tinder to bed
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when I was on Tinder, I wasn't looking for sex but almost every lady I meet we had sex on the first date - mostly initiated by them - one was supper upfront that she wasn't looking for sex and 2 hours in she had me in her bedroom. Lots of crazies on Tinder both male and female - good luck
You can target your searches on tinder by distance, and age range if I am not mistaken. I am 51, and didn’t want to seem creepy, so I only searched for girls 21-23. (How bad would it be for me to pick up a 19 yr old… am I right?)
In all seriousness… after two 6 month stints on the site, I never met a single girl. Beard turned white…. Not picture friendly. Not as many girls in Niagara with Santa fetish as you’d think. More popular areas would have done better… but Niagara sucked for me.
Thanks for the helpful info. I was thinking about joining, but I am also in your age group. Definitely do not want to waste time and effort.
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I haven't been on since 2018ish and was in my late 40's
I set my age range at first to 30 - 45 and area was Durham and York Region - I forget how it worked
I wasted lots of time messaging but was successful meeting some lovely ladies
I changed it once to 21 -45 and was surprised on a couple of mid 20's ladies that wanted to hook up.
It was exhausting and I finally gave up - I did meet one ladies who at the time was in her early 30's and we still meet up once a year for fun and I have a current GR so all is good.
Be honest and post a real picture if you have the time and energy you will meet some ladies.
Can you please elaborate on this? How does a female initiate sex? You guys meet in public and she just grabs you and goes, hey, let's grab a room?
Need more details thanks
different ways - but normally I would meet them somewhere public like a coffee shop or bar and they would say lets go back to my place or something excuse like that - one Asian Milf who was married said after one drink said lets get a room (She paid)
one lady that told me 100% not to expect sex met me for a drink after work around 5:00 p.m. and we hit it off so decided to go out for dinner - she wanted to go home and get changed. She suggested I follow her and then I can drive. I was like ok. We had to sneak in the back door and go up to her room because her sister was watching her kids - once in her room she got naked and we had sex. Then after she tried to convince me she never does that.
I have an older MILF that currently wants too hook up. We just started chatting yesterday.
I've had another MILF that wanted to hook up, she thought that I wasn't willing to pay for a room so she deleted me. I think I dodged a bullet there, as she seemed crazy. She also didn't have a very clear picture up.
There was one other girl that I was talking too, but it didn't go anywhere. She has two kids and she's a bit older, but I'd only bang her and not date her.
There's also a bunch of convo's that didn't go anywhere. These girls aren't serious.
Quite a bit of women say in their profile that they don't want "FWB."
I've had another MILF that wanted to hook up, she thought that I wasn't willing to pay for a room so she deleted me. I think I dodged a bullet there, as she seemed crazy. She also didn't have a very clear picture up.
There was one other girl that I was talking too, but it didn't go anywhere. She has two kids and she's a bit older, but I'd only bang her and not date her.
There's also a bunch of convo's that didn't go anywhere. These girls aren't serious.
Quite a bit of women say in their profile that they don't want "FWB."
thts the biggest lie that they say to themselves…i was banging this married girl who will give me hours of moral lecture about how loyal she expects her partner to be, how committed she is to her husband and all the bullshit while she is in my bed naked.
i am like yeahhh…u r right…now bend over for next round.
For crazy ones, you need to be clever and and record the BS convos on phone like JOhnny Depp, he's smart.
I've been thinking of giving Tinder a shot.
The way I see It, I can appeal to two groups, younger women who go for older guys because they're better in bed and women around my age who are divorced or have ended a LTR who aren't looking for anything serious.
The way I see It, I can appeal to two groups, younger women who go for older guys because they're better in bed and women around my age who are divorced or have ended a LTR who aren't looking for anything serious.
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Yeah, a lot of them are down for a quickie even if they say that they aren't lol.thts the biggest lie that they say to themselves…i was banging this married girl who will give me hours of moral lecture about how loyal she expects her partner to be, how committed she is to her husband and all the bullshit while she is in my bed naked.
i am like yeahhh…u r right…now bend over for next round.
I have a friend who's in his early 50s and is in the middle of his divorce. He's a mellowed, culturally sensitive-ish version of Don Cherry. He's doing great on Tinder in the 40s age bracket. The women look "appropriate" for their age, typically have kids, etc. and they are DTF. It seems that even if there isn't a 'match' personality-wise, the women still want to at least get fucked once before they part ways.
I was early 40's when I started so about 50% we younger then 35
How many pics did you have on your profile ? How many dates per week ?
