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kinjpatel18

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just found Cialis comes in 5 mg and 20 mg
wondering which one to take and when to take before.....

any experience
 

RZG

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just found Cialis comes in 5 mg and 20 mg
wondering which one to take and when to take before.....

any experience
The 20 mg is good for three days for sure..possibly four. I break them in half.. two strong days easily. Either way take one, 1 hour to 90 mins. in advance. I`ve never tried the 5 mg. My side effects are a fairly congested nose for a few hours and a full feeling face, no big deal. Also I seem to get a very aware feeling of perception, sight and sound. Never any sign of a headache though.
 

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Tried Viagra once to see what the hype was all about. Never again. horrible heart burn feeling for a few days, insanely congested, and completely random hard ons through out the day. I was walking through the eatons centre, and he decided to wake up for no reason.... and I wasn't checking any women at the time. As for erections.. yup it works.... but way too many negative sides for me.

I dropped a few pounds, don't drink as much (not that I drank much anyway) and kept active. Helped a lot.

Like Captain Kirk said.... being stressed, or occupied outside the moment def does not help.
It's possible you took too large a dose on too empty of a stomach. I've used Viagra four times (I'm young but used to be on antidepressants, which meant I couldn't always get hard) and experienced a milder version of some of what you described, until the last time when I took the pill on a completely empty stomach ahead of a morning session.

Felt like shit for the rest of the day, but had no problem getting and staying hard LOL.
 

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Nothing is surprising in that at the age of 57, you have problems with an erection. It's very sad, but all men go through it once.
It seems to me that you need professional advice from a doctor. You can ask for advice at https://mensclinictoronto.ca/penis-augmentation/.
When I had problems with an erection, it was here that I found help and answers to my questions.
You can put up with it and hide it endlessly, or you can solve the problem.
Good luck to you; I hope that you will figure it out.
 
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It seems to me that it's all about age. You just need to consult a urologist.
An aging urologist would be helpless with ED unless the
urologist is a she. Your family doctor should be able to
prescribe you Viagra without sending you to see a specialist.
 

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An aging urologist would be helpless with ED unless the
urologist is a she. Your family doctor should be able to
prescribe you Viagra without sending you to see a specialist.
Agreed. I got a prescription after a web consultation. Just answered a few questions.
 
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just found Cialis comes in 5 mg and 20 mg
wondering which one to take and when to take before.....

any experience
depends how hard and for how long you want it to last . 5mg to 10mg is a day one or 2 shots on goal
20 mg you the man all weekend ;)
 

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The 20 mg is good for three days for sure..possibly four. I break them in half.. two strong days easily. Either way take one, 1 hour to 90 mins. in advance. I`ve never tried the 5 mg. My side effects are a fairly congested nose for a few hours and a full feeling face, no big deal. Also I seem to get a very aware feeling of perception, sight and sound. Never any sign of a headache though.
everyone reacts differently based //all factors can be your size , what you ate when you ate last .....empty stomach works best
and yes similar side effects , headache with the higher does and heartburn is common with all PEDs.
 

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That doesnt work for everyone.
I tried the Vegan diet and it was the worst 2 months of my life.
A few years later I switched to all-meat carnivore diet and I've felt great ever since
That doesnt work for everyone.
I tried the Vegan diet and it was the worst 2 months of my life.
A few years later I switched to all-meat carnivore diet and I've felt great ever since
who is the girl in your message ? Wont need peds with her around LOL
 

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It's possible you took too large a dose on too empty of a stomach. I've used Viagra four times (I'm young but used to be on antidepressants, which meant I couldn't always get hard) and experienced a milder version of some of what you described, until the last time when I took the pill on a completely empty stomach ahead of a morning session.

Felt like shit for the rest of the day, but had no problem getting and staying hard LOL.
Agree too large a dose will do that ....start off smaller doses for smaller peckers LOL :)
 

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That doesnt work for everyone.
I tried the Vegan diet and it was the worst 2 months of my life.
A few years later I switched to all-meat carnivore diet and I've felt great ever since
Plant based is better than the SAD- standard american diet. So most feel quite a bit better at first. Some continue to thrive on it but most don't over time. It's got to many nutritional holes in it.

Carnivore or the lion diet is more in line with our evolutionary biology. Ketogenic eating has proven to be very successful in controlling type 2 diabetes and metabolic syndrome.
 
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I was in the same boat some time ago, have you tried sensual massage? It worked for me. I found local salondream parlour in Kiev, their masseuses are really hot and sensual. It was great experience, very arousing.
 
