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RANT: BBFS inquiries - who are these losers??

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Ben19

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It’s simple their body and their choice. Same principles as the “regular” people and how they view hobbyists participating in this hobby. Outsiders view us like majority view BBFS here however same fundamental principles apply, their body and their choice. Plus you have a higher risk getting STD from a chick you pick up at a bar vs. an SP or MPA who gets tested regularly. Some people enjoy the thrill of it and excitement provided it is always their CHOICE. Don’t fucking forget it. It’s a fundamental breach to attempt to take someone’s choice regarding what they want to do to and with their bodies.
Agreed, its just I want to make sure people know the riskls before they make their choices thats it.
 

TeeJay

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I have explained this to you many times, Teejay. Consent is contextual and it is not indefinite. Just because someone gives you consent to have sex with them doesn’t mean you can then bring your buddy in and have him fuck her too, it doesn’t mean you can jam your cock up her ass without asking, and if she tells you to use a condom and you do not do so, that too is a non-consensual sexual act (because she consented to sex with the stipulation that you wear a condom). How is it so difficult for you to understand how consent works? No consent = rape. Period. If you can’t grasp that, maybe people shouldn’t be having sex with you.
Your argument is childish and not even remotely relevant (eg bring a buddy in lol)

Its pretty clear cut
If a woman says I can fuck her and I do there is no crime
If a woman says I can fuck her with a condom and I do not wear one would be an issue except no woman ever says this

I am speaking from experience that no woman ever says this but don't worry you should get laid one day by a civie and then you can come back to compare notes
With a pro it is totally irrelevant since the sex act is ALWAYS illegal, you can not contract an illegal act, so regardless of what either of you say is irrelevant in eyes of the law
 

TeeJay

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I beg to differ. If it is misrepresented carnal knowledge, it is rape. If the man promised to use contraception, and removes it during sex, then the courts woudl see it as rape.

However, 'Rape' was abolished and converted to Sexual Assault in 1982.
Differ on what???
I said no such thing in Criminal Code as a charge of Rape

You quoted the fact it is not a charge since early 80s

Those 2 facts co-exist so what are you disagreeing about???
 

Grimnul

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Your argument is childish and not even remotely relevant (eg bring a buddy in lol)

Its pretty clear cut
If a woman says I can fuck her and I do there is no crime
If a woman says I can fuck her with a condom and I do not wear one would be an issue except no woman ever says this

I am speaking from experience that no woman ever says this but don't worry you should get laid one day by a civie and then you can come back to compare notes
With a pro it is totally irrelevant since the sex act is ALWAYS illegal, you can not contract an illegal act, so regardless of what either of you say is irrelevant in eyes of the law
So, your argument is that with a pro, since the sex you’re having is illegal anyway, it can’t be rape even if you do things that she explicitly told you not to do? Ok. Also, pointing out that “rape hasn’t been a crime for decades” is pedantic and silly. They just changed the terminology. It’s still the same thing. It’s like arguing that the SkyDome no longer physically exists because they renamed it. And no woman has ever told a guy they have to wear a condom? You understand we’re having this debate because a sex worker literally said there are guys who try to take condoms off after being told they need to wear one? I guess you don’t count sex workers as women, since you only seem to care about what applies to “civies”.

Just want to reiterate here: Teejay just stated that he essentially thinks it’s fine to rape sex workers because the sex you’re having is already illegal so you won’t get in trouble for the rape.

How do you remember to breathe?
 

Ben19

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Your argument is childish and not even remotely relevant (eg bring a buddy in lol)

Its pretty clear cut
If a woman says I can fuck her and I do there is no crime
If a woman says I can fuck her with a condom and I do not wear one would be an issue except no woman ever says this

I am speaking from experience that no woman ever says this but don't worry you should get laid one day by a civie and then you can come back to compare notes
With a pro it is totally irrelevant since the sex act is ALWAYS illegal, you can not contract an illegal act, so regardless of what either of you say is irrelevant in eyes of the law
Holy fucking shit. A Sex Worker can still be raped, I was really hoping that is common sense but it appears it is not to some. Also when a women tells you to do or not do something (i.e. wear a condomn) and you dont without their consent it is rape whether with a civy or with a pro as you call them.


In the eyes of the law as you say im sure hiring an escort and raping one is treated differently.

I feel very sorry for you and the girls that have to tolerate shit like this.
 

Grimnul

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Holy shit I just read TeeJays post... fucking scary.

Thank you Ben19 and Grimnul. Your perspectives are much appreciated.
Teejay consistently manages to make the dumbest, most ignorant posts on a forum that boasts such luminaries of idiocy as Big Sleazy and Crimson Mire. It’s honestly rather impressive. Really, I just wanted to make sure to point out, in plain language, exactly what he said so that any SP who looks up his terb handle will know about his... shaky relationship with consent issues. I’ve explained this stuff to him many times, it’s really not a difficult concept. If a woman, SP or otherwise, tells you not to do something in bed (or wherever it is you happen to enjoy getting down) and you do that thing, that is a nonconsensual sexual act. That is rape. Period. He seems to disagree.

Just something to consider for any SP perhaps perusing his post history at some point in the future.
 

Ben19

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Holy shit I just read TeeJays post... fucking scary.

