If I was the guy I'd be a little miffed at having my search history investigated and definitely pissed at someone looking through my personal cell phone numbers. Don't get pissed if you find something you don't like when snooping.
And I don't know if she is going to stay with him.. I think cause he treats her so good and they DO have agood sex life given the occassional refusal on his part... she doesn't want to believe the obvious. I think that is why she is leaning towards the posts in this thread that say he may be BI (which she can handle) or just exploring...elmo said:Is your GF hot? Review?
I've known more than a few women who are very turned on at the idea of watching / directing 2 guys together. It's a huge taboo in our society. On the taboo scale - a guy getting 2 women together and directing / watching them is about a 2. A woman getting 2 guys together and directing them is about a 9.Catherine said:She came to the last terb party.. she was the tall skinny blonde.
And I don't know if she is going to stay with him.. I think cause he treats her so good and they DO have agood sex life given the occassional refusal on his part... she doesn't want to believe the obvious. I think that is why she is leaning towards the posts in this thread that say he may be BI (which she can handle) or just exploring...
I just hope she's going to make the right decision...
Cat
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Catherine said:I posted before regarding this...
I would like total honesty...if you dont mind... and this thread won't be kept on for long...just like the first one, which BTW.. I thank you for your candid answers. (I just dont want to get caught posting this...)
But I first posted a question about whether or not it was normal for a guy (in early 20's) to explore his sexuality, and to explore the 'gay porn sites.. etc...
2 days after seeing his search history (of searching gay sites) I find on my redail list a # for the 'Cruiseline' for gay men. I then try to set up an account (to catch him) but my # has already been used for a free account. Which only he could have set up as he was the only person there.
i THEN SEARCHED HIS CELL PHONE AND FOUND THE SAME #'S
I KNOW he is actively screwing women and telling at least one of them (me) that he loves her. He says he can't live without me, and that I am PERFECT for him. He has constant anger outbursts with his family and friends (which I always run and console him over) and he is a major 'macho head' He constantly jacks off and confides in me the amount of times, and if I think thats normal...
I want to NOT believe he is gay... or bisexual... But I know he has contacted a shemale to call him when she was available... and then this and the gay porn search....
Maybe he is attracted to the male intense sexuality.... (he is VERY emotionally sensitive to intense feelings..)
What is this...
Is he GAY? Should I be worried???
Catherine
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I am sorry if you feel so hurt by this.... I HAVE TO ADMIT... I liked using the anomininity that I got with the situation not being mine, but with me posting such as. And I AM SO SORRY you feel jipped. BUT I TRUELY am being HONEST when I say that my GF has gotten SO MUCH USEFUL INFO from this thread and she is NOTICEABLY HAPPIER! And I am sorry... but seeing that... I FEEL it makes it all worth it....Hurricane Hank said:Next post she will explain that it's actually a friend of a friend, and not the mysterious skinny blonde at the terb party.
The 4th post will let us know that it is really just research for a school paper Catherine is doing.
It's her, he's gay. No homo.
Even though this is for the most part an anonymous board, I know I don't want people to think I'm a liar.BallzDeep said:I never understood why anyone cared if it was you or not, who the fuck cares, shows you how nosy people really are.
This was very good advice...It's time to confront him if you are uncomfortable with the apparent situation. Quite likely he is ashamed at his desires bit since he proclaims his love for you he should be able to confide in you. If he can't confide in you then you know that the relationship is doomed anyways and it is time to remove yourself from which will be more denials and termoil in your not to distant future. In short all successful relationships are based on trust. If he wants to be with you he will explain his behaviour because lets face it you of all people will be able empathize with him. Hope this helps.
This was very good advice...
Dying to find out what happened now.