What’s with all the attitude by SP’s

[Scorpio1971]

Hi there

I was just wondering what’s with all the attitude with SP’s.
I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude and has anyone noticed there hourly rates went up!

 

[rachel2016]

If someone is rude in their inquiry, why should we be polite back? We don't want to see clients that can't even show basic levels of respect through text. If someone is that rude through text, they'll treat us like shit in person.

If your message is respectful and tactful, you'll get a good reply. If not, we'll make you feel like the fool you are.
You get what you give.

 

[Akila Besos]

SP's aren't rude

If someone asks a foolish question that is bluntly posted on ones website/Twitter or whatever. Why should they be forced to repeat themselves

SPs deal with alot of bs from men on a daily basis who sometimes lie about a booking and never show up.

Also so what if rates have increased . Demand drives up the price sir .

 

[jcpro]

Get used to it. You are now on the fringes of the society and normal rules only apply rarely. If you want to avoid the hassle, find yourself a couple of regulars who will be nice to you when you contact them.

 

[shack]

If someone is rude in their inquiry, why should we be polite back? We don't want to see clients that can't even show basic levels of respect through text. If someone is that rude through text, they'll treat us like shit in person.

If your message is respectful and tactful, you'll get a good reply. If not, we'll make you feel like the fool you are.
You get what you give.

OP states that he has received rude replies which means that you automatically assume that he was rude in his initial enquiry.

Your accusatory post helps to make his point.

 

[rachel2016]

OP states that he has received rude replies which means that you automatically assume that he was rude.

Your accusatory post helps to make his point.

The tone of his post was pretty clear. While I understand that this is a business, and many clients expect to be treated with kid gloves, the reality is that we are people too and can understand nuance and tone and have every right to respond how we choose. If someone is getting rude responses across the board, they have not been putting their best foot forward. Sometimes it's necessary to firmly remind someone of that, this is one of those times.

 

[Jenesis]

Hi there

I was just wondering what’s with all the attitude with SP’s.
I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude and has anyone noticed there hourly rates went up!

Without context, there is not much I personally can comment on.

I don’t think it is fair to just label all SP‘s as having attitude. There are hundreds of us and many of us are not rude.

How were you contacting them? How did the conversation go? What did you ask? Did you follow the prefered contact method of the SP? Did you read all of her ad where a question you may have asked would have already been asnwered? Was it text or email? How many SP‘s did you contact that gave you ”attitude”?

We just need more info to be able to properly comment.

 

[GGGDickson]

Hi there

I was just wondering what’s with all the attitude with SP’s.
I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude and has anyone noticed there hourly rates went up!

Not all SP's are rude. It might be because of the situation they find themselves in right now. A lot of chatter but little in terms of guys showing up.

To be honest I think it has always been that way with many of the younger ladies. When I reach out to them they often don't believe what I offer. I now stay with those who have an interest. I only see well respected older mature providers. I like it when they are new to the business as they are not too cynical. my experience you are often getting what the lady just received by the joker before you. I have been told this last year has been hard and many of my regular providers are hunkered down awaiting the pandemic to be over. Some have no choice and they are easy prey for the hyenas often referred to as time wasters or worse.

On the rates it is supply and demand. Few SPs working so the ones who risk their health for your pleasure will charge more.

Hang in there and keep searching and when you find a good one hang on to her. The others who treat you like dirty move on. There are greener pastures out there.

Good luck.

 

[Jenesis]

Not all SP's are rude. It might be because of the situation they find themselves in right now. A lot of chatter but little in terms of guys showing up.

To be honest I think it has always been that way with many of the younger ladies. When I reach out to them they often don't believe what I offer. I now stay with those who have an interest. I only see well respected older mature providers. I like it when they are new to the business as they are not too cynical. my experience you are often getting what the lady just received by the joker before you. I have been told this last year has been hard and many of my regular providers are hunkered down awaiting the pandemic to be over. Some have no choice and they are easy prey for the hyenas often referred to as time wasters or worse.

On the rates it is supply and demand. Few SPs working so the ones who risk their health for your pleasure will charge more.

