Not really try to learn to use the quote function lol
Pretty sad this feature of the board went over your head but you left the proof for all to see
RANT: BBFS inquiries - who are these losers??
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Pretty sad this feature of the board went over your head but you left the proof for all to see
Differ on what???
I said no such thing in Criminal Code as a charge of Rape
You quoted the fact it is not a charge since early 80s
Those 2 facts co-exist so what are you disagreeing about???
So, your argument is that with a pro, since the sex you’re having is illegal anyway, it can’t be rape even if you do things that she explicitly told you not to do? Ok. Also, pointing out that “rape hasn’t been a crime for decades” is pedantic and silly. They just changed the terminology. It’s still the same thing. It’s like arguing that the SkyDome no longer physically exists because they renamed it. And no woman has ever told a guy they have to wear a condom? You understand we’re having this debate because a sex worker literally said there are guys who try to take condoms off after being told they need to wear one? I guess you don’t count sex workers as women, since you only seem to care about what applies to “civies”.
Just want to reiterate here: Teejay just stated that he essentially thinks it’s fine to rape sex workers because the sex you’re having is already illegal so you won’t get in trouble for the rape.
How do you remember to breathe?
Holy fucking shit. A Sex Worker can still be raped, I was really hoping that is common sense but it appears it is not to some. Also when a women tells you to do or not do something (i.e. wear a condomn) and you dont without their consent it is rape whether with a civy or with a pro as you call them.
In the eyes of the law as you say im sure hiring an escort and raping one is treated differently.
I feel very sorry for you and the girls that have to tolerate shit like this.
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Holy shit I just read TeeJays post... fucking scary.
Thank you Ben19 and Grimnul. Your perspectives are much appreciated.
Thank you Ben19 and Grimnul. Your perspectives are much appreciated.
Teejay consistently manages to make the dumbest, most ignorant posts on a forum that boasts such luminaries of idiocy as Big Sleazy and Crimson Mire. It’s honestly rather impressive. Really, I just wanted to make sure to point out, in plain language, exactly what he said so that any SP who looks up his terb handle will know about his... shaky relationship with consent issues. I’ve explained this stuff to him many times, it’s really not a difficult concept. If a woman, SP or otherwise, tells you not to do something in bed (or wherever it is you happen to enjoy getting down) and you do that thing, that is a nonconsensual sexual act. That is rape. Period. He seems to disagree.
Just something to consider for any SP perhaps perusing his post history at some point in the future.
Its nothing we need thanking for its common sense. 99% of people dont agree that raping a SW is okay but some guys here say shit like that. Then there are the users that are pathological in their conspiracy. There is also the group that if you dont agree with what they think girls should do would go to the extent of doxing. All this is thanks to the anonymity of the internet, its no shock. Its best to ignore these people but when someone is essentially saying raping sex workers is okay or spreading misinformation about the risks of BBFS its hard to not say something.
If you don't offer it why are you so concerned? you're safe as are your clients coming to see you no? case closed no? some people are into scat or hamsters are you concerned about that? How is it you feel threatened by this unless you are doing something that puts you at risk.
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Maybe she’s worried about clients getting bbfs elsewhere and then seeing her after?
I don’t know. I find it kind of humorous in the sense that a great deal of SP’s have total scumbag boyfriends that they regularly engage in bareback sex with.
What can you do. Protect yourself and don’t bother trying to will common sense unto others.
I don’t know. I find it kind of humorous in the sense that a great deal of SP’s have total scumbag boyfriends that they regularly engage in bareback sex with.
What can you do. Protect yourself and don’t bother trying to will common sense unto others.
Yeah, kinda twisted.
Trippy thing is that SP's scumbag boyfriends are banging the same SP's BFF and BFF's hotter sister.
Kicker, same scumbags are banging other SP's that BBFF.
For reals. You can't make this shit up.
This is coming from the girl that drunk posted she chills out at oasis trying to get laid.
being worried doesn’t relate to asking people to pool together to shame clients for asking for a service. I think we all had bareback sex with our SO And I am sure she has done so with her civie boyfriends. What’s the big deal with just saying no you don’t offer that service?
The good news is that guys with sketchy beliefs eventually "out" themselves. Hopefully working girls take note of what was said in this thread and avoid him.
Don't believe everything you're told. There's so much bitching and jealousy and rumour spreading in the industry that stories just get made up.
The fact that many are BBFSing their "badboy" boyfriends is the main reason I would never accept BBFS from any provider and if offered it's the last booking she's ever receiving from me and yes I've been offered from sex workers in every aspect of sex work.
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