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On the topic of not paying or short changing, I think it is more considered fraud but feels more like a sexual assault. I don't know the legality. While I would hate to see an escort go through it, I would love see a case like this come in front of judges to finally make an actual ruling on it. But based on this being a business, I lean more to legally being the fraud side.

As for the video, there is lots that are true but there is a certain "attitude" behind it I don't agree with. There is a way you can say things that get your point across better.

I know this is coming from me who will tell someone to fuck off at the drop of a dime but I'm not making informative videos.

But having said all that, if you just wrote out what she said in rules, I think everyone would agree with them. And having said all this, I will be getting my sisterhood card revoked.
Thank you Jessica! This is exactly my point: no matter what SP feels like or believe is moral, non-paying is not a rape from the legal perspective. I am not sure if it is a theft or a fraud, and I am not sure if it is a criminal or a civil matter. My guess, if the client had an intend not to pay even prior to booking the session, it is a criminal (fraud or theft, but definitely not sexual assault), while if he decided after the fact (e.g., he believes SP did not fulfil her end of the bargain) - it is civil matter. It may be hard to prove the intention in court, but recurrent occurrences or the absent of cash on hands is a strong evidence of intent.

And about the video: common sense points (except avoiding specific questions about services - but it may be U.S. flavor where SPs are also breaking the law), but it is presented with such bad attitude that, instead of simply providing clients valuable information, it makes clients say "f**k you with your attitude. So, maybe a message to some SPs: leave show your attitude to your boyfriend, but be sweat, nice and attentive to your clients, and regular clients will like you.
 

John Wick

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Where did you get your imaginary law degree from? Or are you a real estate lawyer?
Oagre is not a real lawyer. He just plays one on the internet.
 

John Wick

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Apparently, you'd be shocked at how many of us have ivy league educations.
Yes I would in fact be shocked at how many escorts are graduates of US Ivy League schools, particularly Canadian escorts. Just for the record, these are the 'Ivy League' schools:

Brown University
Columbia University
Cornell University
Dartmouth College
Harvard University
Princeton University
University of Pennsylvania
Yale University

Based on your comment, I find it hard to believe you even understand what it takes to be accepted at an Ivy League school, let alone graduate from one. And if you did, you took that platinum degree that opens virtually any door in business and....became a prostitute instead? Uh-huh. :rolleyes:
 

John Wick

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You don’t need a law degree to grasp legal & moral concepts.
This kind of thinking is why there are so many 'lawyers' out there offering such great legal advice and opinions for free on the internet.
 

Samranchoi

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Surprise Surprise, nothing wrong with the messages she was getting across. She could have just left out the term “rape” but that is how she thinks. I like her last part about “not selling her body” but “selling a service”. Unfortunately, some guys think the former is true. Her message is most likely directed to 10 to 20% of actual clients who see SP’s but based upon guys here, the complete opposite, 80 to 90%. Lol
 

John Henry

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On the topic of not paying or short changing, I think it is more considered fraud but feels more like a sexual assault. I don't know the legality. While I would hate to see an escort go through it, I would love see a case like this come in front of judges to finally make an actual ruling on it. But based on this being a business, I lean more to legally being the fraud side.

As for the video, there is lots that are true but there is a certain "attitude" behind it I don't agree with. There is a way you can say things that get your point across better.

I know this is coming from me who will tell someone to fuck off at the drop of a dime but I'm not making informative videos.

But having said all that, if you just wrote out what she said in rules, I think everyone would agree with them. And having said all this, I will be getting my sisterhood card revoked.
+ 1 Well written
 

John Henry

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And about the video: common sense points (except avoiding specific questions about services - but it may be U.S. flavor where SPs are also breaking the law), but it is presented with such bad attitude that, instead of simply providing clients valuable information, it makes clients say "f**k you with your attitude. So, maybe a message to some SPs: leave show your attitude to your boyfriend, but be sweat, nice and attentive to your clients, and regular clients will like you.
LOL . If I had a girlfriend with an attitude she wouldn't be one for long . It would be see you later honey .
 