Thank you Ben19 and Grimnul. Your perspectives are much appreciated.
Its nothing we need thanking for its common sense. 99% of people dont agree that raping a SW is okay but some guys here say shit like that. Then there are the users that are pathological in their conspiracy. There is also the group that if you dont agree with what they think girls should do would go to the extent of doxing. All this is thanks to the anonymity of the internet, its no shock. Its best to ignore these people but when someone is essentially saying raping sex workers is okay or spreading misinformation about the risks of BBFS its hard to not say something.
 

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The sweet suffering of gonorrhoea and chlamydia is an experience to behold. The painful urination, the oozing urethral discharge. It's practically a rite of passage for hobbyists. It can all be yours for just one unforgettable bbfs session.
 

lessjamie7

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Seriously, why is this a thing now? Are sps everywhere offering this as a 'service'? This is just morally unsound to partake in this, even if it is a preference! Why are there SO many requests/questions regarding BBFS? Not to mention these guys will never reveal who they are. I ask them where they saw my ad and radio silence - could it be because they KNOW they shouldn't even be asking for it? Can we start a thread for blacklisting any numbers who inquire about bbfs? (Obviously they are only texters). Yes, I know there is a SP-only thread for BLACKLISTING purposes, but I felt I had to hear from both sides and am posting in general lounge to know what both sides have to say on this matter. I only advertise on certain platforms so ladies - do you find these inquiries only come from a certain platform? Feel free to PM me.

I just did a search on 'BBFS' and discovered several sps who have to advertise that they do not offer this service which just goes to show that it is requested or inquired about often enough for it to have to be on someone's ad. Seriously, WHY? I am so bothered by this as an sp coming back into the industry. This never used to happen before, and if it did it would be a huge FAUX PAS. Firstly, as an sp, if a client is asking me for bbfs I would NEVER feel safe to engage in any sexual activities with him - EW, so fking gross. It's not a judgment on wanting bbfs - but looking for it HERE? Huge turn off. This client who goes around asking for this service, im sure its a numbers game until someone or several sps say YES.

Ladies - do I literally have to put on my ad 'NO BBFS'? I thought this was common sense. Literally, COMMON sense. I understand 'consensual' on both sides. I get it, greek is a service, but it's not one I offer. But bbfs?? This is just wrong. This is coming from someone who thoroughly prefers BBFS with personal partners who I have grown comfortable/monogamous with!! It's just not safe to do so when engaging in activity with multiple partners.

In the short time I have been back I have gotten about 5-7 different numbers inquiring about BBFS. WHYYYYYYY!!!

Are people not caring as much anymore about potentially catching/spreading STIs? Are we going back to hippie ages? Is the industry changing in such a way that I missed while away for a few years?? Are people just more vocal about wanting it or more fearless about requesting it whereas before there was more common courtesy?? Is this younger people? Older people? Please - I need some light shone on this matter!!
If you don't offer it why are you so concerned? you're safe as are your clients coming to see you no? case closed no? some people are into scat or hamsters are you concerned about that? How is it you feel threatened by this unless you are doing something that puts you at risk.

LJ
 

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Maybe she’s worried about clients getting bbfs elsewhere and then seeing her after?

I don’t know. I find it kind of humorous in the sense that a great deal of SP’s have total scumbag boyfriends that they regularly engage in bareback sex with.


What can you do. Protect yourself and don’t bother trying to will common sense unto others.
 

Euro Male

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concrete jungle of toronto . . .
Maybe she’s worried about clients getting bbfs elsewhere and then seeing her after?

I don’t know. I find it kind of humorous in the sense that a great deal of SP’s have total scumbag boyfriends that they regularly engage in bareback sex with.
Yeah, kinda twisted.

Trippy thing is that SP's scumbag boyfriends are banging the same SP's BFF and BFF's hotter sister.

Kicker, same scumbags are banging other SP's that BBFF.

For reals. You can't make this shit up.
 

Brentt556677

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If you don't offer it why are you so concerned? you're safe as are your clients coming to see you no? case closed no? some people are into scat or hamsters are you concerned about that? How is it you feel threatened by this unless you are doing something that puts you at risk.

LJ
This is coming from the girl that drunk posted she chills out at oasis trying to get laid.

Maybe she’s worried about clients getting bbfs elsewhere and then seeing her after?

I don’t know. I find it kind of humorous in the sense that a great deal of SP’s have total scumbag boyfriends that they regularly engage in bareback sex with.


What can you do. Protect yourself and don’t bother trying to will common sense unto others.
being worried doesn’t relate to asking people to pool together to shame clients for asking for a service. I think we all had bareback sex with our SO And I am sure she has done so with her civie boyfriends. What’s the big deal with just saying no you don’t offer that service?
 

Euro Male

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concrete jungle of toronto . . .
If you don't offer it why are you so concerned? you're safe as are your clients coming to see you no? case closed no? some people are into scat or hamsters are you concerned about that? How is it you feel threatened by this unless you are doing something that puts you at risk.
This is coming from the girl that drunk posted she chills out at oasis trying to get laid.
Busted! :biggrin:
 

OldCummer

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Holy shit I just read TeeJays post... fucking scary.

Thank you Ben19 and Grimnul. Your perspectives are much appreciated.
The good news is that guys with sketchy beliefs eventually "out" themselves. Hopefully working girls take note of what was said in this thread and avoid him.
 
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