Who here has had this experience....?

[philandsararecordings]

SP: "You look so amazing"
PNSR: "Uh, right...thanks, these are new jeans"

SP: "No, you I mean. You're sexy"
PNSR: "I'm okay I guess..."

SP: "No really, you're totally my type"
PNSR: "Okay..."

SP: "We should totally go out sometime."
PNSR:"I don't think that's going to happen. I know you're just doing your job and I'm okay with that."

SP: "Seriously, let's go out. Do you like Indian Food? I know a place. We can go on the weekend"
PNSR: "I do...but you really don't have to say all that - I understand this is your job and everything, you're gorgeous and I'll book you regardless."

SP: "Let me text you so you can have my number. Call me anytime..."
PNSR: "uh, all right"

**The next weekend**

PNSR by text: "Heya, you free for Indian Food"
SP: "Who is this"

PNSR: "It's Phil. You said I could text you? ...we were going to go out for Indian Food?"
-- No reply --


**A few days later at 6:20pm, 20min into SP's posted shift**

SP: "hey hun....miss you so much. Please come see me"

 

[jonboy1]

Did you bring Indian food?

 

[Velvets]

Lol … it’s all business for them. 99% of the time she’s saying the same thing to a bunch of other guys. That way you like her and you want to go see her more often.
Don’t fall for it. Sometimes they even give you a wrong number so you go back thinking it was a mistake. It’s just a game for some of them.
You have a better chance buying a lottery ticket.

 

[just chris]

That is fucked...

 

[Moneyclutch]

The number she gave most likely her handler. Just wait for the text where she asks you to "bail her out" for $40 by etransfer

 

[glamphotographer]

I've had something similar, yes. I knew she was playing me to visit her more often to bleed my bank account.

 

[bazokajoe]

Escorts, strippers, it's the same game.

 

[pusher69]

I've had this happen, but the conclusion was the total opposite of PNSR's experience....although most go down the route the same as PNSR the first couple of times, but now I know how to sniff out genuine vs. BS.

The current lady (over 4 years now), we have gone out for dinners, drinks, hangout, etc...(either I cover the tab, we split or sometimes she will cover it) and she has become almost like a FWB now.

 

[NotTheCatThatYouLike]

I don't think that such behaviour is SP specific. Some women want to be desirable, so they would flirt with a man and then ghost him, just to see how he tries to crawl back to them. Nothing new.

 

[Boss Nass]

Had that with a stripper many moons ago. Anyone else remember the legendary Oriental Express? Gave me her number, and when I called it was like "uh, noooo... I'm really busy..." But every time I walked into a club she was at she would come flying from across the room and kidnap me for an hour. Weird.

 

[philandsararecordings]

The above is what happened with 2 SPs over the course of months.

Obviously, not exactly....I'm sure both girls have a much different side of the story but I actually feel what they did was much worse.

Now I think they weren't even aware of how bad they were messing with me.

It's like the more I told them it was bs, the more they would tell me it was real until I broke and believed them. Then when I text them (at their request) or ask them out on dates that they suggested in the first place, they have no idea who I am/don't reply.

...if you wanna keep it business, that's fine. Just dont lead me on.

 

[ExpCharlee]

Not to sound like a pick me, but....this is kinda tasteless tbh. I always make sure my clients know that our relationship is professional, but within that I will definitely admit to crushes, call them handsome when I find them that way, etc. I dunno. All the power to whoever's hustle but I think to some guys this could be really emotionally damaging.

 

[jesfrankhe]

I have had a SP ask me out for lunch after sex actually. I was hungry anyway.... So , we had lunch.... . And I didn't have to pay her by the way. I payed my food, she payed hers...

And most importantly, she left me alone after that.

But the situation the TS talking about is just wrong...

 

[philandsararecordings]

Did you bring Indian food?

I'm such an easy mark, I'm dumb enough to do that.

I actually told them both off and I regret that because I'll never see either of them again. Especially one in particular, man...she was amazing but I got emotional about it.

Wish I could have controlled my emotions better: 1. Not get attached. 2. Not have told her off. I guess they are related...and I'm only human.

If I didn't tell off one girl, I could still pay a few hundred bucks, grab her by the pigtails and DT her as hard as I could. I'll miss her dearly.

You live and learn.

 

[Jasmina]

This. Huge pet peeve of mine in the biz was watching other providers pull that kind of nonsense, there is a term for that, "taking hostages".

Not to sound like a pick me, but....this is kinda tasteless tbh. I always make sure my clients know that our relationship is professional, but within that I will definitely admit to crushes, call them handsome when I find them that way, etc. I dunno. All the power to whoever's hustle but I think to some guys this could be really emotionally damaging.

 

[poker]

I was maybe 19…. Me and my buddy were at Mints…. Pervert row. The lovely young entertainer was going down the line guy by guy offering an up close and personal view of the goods. She got to me, and told me I was fucking gorgeous… I froze. She said “say something…”. I said thank you…. She said she could see herself dating me. I booked her for about 6 straight private dances… and she just kept blowing sunshine up my ass.

I went on a little ego trip, and my buddy talked me into approaching her when they were shutting down. As I began to swagger over, she made eye contact… and promptly walked away as if I didn’t exist.

And that’s how learned about strippers.

 

[philandsararecordings]

The number she gave most likely her handler. Just wait for the text where she asks you to "bail her out" for $40 by etransfer

I heard it was potential sugar babies who need "$40 for uber to come see you right now."

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

Women are great actresses by nature. SPs are the very best of them. It's up to you to understand that it's all business all the time.

 

[poker]

Now…. Just to balance things. The girls in the industry are real people too. They have lives, and families… and yes, sometimes they meet people they like, even while at work. Truthfully… treating an SP like normal human being goes a long way.

I briefly dated an SP. Never wanted a thing from me. And while it was off the charts lunacy otherwise…. She was quite a charming girl.

So don’t paint every girl with same brush.

 

[Butler1000]

Cripes its commonplace. Especially with Strippers wanting your number. No way no thanks. That was a red flag for me not respecting boundries. And trouble in the future.