Smallcock

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I like her last part about “not selling her body” but “selling a service”. Unfortunately, some guys think the former is true.
How about 'body access sex rental service'?
 

John Henry

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Yes I would in fact be shocked at how many escorts are graduates of US Ivy League schools, particularly Canadian escorts. Just for the record, these are the 'Ivy League' schools:

Brown University
Columbia University
Cornell University
Dartmouth College
Harvard University
Princeton University
University of Pennsylvania
Yale University

Based on your comment, I find it hard to believe you even understand what it takes to be accepted at an Ivy League school, let alone graduate from one. And if you did, you took that platinum degree that opens virtually any door in business and....became a prostitute instead? Uh-huh. :rolleyes:
Good point . The doors that are open with an Ivy League degree and she becomes an escort . The thousands of dollars spent and the time that is required to get an education like that and the result is being becoming an escort . Yea OK . LOL
 

Robert Mugabe

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Where did you get your imaginary law degree from? Or are you a real estate lawyer?

If we apply the same logic of "having sex based on the contract that you did not want to fulfil is rape" then consider an SP who promises full hour session but never intended to give it and she asked the guy to leave after 30 minutes. Now, she had sex with the client according to the contract that she now broke (and, in fact, never intended to fulfil), so, by your definition, she raped the guy. Legally, I see no difference between "shorting on time" and "shorting on money" both are breaking a contract, both, most probably, planed before entering into a contracts. So, either both are rapes or none are.
You get there. You tear a $100.00 bill in half and hand one half to her. Tell her she gets the other half when the job is done. Problem solved.
 

JackBurton

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Good point . The doors that are open with an Ivy League degree and she becomes an escort . The thousands of dollars spent and the time that is required to get an education like that and the result is being becoming an escort . Yea OK . LOL
Right there with you.

Finishing school is just a new starting point. No employer cares about if you went to an Ivy League school. The only thing it’s good for is the fraternity of business individuals to network.

Even so, I’ve seen many colleagues come and go who had done the UCC/McGill/somewhere for a post grad who feel entitled to run the company as soon as they get their first job.

They are either gone in 6 months or are humbled at how hard the work is, in my field. Pulling core samples from the shield is the starting part of the gig and career. That’s how it goes.

All you really need to succeed is a driving work ethic and the willingness to say yes to all the jobs thrown at you even if they aren’t in your field of specialty.
 

FlorenceYi

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I actually would love to see a response video or post/article/blog with the title 'How to Treat Clients' that is not retaliative or vindictive in nature. Just for pure information for swers who are interested to avoid leaving clients feeling taken advantage of, regardless of price point, branding, sw philosophy. I think there are untold stories on both sides that if made more clear, we could work together to harmonize this service and profession so that it is safer and more enjoyable/trusting on both sides...

What I'm talking about is misplaced defensiveness or anger for certain behaviours on either side due to lack of understanding of why that happens and what are the triggers for those behaviours or thoughts, again on either side. I know as a swer for many years that there are so many things behind the scenes that go on that most people don't know and we keep to ourselves - the moment any swer complains on a public outlet, it is flagged and discussed about and she is made to look crazy, when in reality it could be a reflection of a real underlying problem that can be easily resolved with information exchange and education. I'm sure the same is true on the other side - misunderstandings abound.
 

Lovely_Lovelynn

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That's an insult to the many women out there that are married . Millions of loving wives fuck their husbands every week . Just because you get paid to open your legs doesn't make you special . Many men love their wives but need something different once in a while . That's what you provide . Something different .

Many wives help raise their kids . Do all kinds of work around the house . Take care of their families . What do you do . Provide a few places for a guy to stick his dick in . Wow . That's really special .

Not all men run to an escort . Many men lead a happy life with their families and that includes their wife . You just see the ones that aren't happy .

Your wife doesn't fuck you any more . Maybe men should find out why that is . They should look in the mirror and see what their wife see's .

You have no idea what goes on between a husband and a wife behind the scenes . You only hear the one side . The side that puts money in your pocket . Well at least it did before .

Right now the escort market is at an end . Who's standing on the outside looking in . It sure as hell not the wife is it .

