I haven’t had a problem getting or using one sp as a reference for another.
Most ladies are professional.
But there is no way I’m paying a deposit in advance to a girl I’ve never met.
I have been cancelled on or ghosted so many times I lost count. Definately more times than I can count on fingers and toes. The one who cancelled on me today wanted me to reschedule. No! You’ve already inconvienced me enough.
I’ll go see someone else in he timeframe I reserved for you.
And, I’ll spend the money I reserved for you on someone else.
No deposit, so I don’t have to get my money back when she cancels, and she can’t hold my deposit hostage to make me come see her at my inconvienience.
Sorry for the rant, I’m usually cheerful
Hope y’all have a good night.