put in my ad not to touch my hair, but I will tell guys not to do it in a session, when they start doing it incorrectly. I am not about to spend time “teaching” how to pull hair probably. And for every woman it may be different.
It is the same with face touching. Some guys are sweet and will lightly brush the side of your face while giving a BBBJ. Some get all Hanzi ( is that a word?) and I get a finger in your eye, or fuck up your false lashes (which get expensive), Or as stated, they smear your make up. Some ladies spend a couple hours on make up getting ready. Smearing it is not a simple 5 mins touch up sometimes. Some guys think smearing making up is a sign of good sex. Just like gagging means you are giving a good blow job.
Sometimes it is just lack of technique and experience and with 30 mins, I don’t have time to correct you so it is better to just ask you to stop.
That is just some of the reasons. Maybe it is too intimate for the lady and she doesn’t want that. But who really cares why. Why do you really need to know why? Beside Curiosity which sorry but sometimes you just have to live with not knowing.
I can’t see how not being allow to touch an escorts face is somehow a “service” option. Like we need to add FT to our menu or restriction list now???? Come on guys. Don’t be silly here.
Maybe, but he did not know if there was restrictions. He might be new to the hobby. His fetish was touching the face.
When I meet a new SP, I spend a few minutes discussing the do's and do not for her and me.
I have a couple of fetishes that I discuss. If she says no, I respect that and keep it in mind.
It makes the date go smoother and more enjoyable without interruptions.
