We all know that women aren't willing to take risks.
It's a men's job.
I think we agree on the core point, and I may have miscommunicated / misread. Often I've seen BB** people making an argument that goes like, "There's risk to everything, so fuck it, don't worry about it.", and I thought you were going there. So yeah, people need to make informed choices about risks and potential consequences independently of what some other person is saying (especially if you don't ACTUALLY know that other person in a 'real' kind of way).How? As already been pointed out, you cannot simply trust the word of what could, for all you know, be a disgruntled ex client, non-client who DIDNT get bbfs, ex boyfriend (happens more than you know), etc, etc.
And just because a provider is NOT listed on the bbfs boards, doesn't equally mean she is clean. That's a ridiculous idea. My point being, you are taking that risk with ANY call you make.
In NSW in Australia, where legal brothel workers are required by law to get frequent government health checks (like monthly), found low rates of sti's in the ladies...lower than general population. But when a working lady did get one, 90% of the time she got it from her BF. And of course you can understand how...she allows bare w him, he goes out and about...well, you know the rest.This is a very risky hobby. We've all been exposed to so many providers who do BBFS with their BF's or casual partners outside the biz. Then you have the clients who do BBFS with their wives or SO or casual partners. And of course who's to say the sex partners of providers and clients are being faithful? Then you have BBFS between clients and providers but on a smaller scale.
It makes me wonder why more people do not have STD's with all the BBFS going on in world.
Yes you can, but it seems to me in this day and age people would rather come online and express to a bunch of strangers how outraged they are. About everything. Even though nobody cares.You can simply say "No".
If the condom breaks, it’s rape?Raping. The word you are looking for is raping women. That is what "stealthing" is.
I like to use real terms instead of light hearted ones. Stealthing sounds cool. Raping does not.
As for the requests for BBFS, I have found that since I don't post a number in my ads and contact can only be made via forms on my websites, I don't get requests for them. I don't get pressure from anyone actually. I will knock on wood and consider myself lucky. I would be disheartened if I got that request a lot.
You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAOIts not just prevalent, its rampant. Always has and probably always will - you just don't hear about this underside of the business.
I joined a bbfs forum awhile ago for the specific reason of knowing who to avoid. It was shocking how many well known agency and indy SPs were listed. Of course, you have to take those reviews with a grain of salt and its all hearsay, but I have known a few regulars who told me first hand how many requests they get including the pressure from regulars. Makes you wonder. One lady who advertised on eros in NYC (now retired) told me it was almost always expected which is why many high-end ladies charge those exorbitant rates. It's unfortunate that this industry is driven by risk vs. reward with the risks to your health simply being too high. Be safe people.
Shit that's a guy?You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAO
https://twitter.com/SimonWinters77/status/1207424743663685634
I use to think the same but he's a dude, without a man card but a dude.Shit that's a guy?
I thought it was an SP, just the way he talks!
That just broke my record for the most pathetic man I know.I use to think the same but he's a dude, without a man card but a dude.
You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAO
https://twitter.com/SimonWinters77/status/1207424743663685634
Shit that's a guy?
I thought it was an SP, just the way he talks!
I use to think the same but he's a dude, without a man card but a dude.
That just broke my record for the most pathetic man I know.
I thought soy boys were just a meme.
______ sounds like a poster on Twitter whose screen name escapes me at the moment. That dudes whole MO is to praise anything and everything SP's ask for, and do and his posts are constantly over the top. The dude even blocks SP's who disagree with him.
I'll update this post when the name comes to me, I might have to log in to twitter to figure out what his screen name is.
Found the guy
https://twitter.com/The6ixGentleman/...422167040?s=20
How else would one get attention? Wrong board to be asking members to pool together a public shame list over some random texts. Would you publicly shame clients if they do something you not like too? There’s the high rate girls for you.Yes you can, but it seems to me in this day and age people would rather come online and express to a bunch of strangers how outraged they are. About everything. Even though nobody cares.
A quick glance through those tweets and its painfully obvious that nobody is even reading/responding to them. So some beta loser posts a bunch of lame shit, and nobody sees it. What's the point?You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAO
https://twitter.com/SimonWinters77/status/1207424743663685634
You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAO
https://twitter.com/SimonWinters77/status/1207424743663685634
______ sounds like a poster on Twitter whose screen name escapes me at the moment. That dudes whole MO is to praise anything and everything SP's ask for, and do and his posts are constantly over the top. The dude even blocks SP's who disagree with him.
I'll update this post when the name comes to me, I might have to log in to twitter to figure out what his screen name is.
Found the guy
https://twitter.com/The6ixGentleman/...422167040?s=20
A quick glance through those tweets and its painfully obvious that nobody is even reading/responding to them. So some beta losers posts a bunch of lame shit, and nobody sees it. What's the point?
This is some good humour.You triggered our board lurker who went running to his queen and twitter to complain, coward. LMAO
https://twitter.com/SimonWinters77/status/1207424743663685634
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When done on purpose, without consent of the partner, yes it is.If the condom breaks, it’s rape?