HOW SPECIAL ARE YOU NOW ?
Get off your high horse, you sound pathetic.

If you were getting so much great pussy and were so happy with your wife, why are you in this board?

LOL

Business is booming btw.

Shows how much you know.
 

Lovely_Lovelynn

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It amazes me how many escorts think that it's not nonstop service . The guy pays for a hour doesn't he . He's not paying to sit and talk for most of the session . If you get your car repaired and the mechanic only worked on it for 15 mins are you happy that he charges you for a full hour job .

Sometimes a mechanic can fix a car in a few minutes yet the book says that he should charge for a 2 hour job . Are you happy with that ?

I guess you are happy paying for time and service that you didn't get . Besides is there an escort blue book that states no nonstop service for 1 hour or is that something escorts love to say because it suits their purpose .
You’re really taking the lead as the biggest moron on Terb.

Mechanics don’t charge by the hour, they charge by the job and for the parts.

IDK where your hate for women comes from, but you should do some internal work and get to the route of it.

Who hurt you?

LOL

Incel in the making
 

Lovely_Lovelynn

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Any other SPs would like to chime in? Thus far in this thread we've heard from one retired SP (Jasmina) and two that are working during covid-19 (sweetiepie - who doesn't see black clients but likes to call other people racist, and LovelyLynn who is running steep discounts and removed all screening requirements).

All three, and oagre, are very special in their own way. But are they representative?
I’m allowed to run my business however the fuck I choose, work whenever I feel like it, charge whatever the fuck I want, and require or waive screening at my discretion.

Who are you?

A nobody.

You guys talk a big talk behind a handle, with your fake emails and burner numbers.

Last time I checked, I’m doing a good job as an escort.

I have nothing but impeccable reviews, was nominated as Toronto’s Best SP of 2019, and continue to stay busy and relevant in this city/industry.

Not to toot my own horn, but I think I earned my right to have an opinion on this forum.

What are you, a professional Terb Member and Lounge poster?

LOL!
 

Smallcock

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What are you, a professional Terb Member and Lounge poster?

LOL!
I earned this! Show some respect! Happy to hear business is booming and clients are taking advantage of your lower rates. Covid Power!
 

chodge

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You’re really taking the lead as the biggest moron on Terb.

Mechanics don’t charge by the hour, they charge by the job and for the parts.

IDK where your hate for women comes from, but you should do some internal work and get to the route of it.

Who hurt you?

LOL

Incel in the making
Most Mechanics Have an hourly rate posted in the office They Charge an hourly rate for the labor to fix the car Plus parts are added on top . They will charge you the full hour of work most times when the work sometimes does not even take the full amount of time .
 

Lovely_Lovelynn

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Of course, because you don't have bad reviews deleted or anything of the sort.
Having a slanderous post removed from a psycho old regular who was butt hurt because I wouldn’t see him off the clock for coffee and was mad that I’m dating someone does not count as a bad review, try again.

Listen to you idiots!

Trying to justify ripping off escorts by not paying, abusing them, treating them like pieces of meat meant to meet all your demands, as if they aren’t human beings.

You hate women!

Why are you on here?

This is a review board. Meant to review your experiences, and find recommendations.

Head over to Incel.

Thats where you belong.

You have no business being on here, you don’t know how to interact with women, period.
 

luvyeah

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Having a slanderous post removed from a psycho old regular who was butt hurt because I wouldn’t see him off the clock for coffee and was mad that I’m dating someone does not count as a bad review, try again.

Listen to you idiots!

Trying to justify ripping off escorts by not paying, abusing them, treating them like pieces of meat meant to meet all your demands, as if they aren’t human beings.

You hate women!

Why are you on here?

This is a review board. Meant to review your experiences, and find recommendations.

Head over to Incel.

Thats where you belong.

You have no business being on here, you don’t know how to interact with women, period.
Good luck with your smoke screen.
You have a history of attacking anyone who leaves an unfavorable review, but good on you for cherry picking one single event.
Out of curiosity let me know how much you pay to delete comments here too.

Where is Incel anyways, you seem to know a lot about it?
Do you have directions?
 
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