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The shot clock runs with the ED pills, the game clock (game of life) runs us down, leaving us with memories of the way we were.
 

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Hey peeps
I'm 57 and I started hobbying last year to see if I still function down there. The truth is that years of porn and self gratification in a frigid marriage has messed with my responses.
Here are my experiences to date. Do they make sense?

1 year ago -
  • Connected with a private MP in her condo near Lansdowne and Dupont. She was very kind and gave a decent massage but she was quite chubby. I couldn't get off. i barely got hard. I accepted responsibility and told her it was nerves etc. I then lurked for a year reading backpage and Terb forums and thinking about it
  • December met Lilly at Lin Spa. Her enthusiasm, her technique her good vibes - I wasn't as stiff as I would have liked but she was great with her mouth and then different positions. Got off - had a great time.
  • Back at Lin Spa - met Kelly - great horny session to completion. Thank you Kelly!
  • Then U-Spa - met an older slim trim Thai woman. God she was nice but it didn't happen. She may have been too nice. not particularly sexy. And older. Like could have been fifty. Very trim fifty.

So my batting average is only two out of five. Is it all me? Is it that I need slim women who appeal to me more - or in other words - should I be able to get off with any female?

At 57 I am not a fatty but I don't do sports and I ride my bike to work and walk up five flights many times. Do i need testosterone injections?

How do I get the strength back in the tool? Is it me? Can I improve my situation?

I don't expect a doctors diagnosis but if anyone has relevant experience I would appreciate knowing about it.

Lastly - I don't like going to a condo or for a massage and they are hiding their age and weight behind the door. Where can I find some truly slim trim korean MP or FS Providers. Help!

Older Man After Sweet Korean (OMASK)
I am a little younger but have had ED on and off. Here's what worked for me:

- Good sleep hygiene
- 4 times/week exercise cardio & weightlifting ---> weightlifting is important as it raises testosterone levels naturally
- Diet should include lots of protein from healthy sources such as chicken, turkey, fish (salmon), eggs etc. As well as fresh produce, fruits & vegetable daily
- Onions and garlic included in the diet
- supplements of Omega 3, vitamin D, zinc, magnesium
- no junk food ever
- limit alcohol
 

lomotil

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Fucking young (legal) wet pussy seems to be an elixir and catalyst for ED in many humble options.
 

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To the OP, is the issue hardness or getting over the edge?

I am not in your age bracket so I can't speak to anything physical or medical but I can only describe my own experiences. For a while I went to a few MP's and had a number of appointments where I could not be finished. No issue getting hard but a few ladies could not seem to get me over the edge. Sometimes it was technique - too light/soft. Sometimes it was a lack of persistence - they'd get close but would either switch something or slow down or stop before completion. And it seemed like I would get hard but could only maintain it for a certain amount of time before the strain of maintaining was too much. Here are a few of my conclusions

1) Never had an issue by myself so it wasn't a physical or medical issue
2) Some other girls did get the job done so it was definitely girl dependent
3) I found out it was dependent on more than just seeing a naked girl and having her touch me below. Needed more interaction, needed more sensuality, needed the girl to be somewhat engaged.
4) Seeing a girl with her hands/mouth on me was not enough. I needed a boob in hand, DATY, etc.
5) Many girls don't know what we like but are willing to take directions. I've given a few girls some tips and eventually they learned and it's been smooth sailing since.

So, are you able to finish yourself? If yes, not physical, purely mental emotional. You also indicated some girls worked for you, some didn't. Figure out the differences between the two successes and two failures - looks, touch, technique, etc. (BTW, you only gave 4 reviews so I think it's 2/4 not 2/5 unless you forgot one).

The answer to your question is no, you probably shouldn't get off with every female. Not every female will be your COT and get you going. That said, it's not solely based on looks. Been with some extremely hot girls with poor attitudes - not good sessions. Been with some girls that weren't DDG but the nicest kindest ladies and had amazing times. Sometimes personality, kindness, engagement, conversation, etc. are worth more than just looks.

Finally, porn is your friend - use it to figure out what you like. I'm not only talking about the types of girls but the type of stuff that turns you on. Maybe you like a certain look, a certain act, or a certain fetish. Plenty of ladies offer more than just bodyslides and massages (and extras).
so true, hey some men find all women beautiful and i think thats wonderfull. Wish i did would make it much easier but certainly some women really turn me on and others can do the exact opposite ........its not always how attractive they are but how attractive they are to you
 
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