One of the things that I found hard to understand about this industry is the idea of a client patronizing a SW with gifts. I see SP's and MPA's post their gifts from clients on their Twitter feed and also seeing some SP's post a link to their Amazon wishlist on their and men actually buying those accessories for them. I believe that the dynamic of a client/SW relationship is a business transnational relationship. She provides you service and you pay. Nothing more and nothing less. Anything outside of that dynamic such as buying them gifts I find to be very unnecessary. I feel that it makes the client seem like the SW is their actual significant other and on top of that, SWs are only a part of our lives in a business sense. SWs are not thinking about us at the back of their minds while they are off-work so I don't see a logical reasoning as to why would a client go out of their way to buy a SW a gift like they are their actual partner.
The majority of men who purchase gifts for SP/MP or dancers are men who are either one of the following
1. Socially inept
2. Do not have real relationships in their lives and filling the void with this hobby so they try to make this fantasy as real as possible
3. Men who are trying to sweep the SW off her feet (Buying her affections)
4. Money and gifts is not an issue to them (But then again how many of hobbyists are that well off that they can afford these lavish gifts and no if you are making $200K/year you shouldn't be buying $2000 handbags for SW)
I am sure there are other reasons but the majority of guys who do buy gifts would fall into the above categories.
It is safe to say majority of men who do gift SW's lavishly are not charmers or lookers/Don Juan's. People don't go around gifting their doctors, lawyers, accountants, etc....and I don't see a reason to gift anyone who already makes a significant amount of money and can afford these gifts themselves.
A small gift something that can be used during the session or a piece of lingerie I don't see anything wrong with it but buying a Louis Vuitton bag or a pair of Louboutin heels is just stupid.
Does anyone remember a man a few years back who was gifting a stripper I can't remember if it was a Club Pro or a Whiskey a Go Go dancer, he purchased her a lot of gifts I think it was in the hundreds of thousand and somehow the story was in the papers I can't remember if he had committed fraud or something else. A good look at him or a quick conversation would tell you the type of guys who buy gifts for SW.