Hang in there and keep searching and when you find a good one hang on to her. The others who treat you like dirty move on. There are greener pastures out there.

Good luck.

I have heard it is a nightmare out there for ladies. So many low ballers taking advantage of survival sex workers who had no choice but to work during the pandemic.

 

[shack]

The tone of his post was pretty clear. While I understand that this is a business, and many clients expect to be treated with kid gloves, the reality is that we are people too and can understand nuance and tone and have every right to respond how we choose. If someone is getting rude responses across the board, they have not been putting their best foot forward. Sometimes it's necessary to firmly remind someone of that, this is one of those times.

I'll admit that his compositional skills may not be Nobel worthy, but I didn't pick up as much of an accusatory tone from his post that I felt from the responses from the SPs.

Again, I have no idea if his enquiries were or were not rude. I have made no assumptions because there's not enough info, unlike the SPs in this thread who seem to know for sure.

 

[Leimonis]

Hi there

I was just wondering what’s with all the attitude with SP’s.
I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude and has anyone noticed there hourly rates went up!

and yet they manage somehow! a mystery!

 

[Jenesis]

.... unlike the SPs in this thread who seem to know for sure.

HEY! I said we need more info.......LOL

I got the impression he is frustrated and was rushing his posts. That was the vibe I got. Not nessarily rude in OP.

 

[Jasmina]

Keep in mind SPs deal with it all day every day. We can usually sus out a negative tone/signal even through text faster than the average bear. And this guy has all that going on.

I'll admit that his compositional skills may not be Nobel worthy, but I didn't pick up as much of an accusatory tone from his post that I felt from the responses from the SPs.

Again, I have no idea if his enquiries were or were not rude. I have made no assumptions because there's not enough info, unlike the SPs in this thread who seem to know for sure.

 

[Akila Besos]

We are answering this post rather politely imo and if the op disagrees with what is being stated he is more then welcome to correct it

But the way he labelled the title is rather hmm how shall i say this a huge ass general statement lumping all sps together.

When we are all individuals and ones tolerance for time wasters/bs can vary greatly

 

[richaceg]

The tone of his post was pretty clear. While I understand that this is a business, and many clients expect to be treated with kid gloves, the reality is that we are people too and can understand nuance and tone and have every right to respond how we choose. If someone is getting rude responses across the board, they have not been putting their best foot forward. Sometimes it's necessary to firmly remind someone of that, this is one of those times.

wrong...which part of his post was pretty clear...you and your BS again on these boards...you're the most "anti-client" SW if there is one...

 

[shack]

HEY! I said we need more info.......LOL

I got the impression he is frustrated and was rushing his posts. That was the vibe I got. Not nessarily rude in OP.

I wasn't talking about you. I believe that we were composing our posts concurrently. We were only a minute or two apart.

 

[shack]

We are answering this post rather politely imo and if the op disagrees with is being stated he is more then welcome to correct it

But the way he labelled the title is rather hmm how shall i say this a huge ass general statement lumping all sps together.

When we are all individuals and ones tolerance for time wasters/bs can vary greatly

Reasonable post. I may get all tied up in knots if I attempt to respond.

 

[Leimonis]

Hi there

I was just wondering what’s with all the attitude with SP’s.
I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude and has anyone noticed there hourly rates went up!

I was just wondering what's with the attitude with women out there.

I would inquire and they reply rude. How do you expect to see. Men if your rude.

Also, anyone knows where can I rent a van for a day?

 

[richaceg]

Keep in mind SPs deal with it all day every day. We can usually sus out a negative tone/signal even through text faster than the average bear. And this guy has all that going on.

I'm pretty sure dealing with hundreds of inquiries can enhance your people skills and reading "subconscious messages" out of it...didn't see it on his initial post" but like "not all SPs are rude" how about you also consider "not all clients are dicks"?

 

[rachel2016]

you and your BS again on these boards...you're the most "anti-client" SW if there is one...

It's okay to not like me, but it's unhealthy to follow me around and attack me every time I say something. Please move on.